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just now, at Ustaz Jazir ASP, who was
part of the Shura Council of Jogokarian
Mosque, Yogyakarta, and for the last
year had served as an advisor to Radio
Silaturahim. He visited Rasil quite
often to provide advice, input, and
also joined us for several broadcasts.
Ustaz. Alhamdulillah, Ustaz Husein has
also arrived, and perhaps you could
lead a prayer for him, Ustaz.
May he be placed in the best position
by Allah's side. Please, Ustaz.
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious
, the Most Merciful. All praise is due
to Allah, Lord of the worlds. Praise
that is abundant, good, and blessed, as
our Lord loves and is pleased with. O
Allah, bestow blessings upon Muhammad
and the family of Muhammad. Peace be
upon you. O Messenger of Allah. Peace
be upon us and upon the righteous
servants of Allah. And may the peace,
mercy, and blessings of Allah be upon
you. Brothers and sisters who are
blessed by Allah. Hopefully this
morning, the second morning of the
month of Rajab which is sanctified by
Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, becomes a
month of education for us to truly
guard and uphold the honor of Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala, the honor of our
fellow human beings, as well as the
honor of our environment that we must
protect, all of which are things
sanctified by Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
. We have just heard the news of the
passing of Ustaz Jazir, who was quite
vocal and courageous in speaking the
truth without any hesitation. Yes, we
hope that his struggle and his jihad in
the path of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
will be accepted by Allah Ta'ala, his
sins forgiven, his status elevated, and
that he be gathered with the companions
of our Prophet who fought in the path
of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. He had
been ill for quite some time and had
undergone dialysis repeatedly.
Hopefully, his illness serves as an
expiation for his sins.
Amen.
Let us pray, beginning by reciting
al-Fatihah together. May this
recitation be a good means for us. To
open all our hearts and open the doors
of Allah's mercy.
Likewise, may there be forgiveness for
us, for the deceased, and for all
Muslim men and women. I seek refuge in
Allah from the accursed Satan. In the
name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the
Most Merciful. All praise is due to
Allah, Lord of the worlds, the Most
Gracious, the Most Merciful. Master of
the Day of Judgment. You alone we
worship and You alone we ask for help.
Guide us to the straight path. The path
of those upon whom You have bestowed
favor. Not of those who have evoked [
Your] anger or of those who are astray.
Amen.
Amen. In the name of Allah, the Most
Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise
is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds. O
Allah, bestow blessings upon Muhammad
and the family of Muhammad. O Allah, we
ask You by Your name that is good, pure
, and blessed, the most beloved to You,
which when You are called upon by it,
You answer, and when You are asked by
it, You give, and when You are asked
for mercy by it, You show mercy;
forgive us and our brothers who
preceded us in faith, and all believing
men and women from the east of the
earth to its west. O Allah, forgive our
brother, Ustaz Jazir. O Allah, forgive
him, have mercy on him, grant him
well-being, and pardon him. O Allah, if
he was a doer of good, increase his
good deeds, and if he was a doer of
evil, overlook his sins. O Allah, grant
him an easy reckoning. O Allah, grant
him an easy reckoning. O Allah, grant
him an easy reckoning.
And make his grave, O our Lord, O Most
Merciful, O Most Compassionate, a
garden from the gardens of Paradise,
and do not make it a pit of fire. O
Allah, O our Lord, admit him into the
vastness of Your Paradise with those
whom You have favored, among the
prophets, the truthful, the martyrs,
and the righteous. O Allah, admit him
into the vastness of Your Paradise in
the company of Your Prophet Muhammad,
may Allah's peace and blessings be upon
him and his family, and grant patience
to his family. Indeed, to Allah we
belong and to Him we shall return. Our
Lord, You are the All-Hearing, the
All-Knowing, and You are the Accepting
of repentance, the Most Merciful. All
praise is due to Allah, Lord of the
worlds.
Amen. Amen. Amen. Amen, O Lord of the
worlds. God willing, may Ustaz Jazir
ASP, as the advisory council of
Jogokariyan Mosque, be granted the best
place by Allah. Amen.
His contributions, MashaAllah, in
making Jogokariyan Mosque and many
other mosques in various regions
flourish, Ustaz. MashaAllah. Regarding
how to manage a mosque correctly, and
how to make a mosque flourish.
MashaAllah, may that also be a
continuous charity for him. Amen.
Amen, O Lord of the Worlds.
