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Berasil TV for Islam one.
Asalamualaikum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh, Ustazah. May
the peace, mercy, and blessings of
Allah be with you too. Are
you healthy, Ustazah?
Thank God.
Take care of your health, Ustaz.
Thank God. Hopefully everyone is
healthy too.
Amen. God willing. And the theme that
Ustazah Helina Amran will raise this
afternoon is Satan's strategy in
bringing people down. Tafadul Ustaz.
Bismillah. Alhamdulillah bint Allahumma
shi wasallim wabarik ala sayidina
Muhammadin waalalui wasohbi ajmain w
allahumma inna nasaluka ridaka wal
jannah wa naud naubika min sakatika
amen ya rabbal alamin. Thank God, this
afternoon we all hope to feel the
blessings that Allah has given us. we
feel blessings, we always praise them
for the blessings given without us
feeling how little or how big.
Sometimes God's blessings are many, but
we are not yet able to be grateful for
them. Hopefully we will be among the
grateful servants of Allah.
Amen.
We pray for our brothers and sisters
who are currently sick, hopefully they
will be healed soon. who are in a state
of sorrow, sadness, sorrow. May Allah
lift all your sorrows. And we also pray
to Allah that our brothers and sisters
who are currently in a state of
oppression, hopefully Allah will soon
free them from all their injustices.
God willing, Allah will give strength,
Allah will give unity to Muslims
wherever they are. God willing, today
we will discuss Satan's strategy. How
to trap people? We already know
everything, Miss Olin. We all know that
Satan is the enemy. Allah says innahum
adu. Yes, Satan is your enemy. So make
him an enemy. So, ee, our enemy means
we should not be complacent or feel
safe. Especially with the existence of
Surah An-Nas. Surah An-Nas that we read
almost every day, Miss.
Yes.
Every day. Perhaps in the morning dhikr
in the maksurat or in the evening we
always read qul auzubirabbinnas. So, ee
, in this verse, Allah ee said to the
Messenger of Allah, say qul ee, O
Muhammad audzubirabbinnas. I seek
refuge in Allah, the Sustainer of all
mankind. So, qul azubirabbinnas
malikinnas Ilahinnas min sharril
waswasil khannas alladzi yuwaswiwisu
yuwaswisu fi sudurinas minal jinnati
wasas. This verse, ee, hopefully we can
understand the meaning because we have
memorized it, Miss. If we memorize it
by heart, sometimes the meaning is just
missed. I will read the translation,
which we ee need to concentrate, be
solemn in understanding it. Ee, I seek
refuge in Allah, the protector of all
mankind, who rules over all mankind,
the God who has the right to be
worshiped by all mankind, from the evil
of insidious seditionists who rise and
fall who throw their instigations into
the hearts of men. Yuwaswi worries
seems to have become Indonesian. Be
careful, okay? Wasufi sudurinas in the
human heart. Feel eh those whispers uh
those are the whispers of the
instigator yes that's minal jinnati was
. Those who whisper are those from
among the devils, namely the jinn and
there are also humans, Sis, those
whispers. So, when we read this verse
every day, Allah ordered the Messenger
of Allah to pray and read this verse,
it is clear that in fact Satan's
strategy is extraordinary in wanting to
make humans follow it. Even the oath,
Sis, yes, in surah 7 yes, in surah
A'raf is clear. Summa laatiannahum min
baini aidihim wamin khalfihim wa
aimanihim wa syamailihim. I will come
at them from the right, left, front,
and back. So four positions, right? If
someone is surrounded, surrounded from
the front and back, where else can they
run? Most likely up, not down. So, what
this means is that it is a picture to
us as humans. Thus, Satan has an
extraordinary vision and mission. If we
say visionary, Satan is extraordinary
in wanting to bring humans in such a
way by tempting them from the front,
back, left, and right. Well, we see at
the end of this verse, eh, in verse 17
of Surah Ala'raf. Wala tajidu akaruhum
syakirin. So when tempted from the
front, back, left, and right, you will
not get much, much gratitude. So the
point is, if humans are not grateful,
they have fallen into Satan's trap,