Brothers. Very well. On this occasion,
Ustaz, perhaps we would like to discuss
the nobility of a mother, Ustaz. This
is also a question often asked by
listeners, about the true status of a
mother in Islam compared to other
family members. And also, why did the
Prophet mention the word 'mother' three
times before mentioning 'father' in the
hadith regarding who is most entitled
to good treatment. Also, we request an
explanation of the deep meaning behind
the phrase "heaven is under the feet of
mothers." Is this hadith authentic, and
also regarding traditions, Ustaz? The
culture of honoring mothers on Mother's
Day, Ustaz, on December 22nd, which
coincides with today. Does this
constitute imitation (tasyabbuh), and
other questions? Essentially, how does
Islam honor a mother? We invite you,
Ustaz. I seek refuge in Allah from the
accursed Satan. In the name of Allah,
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Praise be to Allah, Lord of the Worlds,
praise that is abundant, good, and
blessed, as our Lord loves and is
pleased with. Our Lord, increase our
knowledge. O Allah, grant us mercy from
Yourself and provide us with knowledge
that is beneficial to us. Brothers and
sisters who are blessed by Allah. In
the midst of a society drowned in
materialism, we find that family
relationships and brotherhood, are
becoming, day by day, what?
Increasingly fragile. (H)
The warmth that we felt in the past,
when most humans were still conscious,
not yet controlled by the extraordinary
materialistic life like today. We truly
feel that when we meet one of our
family members, our relatives, we feel
an extraordinary warmth. After a long
time without meeting, we feel a longing
. Especially for both of our parents.
If we listen to the words of Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala in the Qur'an, we
find that the status of both parents is
so noble. Until Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala says: "And your Lord has decreed
that you worship none but Him." In the
testament that Allah poured into
Suratul Isra, and this testament is one
that was also conveyed to the prophets
and messengers before our Prophet
Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
Including being among the 10
commandments that Allah gave to Musa.
Allah has decreed, Allah uses the word
'qada' here which shows firmness, "
waqada rabbuka." Your Lord has decreed
"alla ta'budu illa iyyah." That you do
not worship anything except Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala. "Wabil walidaini
ihsana." And Allah also commands you to
treat both your parents with 'ihsana',
with good and noble treatment. Whether
our parents are believers or not, the
decree from Allah requires us to treat
them with nobility. If someone is
obedient to Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala,
worships Him, and gives charity,
executing the commands of Allah, but
neglecting one's parents, then all the
obedience performed will crumble and
fall away. This is not a trivial matter
. Just as someone, even if they live a
life doing good on the face of this
earth, but they associate partners with
Allah, then they will not receive
forgiveness from Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala. Just as if they believe in the
oneness of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala,
perform prayers, pay zakat, perform
Hajj, fast, and are kind to the
community, but they waste their parents
,
then there is no hope for them to enter
into paradise. Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala repeatedly reminds us, giving us
a testament to treat our parents well.
Then the question is, why does Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala not remind us to
treat our children with nobility? H why
is it that regarding wives, Allah
commands us to treat them with kindness
, "wa'asyiruhunna bil ma'ruf." And a
woman becomes our wife after the
marriage contract. But for parents, our
relationship with them is a
relationship that is truly very deep.
Our conception happened through the
union of our father and mother. We grew
in our mother's womb. Therefore,
Allah's message regarding parents is
specifically for our mothers. It is
explicit in the Qur'an. As the word of
Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala in Surah
Al-Ahqaf. Wa wassaynal insana bi
walidayhi ihsana. We sternly advise
every human being that they treat both
their parents with good and noble
treatment. Hamalat-hu ummuhu kurha wa
waḍa'at-hu kurha. Especially the
mother who carries with hardship in
uncomfortable conditions. Not for a day
or two, but nine months. Wa
waḍa'at-hu kurha. And she also gives
birth with great difficulty, even
possibly experiencing hemorrhage,
pushing herself toward death. But
although she carried with difficulty,
gave birth with difficulty, as soon as
she gives birth to her child, her heart
, her soul, her face are full of
beaming happiness because of love for
the child. Wa hamluhu wa fiṣaluhu
thalathuna syahr. The period of her
pregnancy plus the breastfeeding period
until weaning is approximately 30
months. That is a fairly long time. Is
it finished? No. After weaning, a
mother's duty is actually even heavier.
She begins watching over her child,
caring for them, then paying more
attention to the child than to herself.
When she finds her child in a healthy
state, in good condition, beaming, her
heart is happy and joyful. But when she
finds her child in an uncomfortable
state or sick, her heart is restless,
her tears well up as she witnesses her
child in a state of sickness, fever,
especially when they face dangerous
moments. The child feels the heat and
the pain of the illness, but the
mother's heart is fuller with worry and
truly pure love. She works for her
child, not for 1 hour, 2 hours, or 3
hours,
but works for 24 hours without
receiving any reward. Sometimes, even
when the child succeeds, they forget
their parents. Their attention is
focused more on their wife and children
. This is why Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
repeatedly conveys His will to us to
treat our parents with noble treatment.
Because water usually does not go up
unless it is pumped. It always flows
downwards towards children and towards
a wife. A man gives his attention
without being reminded. But towards his
parents, whose services are greater
than his wife and children. We often
encounter children who do not remember
the kindness of their parents. They
assume that what their parents did was
an obligation to their children. While
they do not feel obligated to be
devoted, do good, and treat their
parents nobly. It turns out parents '
care is not just limited to one or two
years. Even though they are already
married, if their child is sick, a
mother's worry is greater. Likewise
parents towards whom? Towards their
child. Even though they have separated,
even though they have a household, even
though they have children, once parents
hear their child is sick, their heart
immediately feels uncomfortable. A love
that is truly sincere, pure, without
expecting a reward. But many children
nowadays. A man, once married, has
great attention for his wife and
children, but forgets his parents. Some
even make their parents like domestic
helpers to take care of their children.
Instead of honoring them. Even though
Allah has repeatedly given His will to
them. We even hear the conversation and
words of someone who was asked, "What
if a child's income is only enough for
him, his wife, and his children, and he
is unable to help his parents?" the
answer. Then he gives what he gets to
his wife and children.
He is not yet obligated to help his
parents when his income is not
sufficient. It turns out the answer
from GPT, which we consider not a
sentient being. AI has
when asked, "What is your opinion if
someone's income is just enough for his
family, while he is unable to meet the
needs of his parents who are in
difficult circumstances?" The answer,
the income is divided into two. Part
for his parents, part for his family.
This is a truly interesting answer. Why
? Because Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala,
with the kindness given to his parents,
will open the doors of mercy. This is a
test. A test to examine his gratitude
towards his parents. As soon as he
gives attention to his parents, Allah
will open the doors of His mercy.
Therefore, whoever wants their sins
forgiven, their sustenance eased, and
their status raised, honor their
parents. I personally know several
people who are very devoted to their
parents, treat their parents
extraordinarily,
and always sternly remind their wives.
to treat both of their parents well.
Including reminding their children and
those around them to honor their
parents. A son says to his wife, "I can
forgive you if you make mistakes
between you and me." But if you treat
my parents in a way that is not noble,
then I will decide to separate from you
. His time and attention toward his
parents were incomparable. He felt that
all his success and what he achieved
were because of his parents' sacrifices
. Once, when he married a woman, she
felt angry whenever she saw her husband
giving to his parents. She said, "You
should ask for my permission if you
want to give anything to your parents.
I am your wife, your partner." Her
husband said, "They gave everything for
me. And what you receive right now is
all thanks to my mother's sacrifices."
Because of his wife's behavior, he
decided to leave her. He separated from
his wife. That is also what happened to
the football player from Spain, Ronaldo
. He left his wife. Because of what?
Because she was rude to his mother. He
then said, "My success is because of my
mother's struggle. She worked as a
manual laborer washing clothes to buy
shoes for her child so he could play
football." So we see that in this era,
materialism has truly replaced noble
values, moral values, devotion to
parents, love and warmth for the family
, and being kind and noble to others.
They consider all these things
incomparable to material value, which
they truly cherish and honor. They also
honor people who possess material
wealth. They look down on the little
people who are poor and helpless. This
is not just happening in general
society, but even among religious
people, this is often done by them.
Acting rudely toward their parents.
Likewise in Surah Luqman. Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala recounts how Allah
tells of Luqman giving advice to his
son. In between, Allah reminds every
child to treat their parents with
nobility. Allah says in Surah Luqman,
starting from verse 12. Walaqina
luqmanal hikmata aniskurillah wam
yaskur fainnama yaskuru linafsih waman
kafara fainnallaha ghaniyun hamid.
Indeed, We have bestowed upon Luqman
wisdom. This 'hikmah' is truly wisdom.