they will be tempted from various
directions, eh. Well, here we need to
be vigilant. Well, as for humans, we
are humans, right? From eh, humans are
expensive, khotok, their place is
forgotten, right? But here we are
reminded again, me, we are all reminded
that there is Allah ee giving us
guidance for the Qur'an. Well, here ee
I will explain ee satan's strategy on
how to lead humans astray to realize
his vision and mission. So, basically,
it never knows fatigue, never knows
stop. Every moment, every moment, every
second there is always a devil who will
tempt humans. Even every day there is
an evaluation, there is a term there is
monitoring and evaluation, ee every
night all the devils are gathered and
asked to report. That is mutabaah in
our version or evaluation every day
what were you doing? What were you
doing? Masyaallah this is extraordinary
, this devil's work is tireless. If we
sometimes do good deeds, sometimes
there is a feeling of boredom, right,
Sis. There is a feeling even though we
understand that the reward is great,
sometimes there is a feeling of boredom
. It is not free from satan's
temptation, right. Well, here ee among
ee satan's strategies in leading humans
astray is with waswasah. Waswasah means
whispering doubts to people when they
do good. So, there is something that we
don't really feel. Maybe we feel like
we are a whole person. No one is
tempting us, but actually, there is
something that comes in, like this,
Miss. We can feel waswasah, for example
, while praying, and then an idea comes
, where does that idea come from?
Something that we forgot becomes
remembered.
Even though we weren't praying, we
didn't remember. How can that be? That
is, what? Satan's temptation. So, here,
Satan or the devil, one of his
strategies is to create waswasah.
Waswasah is whispers that make us doubt
something. For example, people who pray
sometimes forget, Miss. How many
rakaats are there? Four, three, or two?
That's waswasah.
Or, for example, a lot in everything.
When waswasah appears, that's the
devil's role. For example, there are
people who pray repeatedly, Miss,
takbiratul ihram. Allahu Akbar. Then ah
, it seems like they haven't used any
intention. Back again. Well, that's
satanic waswas.
Sometimes, yes, these are the whispers
that enter, eh, into us; things that
are actually, eh, without us realizing
it. Whispers or maybe waswas,
questioning very evil whispers, yes,
questioning; what's worse is
questioning the greatness of Allah.
Does Allah really exist? It seems
impossible if it's like that, right? So
if there's a feeling of waswas,
immediately dismiss it, say amantu
billah. I believe in Allah. So this is
a feeling of waswas, right? Well, there
is, eh, for example, waswas, so ee, in
the term, there is waswas, there is
tazin. Tazin means to decorate. So when
we talk about waswas, it's whispering,
right? Whispering is ee, inserting
something, right? Yes, for example, if
you wake up at 3:00 AM, you already
have the intention to pray Tahajud, you
wake up at 0:00 AM. Well, that's a
worry. Ah, it's still a long time, just
5 minutes to sleep again. I don't know
if an hour has passed. Or for example,
you
wake up, Miss, but you hold your phone
for a moment, just to see if anyone has
come in, eh, just a message, just to
look at the message. It turns out
there's an interesting message. Oh,
this is good. Let's see, and finally an
hour has passed. That is Satan's
temptation. Not only is that 5 minutes
of waswas, but it turns out that half
an hour is one of them. Well, another
form is tazin. Tazin means decorating
or wrapping sin with pleasure. So,
everything that carries sin usually
looks beautiful, right? For example, "
Sis, why do people who are dating look
attractive when they're out and about?
When a husband and wife go out, it's
just normal. There's no value, there's
nothing like that. That's a form of
tazin from Satan, considered beautiful.
Even though we know that dating is a
sin, while marriage is an act of
worship. So, when it comes to worship,
Satan can't tempt it. So, it can't be
tazined, it can't be decorated. How
does it look beautiful? Try dating.