Placing things in their proper place.
Behaving in the proper place as well.
So Allah says, "Waman yutal hikmata
faqad utiya khairon katir.""Whoever is
given wisdom has indeed been given an
abundance of good." We bestowed upon
Luqman wisdom, until he became known as
Luqman al-Hakim. Anisykur lillah.
Anisykur. You should be grateful to
Allah. Wam yaskur fainnama yaskuru
linafsih. Whoever is grateful, surely
their gratitude will return as a
benefit to themselves. When he is
grateful to Allah, Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala is not benefited. But his
gratitude, its benefit returns entirely
to him. Being grateful to both parents
because of obeying Allah Ta'ala. Allah
will bestow infinite mercy and
blessings upon him. Waman kafar
fainnallaha ghaniyun hamid. Whoever is
ungrateful, indeed Allah is
All-Sufficient and Worthy of all praise
. Allah bestowed upon Luqman wisdom.
Among the greatest forms of wisdom is
to be grateful to Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala. Waid qala Luqmanu libnihi
wahuwa ya'izuhu. Ya bunayya la tusyrik
billah inna syirka lazhulmun 'azim. And
when Luqman said to his son, giving him
the best advice and guidance, "Never
associate partners with Allah Subhanahu
wa ta'ala." Inna syirka lazhulmun' azim
. Indeed, shirk (polytheism) is a great
injustice. There is no greater
injustice than shirk. Once a person
associates partners with Allah, they
have betrayed the Allah who created
them without any partner. Yet they
associate Allah with His creations. As
a consequence of this shirk, it will
ruin their entire life. A life built
upon shirk is a broken life, a life
filled with injustice. It is different
from a life built upon faith in Allah,
faith in the Last Day, faith in His
Books, and faith in His Messengers,
which guides them on the straight path.
Then, Wa wassaynal insana biwalidayhi
hamalathu ummuhu wahnan 'ala wahnin wa
fishaluhu fi' amayni ani-skurli
waliwalidayka ilayyal mashir. In
between, eh, the favors that Allah gave
to Luqman, and likewise Luqman's
bequest to his son. Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala asserts, "Wa wassaynal insan.""
And We have strictly advised mankind
regarding their parents, to treat them
with noble treatment." Take care of,
pay attention to, and love your parents
who have sacrificed for you. Hamalathu
ummuhu wahnan 'ala wahnin wa fisaluhu.
She carried him through hardship and
difficulty. And the weaning period was
for two years. Then Allah reminds, "
Ani-skurli waliwalidayka ilayyal mashir
.""Give thanks to Me and to your
parents." And to Me, eventually, you
will be returned. We see Allah reminds
mankind to be grateful to Allah and to
be grateful to their parents. If in
Surah Al-Isra, "Qadha Rabbuka alla
ta'budu illa iyyahu wabil walidayni
ihsana." An affirmation and decree from
Allah. Whoever violates it will not
receive Allah's mercy, so that you do
not worship anyone except Allah alone.
And Allah also mandates that you treat
your parents with good and noble
treatment. Wa in jahadaka' ala an
tusyrika bi ma laysa laka bihi 'ilmun
fala tuti'huma washahibhuma fid dunya
ma'rufa. If your parents force you,
asking you to perform an act that is
not right, to associate others with Me,
or say, acts forbidden by Allah.
Parents order us to do something wrong.
Do not obey them. Washahibhuma fid
dunya ma'rufa. But continue to
associate with them in a kind way. Even
when parents commit shirk against Allah
, Allah still commands us to treat them
nobly. Our treatment should not be
connected to what? Their shirk toward
Allah. Their act of shirk is their own
responsibility. But the child must
still treat their parents with nobility
. Truly, this is such beautiful
guidance and direction in life. Truly.
Washahibhuma fid dunya ma'rufa wattabi'
sabila man anaba ilayya. In this life's
journey, follow the path of those who
return to Me. Not the path of those
controlled by desires, by the love of
the world, forgetting the hereafter.
Their lives are tossed about by the
devil in the midst of unclear waves of
life. Tumma ilaiya marjiukum
faunabbiukum bimaa kuntum tam'malun.
Then to Me you will all be returned,
and I will inform you of what you used
to do. Life in this world is not long.
Even if we live for 100 years, our life
is brief. Because one day in the sight
of Allah is equal to 1,000 years. So
that means we only live 1/10 of one day
of the hereafter. Whereas the life of
the hereafter has no end. What will we
boast about? We chase the world that
runs away from us. We are full of
loyalty to the world, yet the world
betrays us. When we are left helpless,
the world only watches and laughs at us
. Because we have prioritized the world
while forgetting Allah. Who created
this world. In the end, we become a
game tossed about by anxiety, unrest,
fear, and hope, all of which are
illusions and mirages. Unlike those who
love Allah, Allah grants them both the
world and the hereafter. So remember,
before long you will be returned to Me
and I will inform you of what you used
to do. Ya bunayya, O my son. Innaha in
taku mithqala habbatim min khardalin
fatakun fi sakhratin aw fis samawati aw
fil ardhi ya'ti bihallah. Innallaha
latifun khabir. O my son, truly any
deed any deed, no matter how small, be
it associating partners with Allah,
sins, evil, or oppression, no matter
how small, say that the deed, that deed
is only the weight of a mustard seed.
This is an expression for something
extremely, extremely small. Say that
the deed you did is a small deed.
Hidden in a rock or kept in the heavens
or in the earth. Its existence is
hidden. Allah will bring that deed
forth. Yati bihallah. Innallaha latifun
khabir. Indeed, Allah is the Subtle.
Meaning, whatever is subtle, no matter
how small, will be brought forth by
Allah. Allah's scales vibrate for
anything, no matter how small, and not
just material things. Things that are
abstract will make the scales of Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala vibrate. Not just
small things, not just material ones;
abstract things will make Allah's
scales vibrate, no matter how small.
That is the mercy and love of Allah,
who will not let anyone's goodness go
to waste. But Allah will not let any
oppression, however small, committed by
humans pass, unless he repents back to
Allah. Innallaha latifun khabir. Indeed
, Allah is the Subtle, the Knowing. Ya
bunayya aqimis-salah, wa'mur
bil-ma'rufi wanha 'anil-munkar. O my
son, establish prayer. Then carry out
your duty as a member of society who
invites to what is good, to noble
values. Do not let evil instead be
called for loudly. Are there many?
Those who invite to it, while the voice
for what is good is low; you, together
with your friends and brothers, must
invite to what is good. Wamur bil
ma'rufi. Then wanil munkar and forbid
what is evil. Do not let the evil
openly, boldly, and loudly raise its
voice and show its face. While the good
remains hidden out of shame. Wa'mur
bil-ma'rufi wanha' anil-munkari washbir
'ala ma ashabaka inna dhalika min'
azmil-umur. Be patient with whatever
befalls you in your life's journey of
obeying Allah, inviting to the good,
and forbidding the evil. Because the
trials you face are trials that are
truly of great value. Therefore,
prophets who possess a patient soul,
who invite to virtue, who call people
back to Allah, are known as Ulul Azmi
minar-rusul, prophets who possess great
determination. So, be patient with
whatever befalls you on the path of
Allah in conveying the messages of
Allah. And this is a great matter that
truly requires what? Great
determination. Therefore, its value is
also immense in the sight of Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala. Wala tus'hir
khaddaka lin-nasi wala tamshi fil-ardi
maraha. Do not turn your face away from
people in arrogance. Do not aggrandize
yourself before others, belittling them
by turning your cheek away from them
while speaking. When shaking hands,
instead of shaking their hands while
speaking sweet words, looking at them,
and honoring them, Allah will honor and
raise your status. So, do not turn your
face away in front of people. Wala
tamshi fil-ardi maraha. And do not walk
on the earth with pride. With full what
? Pride and arrogance. Allah Subhanahu
wa ta'ala emphasizes, "Innallaha la
yuhibbu kulla mukhtalin fakhur.""Allah
does not like anyone who is arrogant."
Mukhtal describes arrogant body
language. Fakhur is one who loves to
boast. Walk with simplicity and full
humility upon the earth. Then lower
your voice. Do not raise your voice too
high, which shows arrogance and pride.
Inna ankaral-aswati lasawtul-hamir.
Indeed, the harshest of all voices,
which is most disliked and rejected, is
the voice of the donkey. This is a
counsel, a testament that Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala has willed and
advised to us through the tongue of
Luqman al-Hakim. This is what? Advice
conveyed by Luqman and also recorded by
Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. Allah
conveys this to every nation. Now, if
we reflect together on the testaments
in Surah Luqman as well as in Surah
Al-Ahqaf, and also found in Suratul
Ankabut and Suratul An'am, it reminds
us all to truly worship Allah, not to
associate anything with Allah, and
secondly, to truly treat our parents
with nobility. Therefore, a child
should when they are mature and able to
work, their attention to their parents
should be even greater than their
attention to themselves or their own
family.