They haven't even arrived, they haven't
even met yet, and they're already
imagining it. Imagining how beautiful
it is. Ah, time for daydreaming is over
. Try having a husband, a wife, and
never imagining that coming. It's just
normal. That's part of Satan's tazin,
which is a form of worship, there's
nothing beautiful to look at. It even
feels like a burden. For example, when
you're praying, it seems like counting
the rakaat is like three, then one, two
, it seems really burdensome. That's a
temptation from Satan. Tazin is
delicious, right? After this, what
should I do? This and that, those are
the whispers that Satan tempts us with.
Even sin is conjured by Satan to make
it seem more beautiful, enjoyable, and
impressive. This is what is called the
tazyin strategy. There's another
interesting thing, Sis. Satan is
extraordinary, right? Innahu lakum adu.
Satan is your enemy. That is, if ee
things that are disliked, things that
are forbidden in Islam are tazined by
Satan to be beautiful. For example,
what? Um, forbidden actions, for
example, khamr, right? That's clear, ee
, what? Khamr is alcohol, right? Later,
it's decorated with the name of an
energy drink. Wow, like that. If you
drink this, it increases your energy,
makes you warm, so don't expect it, ah,
tazin from Satan. A little is okay, as
long as you don't get drunk. This
increases your energy. Well, that's the
devil. So, ee, beautiful things are
created in the minds of humans so that
humans violate and follow what the
devil whispers. Another example is
tazin, right, making something
beautiful that Haram. Usury. What do we
call usury, Miss? Interest. Interest is
interest, it's okay. But if we study it
further, we understand that the fatwa
from the scholars is that usury is part
of interest. Well, we learn that usury
is extraordinary, Miss, the negative
impact of usury, right? Well, that's
the devil. Oh, a little bit is okay,
this is interest. Oh, this is okay.
Well, that's the tazin of the devil's
tazin. Or, for example, in Islam, it is
obligatory to cover one's genitals.
There is, eh, on the human side, when
in a state of negligence, the desire to
show one's genitals. So in this sense,
there must be the temptation of the
devil. Her hair is nice, why isn't it
shown and covered? People don't know.
It's sides like that. Finally, the
tazin from the devil appears in the
form of exposing the human genitals.
They call this women's freedom, why
should it be covered? This is my right.
Why? Like that. So the devil is really
Giving humans something that they
consider is worship, commands are
obeyed, they are made beautiful, as if
that's why it's not allowed to do that.
This is beautiful, Allah is most
beautiful. Why can't beauty rise like
that? That's the devil, right? Or for
example, Ikhtilatf. We know the truth,
right? Ikhtilat is a mixture of men and
women. ee, this is not permitted, yes,
eh, the mixing of human beings, men and
women in one place is not clear, is
that so? Well, that's actually not
allowed in Islam. But does Satan's ee
tazin say that this is progress, isn't
this modern society? That's how it was
in ancient times. So. So, the languages
, eh, the things that make Muslims feel
inferior are actually apart from
Satan's strategy to distance people
from Islamic teachings, right? Or for
example, yes, artists, actors, singers,
music, or obscene acts, or whatever,
all of which are contrary to Islamic
values, what they call that is tazin,"
This art is beautiful, it's okay, "just
like that. No, son. So, from here, if
Satan has started tempting us and we
are affected by his seduction, he
already considers people who want to
uphold Islamic values as outdated,
old-fashioned, unsophisticated, and
ignorant of art. Well, I don't know, ee
, in this modern era, it's so
unsophisticated. Finally, a feeling of
inferiority arises among Muslims. Or
for example, ee what ee things that ee
what is called tazin are decorating
something that ee actually in sharia
like that are made to beautify. So what
? Replaced or vice versa, for example,
Islamic teachings are then considered
ee something that is disliked. So in
obedience, a name is created that is
disliked, for example, a form of
obedience. For example, for example, ee
for example, the role of Satan, yes,
first in distorting the image of truth,
for example, ee people who obey Allah
want to hold fast to the Qur'an and
sunnah are called fundamentalists,
called radical fanatics, yes.