Because their family actually receives
what? Receives what? the success fought
for by her parents until she attained a
good husband, a husband capable of
working to provide for his wife, and
likewise for their children.
Therefore, guide our wives to respect
our parents. Just as a man should also
respect and honor his wife's parents,
who gifted their daughter to us after a
long upbringing without receiving
anything in return, with the hope that
we also treat their daughter with
nobility. But remember, do not let us
forget our own parents because of our
wives or our children. Therefore,
whoever honors their parents throughout
their life? God willing, Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala will grant them
honor, even if they are not a believer.
If they are a believer, Allah will
honor them in this world. Likewise, in
the hereafter, Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala will bestow honor upon His
believing servants who do not associate
anything with Allah and who honor both
their parents. Wallahu'alam (And Allah
knows best).
Very well, Ustaz. Next, Ustaz, let us
proceed. There are two questions, one
from Mr. Ahmad
in Cilegon, and Bunda Khairoh, who did
not mention her location, Ustaz,
regarding this nobility of the mother,
Ustaz. The first, Ustaz, how can one
heal the wounded heart of a mother if
we have committed a great mistake
against her in the past, Ustaz? Then
from Bunda Khairo, "Ustaz, what is your
message for the youth and our children
who nowadays sometimes prioritize their
hobbies or friends over serving their
mother's needs at home?" Okay, Ustaz.
That is all.
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious
, the Most Merciful. Our Lord, increase
us in knowledge and join us with the
righteous. Hobbies are a good thing for
someone as long as they lead to
positive things, and do not make one
forget their obligations to Allah,
their obligations to their parents,
their obligations to their family, and
their obligations to their society. But
if, for the sake of a hobby, they
ignore or neglect their obligations,
then by itself, this is not a good or
healthy thing. Like someone who has a
hobby of being addicted to consuming
cigarettes. Cigarettes are often viewed
as a trivial matter, right? Even though
we know that smoking, besides harming
ourselves, we can also wrong others
with the smoke that we puff from our
mouths, affecting people who do not
smoke, and also what? It can also harm
our wives and our children who receive
our smoke puffs every day. They spread
disease not only to themselves but also
to those around them. Thirdly, they
waste their wealth in the wrong places.
Fourthly, besides wasting their wealth
in the wrong places, they also what?
They also use their wealth for the
benefit of people who are of no use to
the community. For reasons like this,
the ruling on cigarettes is no longer
just makruh (disliked) but haram (
forbidden). Allah says in the Qur'an, "
Wala tubazzir tabzira." Do not spend
your wealth wastefully. "Innal
mubazzirina kanu ikhwanash-shayatin..."
Indeed, those who like to waste their
wealth are brothers to the devils. And
the devil is a creature that is defiant
toward its Lord. So we are befriending
and fraternizing with the devil. Who
says that smoking is not squandering
one's wealth? If there is a prohibition
in the Quran like this, it indicates it
is haram. Every command that lacks any
evidence or context to divert that
command indicates an obligation;
conversely, if there is a prohibition
without anything
that diverts from that prohibition,
then the ruling is haram. That is a
well-known principle in usul fiqh (
principles of jurisprudence). So on
this basis, based on this verse alone,
it is already haram. Second, committing
injustice (zulm). Allah forbids us from
committing injustice. Likewise, the
traditions (sunnah) of our Prophet
Muhammad, peace be upon him. Whether it
is harming ourselves, harming others,
our families, or our society. These are
all acts forbidden by Allah Subhanahu
wa ta'ala. In fact, Allah has forbidden
injustice upon Himself. Allah has made
injustice haram among us. Verses that
forbid us from committing injustice are
numerous. The Prophet's hadith, both
those spoken directly by the Prophet or
hadith qudsi, clearly forbid injustice.
This is already two matters.
Third,
plunging ourselves into destruction. Wa
la tulqu wa la tulqu bi-aydikum ila
al-tahlukah. Do not plunge yourselves
into destruction. Cigarettes clearly
cause damage slowly. When we should be
protecting our bodies, we damage them
with our own hands; our lungs, hearts,
and other organs also suffer
disturbances. Not to mention the wealth
we spend does not benefit the Muslims,
but benefits conglomerates and
oligarchs
whose contributions to the community
are invisible. Even if they pay taxes,
we know that some of these taxes leak
here and there. The ones who benefit
are officials, while the people only
hear the figures but do not enjoy the
results. In other countries, if people
pay high taxes, they truly feel the
impact. Feel what? They feel it, the
entire population feels it. Witness the
situation in Australia or New Zealand.
Welfare for those unable to work, those
who have no job opportunities at all,
and the sick truly receive attention
from the state. They are even given
appreciation for paying taxes. The gap
between rich and poor is not too wide,
unlike in developing countries. We
witness how little attention is given
to the people. In fact, if we look
closely, the people become victims of
the actions of those in power. Likewise
with the oligarchs who collaborate with
them, as we encounter where?
We encounter it in Sumatra
and in other places.
Alright, Ustaz. About the one earlier,
what about once having hurt Mother?
Alright. So, regarding what must be
reminded to our children, hobbies
that are harmful must be combated. And
we must remember that we are
responsible for the deeds we commit
and will one day stand before Allah
regarding this brief worldly life and
the hobbies we enjoyed. actually only
provides momentary pleasure, but will
become a heavy burden for us in the
hereafter later on. Therefore, negative
hobbies, hobbies that cause us to
neglect our obligations to God, to our
parents, to our families, to our
society, must be fought against. And
the community should also work together
. Because it is difficult if, for
example, what? One person faces such a
heavy trial amidst regulations that
allow it, and amidst a society that is
also fond of doing it. Now if we pay
attention, our media often encourages
wrongdoing. Advertisements leading
toward pornography as an example. It is
incredibly rampant, easily accessible
to anyone. Then, there are applications
that provide it that we can also
install, right. Even when asked about
age, a small child can easily lie.
Asked how old you are, you say 30 years
old?
They will not at all, what, they will
not ask further because why? This is
what? It is a profitable market for
them.
Yes.
Likewise regarding online loans,
regarding online gambling, regarding
infidelity. The applications are
available and easily obtained by anyone
who wants them. A country like this, a
country that destroys its people, truly
destroys what and corrupts their morals
. A nation is not measured by its
physical prosperity, but by its morals
and character. Therefore, a poet
expressed the Prophet's primary mission
, that a nation is seen by its
character and morals. If its character
and morals are corrupted, then that
nation, even if it exists, is the same
as non-existent. It is heading toward
destruction. So, let us help our youth
to live in a healthy environment,
healthy opinions, accustomed to doing
good things, and directed so that their
hobbies are in a positive, good
direction, that can truly what? Make
them responsible people toward their
families, toward society, toward the
nation and country. As for bad hobbies
like corruption,
Yeah. corruptive, yes, committed by
oligarchs or officials, these are
hobbies that must be fought. If the
people are aware, the community is
aware, all of this can be cleaned up in
an instant.
Yes.
But what is sad is that it turns out it
is not only those at the top who are
unjust; those at the bottom also do
injustice if they have the chance.
Those at the bottom here
have the chance to commit injustice. So
how will our country rise, succeed,
prosper, and live in an atmosphere full
of justice if we are fond of committing
injustice and enjoy unhealthy hobbies?
Therefore, ladies and gentlemen,
educate our children, not just from
when they start school and become
adults. But from a young age, set an
example. Keep our children busy, guide
them toward good and healthy hobbies.
Monitor their social circles so they do
not associate with bad people. But
associating with good people and
growing up in a good environment will
also foster healthy hobbies and habits
in their hearts. But if it is already
high school or college and parents
start panicking over their behavior,
then, ladies and gentlemen, you are too
late in this matter. They are already,
what? Adults. Those habits have already
taken root within them. So, let us
begin the education of our children.
Even from the moment we choose our
partners.
Hm. Choose a righteous woman. And women
should also choose a righteous husband.
Then, when together, always pray to
Allah; when the child is born, start
getting them used to a healthy
environment. Listen to the verses of
Allah, let the parents speak kindly,
and the mother must truly work together
with the husband to build goodness. No
screaming or shouting. Anger or
shouting heard by the child since they
were small will automatically be
imitated by the child from their
parents. Instead, spread good values
and make them a habit within our
children's environment and our family.
Wallahu a'lam (Allah knows best).
Very well, Ustaz. One thing, Ustaz,
that was missed. How, uh, if one has
hurt their mother in the past and
committed a major mistake against her?