There is a term for that,
there is That's the term. Terms are
created, for example, prostitutes, so
the name is beautified, it's a little
bit, what's the name, it's refined,
workers, ee, what is PSK, yeah,
commercial sex workers, I think the
language is workers, you know. Oh, so
this is part of the workforce. Even
though it's a form of adultery or a
form of ee, something that is ee
outside, ee, extraordinary values,
which in Islam are very bad, but the
language is softened. Or for example,
ee, people who protect themselves from
sin, ee, immorality, forbidden acts are
considered, uh, suitcases, that's less
social. Yes, so this is a form of
Satan's tajin. This includes
embellishing lust, Miss. In Islam,
there are two kinds of lust. The first
lust is blessed by Allah. The second is
lust that is angered by Allah. Well,
Satan plays there. Satan plays when
there are things that are obedient
worship that are embellished to make
them tempting, yeah, kept away. If yes,
according to sin, it is beautified and
then made into something that
Interesting. Well, lust is the natural
instinct of lust. It's human nature.
Everyone has lust. Well, Islam just
provides guidelines. In Islam, lust is
directed, not killed. Killing lust will
cause disaster. So, for those who don't
want to get married, we'll see what
they're like. Can they maintain their
natural instinct, their lust, and what
will happen if they don't get married?
That's where Satan comes in, that's why
unmarried people end up committing
sexual deviance. That's Satan's
temptation. Because God has given us
human nature, there are feelings, there
are lusts, but how do we direct them,
and straighten them? The only lust or
lust that is approved by God is
marriage. Well, with marriage, that's
clear, right? Now, let's look at what
happens besides marriage; there are
many deviations, and all of them are
tazin from Satan. Uh, Satan's
temptations. Satan enters humans to
tempt them according to the door that
their souls like most. So, that means
Satan will tempt us according to our
tendencies. Well, I want to discuss
this a little bit, Miss, about this
lust, ee, most of all, ee, Satan's door
to enter, as is happening now, Miss.
This is a very sad event for us, ee,
our students, yes, Indonesians, it's
embarrassing our country. Let's not
discuss that, okay? We want to discuss
how Satan tempts humans from their lust
. Well, this is ee very sad, and we in
this women's fiqh don't discuss it that
deeply. We only discuss this from
parenting patterns at home. How to
educate lust from home. Well, therefore
, ee in
Islam, from the moment a baby has lust,
it's already there, Miss. But because
they haven't reached puberty, haven't
reached puberty, they're just exploring
. Look at those babies, who taught them
to apologize for touching their
genitals? No one, right? Baby boys, try
it. No one, right? Why did they
suddenly grab it like that? That's
because that's their nature, there's
something there that makes them happy
then He, uh, holds it, no one taught
him that, it's natural, we parents just
have to guide him, and Islam came to
guide him according to Islamic values.
So, in this case, uh, we start guiding
our children not to follow their lusts.
Because that's the devil's temptation,
it closes the doors of Satan, yes, from
all those sexual deviations. Indeed,
this, Miss, uh, like LGBT, the majority
of the population is Muslim, yes. That
means, experts in the ruqyah side, when
tempted by Satan, try to undergo ruqyah
, like that. There are, there are many,
that's what they say, yes, uh. But it's
true, Satan operates in this area of
lust to vent that lust. We start from
the family. So, minimizing the
occurrence of sexual deviant behavior
in children starts from home, yes.
First, as I said earlier, when a child
starts holding it, don't immediately do
anything, namely do it hard, yes, we
distract his attention. We give him
toys that interest him, then he will
let go. So it doesn't feel like it,
right? Or, for example, children who
are older 2 years, 3 years old, it's
normal to hold it, don't immediately
reprimand it, divert it. So don't use
it as the center of attention. Then
also because it's natural so that there
are no more temptations of Satan, we
direct it, namely, ee at an early age,
don't let it be a toddler, okay? Don't
let it bathe with the opposite sex,
okay? Or if in Islamic guidance, don't
ee share a room, yeah, after the age of
10, that's Islamic anticipation,
preventative, Miss. Islam already has
preventative measures. Well, this is
where the Islamic preventative measures
, ee, eliminate the opportunities for
Satan, right? So, this ee, there are
several things, yes, how Satan
decorates those falsehoods, which give
a bad image to be good. Even ee, what
is considered ee? Even when Prophet
Adam, when Prophet Adam was forbidden
by Allah, walaquula hadith syajarah.