That
means if a child realizes they have
done wrong to their mother, they can go
to their parent.
If she is still alive, it is a blessing
to go and ask for forgiveness from your
parent, correct your mistakes, follow
up your bad deeds with noble ones, and
serve your mother as best as you can;
the sad part is if your parent has
already passed away.
Then, when the parent has passed away,
the child still has hope by treating
those whom the mother loved with noble
treatment. Redeem those mistakes with
noble deeds. Perform righteous acts,
hoping in Allah that they will serve as
atonement for those mistakes. Then, if
they have siblings, treat them with
nobility.
Treat them with nobility. Likewise with
the parents 'siblings. Everyone who was
loved by your parent, treat them well
and nobly; those who need our help, we
help them and respect them. This is a
form of repentance that we hope will
make the mother in the afterlife smile
with joy, witnessing the child who once
hurt her. After she passed away, it
turns out the child realized their
mistake. And we hope that Allah
Subhanahu wa ta'ala bestows His mercy
upon the mother. Who lived a life of
hardship in this world, and may mercy
also be granted to the child who
repents back to Allah Subhanahu wa
ta'ala. And I am sure every parent
wants the best for their child. I met
an elderly person, a mother, whose
child was incredibly troublesome to her
.
To the point that the community, out of
annoyance with this child, placed the
child in the middle of the road so the
child would get hit by a car. Hit by a
car. But it turned out the mother was
crying hysterically and rushed in a
panic to save that child. A mother
never harbors hatred toward her child.
Even though sometimes she gets angry,
sometimes she says harsh words, but
after that, a mother's love will
continue to overflow in her heart and
she cannot hate the child she loves.
Therefore, it is a great loss for a
child who has both parents but does not
appreciate them. Especially in their
old age, so one should heed the command
of Allah Ta'ala. And for someone who
has parents, even if their good deeds
are not many, and even if they have
committed sins, by being devoted to
their parents while seeking the
pleasure of Allah, God willing, their
sins will be forgiven by Allah, their
status raised, and they will be
gathered with those honored by Allah
Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. Such is it,
brothers and sisters who are blessed by
Allah. Perhaps the previous answer was
mixed with other things, but all of it
is intended to remind us. And I am
among those who lost their mother since
childhood. So I truly feel the loss and
wish that if she were still alive, we
could treat her with nobility. But it
seems Allah had another will. May Allah
forgive our sins and mistakes. May
Allah bestow His mercy upon us. May
Allah make us noble human beings. Noble
towards the servants of Allah Ta'ala.
Good towards our family, our community,
and even towards our environment. We do
not cause destruction until we arrive
before Allah. We arrive in a state of
being people who are far from
committing injustice. May Allah
Subhanahu wa Ta'ala make our nation,
this Indonesian nation where the
majority are Muslims, truly noble
people so they do not shame their
religion, nor shame their prophet.
Likewise for those who have not yet
received guidance, may Allah grant them
guidance so that we are united in the
guidance of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.
Subhanakallahumma wabihamdik ashadu
alla ilaha illa anta astagfiruka wa
atubu ilaik wal afu minkum.
Wasalamualaikum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh.
Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh. Thus, brothers and sisters
, that was the reflection under the
shade of the Quran with our teacher
Ustadz Husein Alatas regarding how we
honor our mothers, brothers and sisters
. Let us pray for our mothers, may they
be granted health, goodness, and also
nobility from Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala
. For mothers who are still with us,
still alive, and also for mothers who
have left us first, may they be granted
forgiveness and a spacious grave,
Ustadz. God willing, they will be
placed in the best of places as well.
Amin.
Amin. Amin ya Rabbal Alamin. And
brothers and sisters, before we end, we
convey sad news again that a death has
occurred. Ustadz Muhammad Jazir ASP,
who was the Council of the Jokokariyan
Mosque in Yogyakarta. He passed away
this morning at 5:58 AM, Monday, today,
2 Rajab 1447 Hijriah, coinciding with
December 22, 2025. He also, in this
last year, quite intensely visited
Rasil to provide his advice in
fostering the Silaturahim radio.
MasyaAllah, may Allah forgive his sins
and may Allah accept his righteous
deeds and also his ongoing charity for
how he educated, especially the mosque
managers throughout Indonesia, to
create a better mosque civilization.
Brothers and sisters, we take our leave
. Billahi taufik wal hidayah.
Wasalamualaikum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh.
Waalaikumsalam.