Don't eat this fruit. Yes, he called
this fruit, fruit. So the name of what
is actually forbidden is given ditazin
so that it becomes ee, this is called
syariatul khuldi, the eternal tree.
Made that beautiful. Well, including
this, LGBT behavior is already natural,
right? I've been trapped by it, ah, all
of that is Satan's tazin. Those are
actually deviations that are not
permitted in Islam. But Satan makes it
beautiful, makes it like this, it's
already natural, it's already from the
genes, Sis, it's already from the
beginning. No. It's all more about
behavior. If ee experts, ee Islamic
scholars, they think it's not genetic,
Sis. But it's more about parenting
patterns. Then ee behavior, ee what's
it called? ee socializing, then it can
also become a victim. The victim ee can
become the perpetrator. So, be careful
with ee things like this, ee closes off
opportunities. Don't let God forbid,
behavior that the Prophet was sent to a
people who did that, until there was a
Prophet like that, Prophet Lut, peace
be upon him, was sent for that. That's
extraordinary, yes. So here, ee all
listeners, Satan is so very ee eager to
tempt humanity from things that Small,
in any case, even flowing in our
bloodstream. Even starting from our
inner zones, there are also Satan's
temptations there. Well, hopefully,
from this initial presentation, we will
continue with the next discussion.
Okay, brothers and sisters. Ustazah has
already spoken about Satan's tricks to
lead humans astray, and there will be a
continuation of Ustazah Hil Amran's
presentation. We will take a break for
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theme this afternoon, namely Satan's
strategy to lead humans astray. I'm
worried about making a mistake, so I'll
look at the cheat sheet
first, Ustazah, continue. Satan We know
that this is our enemy, even when we
are about to die, Satan really exists.
That's why it is hoped that during the
dying state, we should not be left
alone. Accompany us and continue to
talk about the phrase" La ilaha
illallah. "If we can say" Yes, it's
over. "But continue to listen to the
verses of Allah. Don't leave us alone.
Worrying about Satan keeps tempting us.
Yes. So there was the case of Imam
Ahmad bin Hanbal when he was seriously
ill and on the verge of death. That's
what his son told him. His father said,
" Quul ya abi la ilaha illallah. "Say"
La ilaha illallah "my father said that.
What did he say, father?" No, no, don't
do that. "He immediately passed out and
his son turned pale." Oh God, this is
my father, a pious man, a great scholar
, with many books, many students, when
he was told at the end of his life, why
did he say no, don't. That's
extraordinary, son. Finally, they tried
to get him to wake up again. Yes, so
that you are aware again. I realized
that his son was relieved and
immediately asked, "Yes father, why did
I talk to you earlier? You didn't
follow the talk but said no, don't do
it." What did his father say? I didn't
hear you say it. The devil bit my thumb
earlier. He.
So it means that the devil will try his
best to lead people astray until they
die of disbelief. They die without
faith, thus becoming followers of the
devil. That's what the devil has sworn
to tempt humans forever. Yes, that's
why we see how Allah, the Messenger of
Allah, taught us to always be obedient,
to seek refuge in Allah from the
temptations of the cursed devil in all
things. In sexual intercourse, going to
the bathroom, in anything. Especially
when we are silent and then made to
fantasize. Well, so the devil in ee
misleads, leads people astray in many
ways. Some of them are gradual, Sis. So
gradually. So if it is said that the
devil is patient, the devil is the most
patient. It is said that the faithful
are the most faithful. What's the proof
? Meeting Allah, right?
Since he has spoken to Allah, that
means the devil can speak, meaning he
can believe in Allah as his Lord. That
means ee he can really ee communicate,
right? Are you sure? denying Allah like
that. That's extraordinary, isn't it,
Satan. Well, his method is also gradual
and very patient. Hey, it's impossible
that when there's a sin, eh, you just
do it. It's impossible to do it
gradually, for example, starting from
the look. How can people cheat, for
example? "I never thought that
religious scholars like that, for
example, how can it be possible if they
follow Satan. Starting from the look,
then a smile. Once there's a smile,
then we chat. After a pleasant chat, a
long chat, an appointment together,
then a meal together, gradually it
becomes longer and longer. It could be
a matter of months or years, God forbid
, Satan's violation of sharia occurs.
So there's no guarantee that our faith
today will remain stable, consistent
forever. Because faith is yazidanquus,
it fluctuates. Well, this depends on
how far we maintain the values of our
faith. Well, this is where Satan comes
in. He tempts humans gradually, right?
ee can also hinder humans in anything,
distracting humans from everything,
meaning that the mind's concentration
is broken. Many of us also feel like
holding a cellphone, holding the Quran
in the right hand, the right hand
holding the cellphone in the left hand,
right? That's done for a while.
Unexpectedly, there is a desire to read
the Quran 1 juz in 1 day. Eh, I don't
know that desire is only in the heart.
What is the reality? We follow Satan.
Well, this is Satan, huh. Sometimes he
pretends to do this, giving advice to
humans. Yes, the same, Satan when ee
gave ee temptation to Prophet Adam,"
Just eat this fruit, "in Surah Ala'raf
verse 21, huh. Ee," This is so that you
will not be eternal in this and that,
eat it, it's okay, "like that." I am
your advisor. "Waqosamahuma inni lakuma
eh e laminal minanin. I was just doing
good to you. I was just advising you to
eat, it's okay. So that's how it is.
For example, it's okay with this even
though you already have a partner, just
chatting is okay. So talking is okay,
Satan will eventually fall into it. So
that's why Allah warns us to always be
aware of this slander and deception of
Satan. This Satan is indeed
extraordinary. How can his temptations
not be felt like the blood flowing
through our bodies? It starts from a
feeling of zon. So seeing people is not
something that can be avoided. Well, so
if we follow that feeling of zon, it
could end up falling into Satan's
deception. There's something there,
what's it called? Kaidun deception. So
there are several terms, for example,
waswasah, tazyin, then ee adawah which
instills hostility. If someone says
something wrong, even a little bit
wrong, it feels hurt, Satan burns it up
so that it becomes a grudge. In fact,
if we have husnuzan, it's over, or
there's saddun blocking it, or maybe
this often happens, ee nisian Mbak.
What is Nisian, not what is
Sabian?
Sabian is different, right? Nisian is
forgetting. So forgetting is ee, it is
indeed human, but it is often ee,
Satan's temptation. Forgetting ee,
things that are forgotten. Like this,
we plan to pray Duha. Well, there is
that, right? But because uh, I haven't
worked yet, I haven't worked, I don't
know, I forgot. Who is the one who
forgets? Satan. Even if there is
forgetting, it is from Allah, it is
there. It is a mercy. Like someone who
is fasting, but forgets to drink. Oh
yeah, after finishing one glass, or a
plate, I still have to finish it, when
I'm full, I forget, God willing, that
is God's mercy, right? That means God's
feast, God willing, continue the fast
if I forget. But those who worship want
to read this, want to do that. For
example, later tonight, God willing, I
want to pray Tahajud. I don't know,
actually I wake up. But that is Satan's
temptation to make them forget. Forget
how many rakaat, forget, forget, I
already have a wife, forget. Well,
these are all Satan's temptations.
Satan's strategy is to lead people
astray. So, as servants of Allah, we
are reminded by Allah to always be
tausawuz. Even in prayer, Miss, we are
also recommended by the scholars, yes,
their view is that before reciting
al-Fatihah, we should always tauuzawuz.
Auzubillahiminasyaitanirrajim, then
recite al-Fatihah in every raka'at.
Because Satan is always there, he is
our enemy. So, if you do something, you
must first know, whatever you read in
the Quran, we must first know what is
in everything, yes, if there are
thoughts, I like to say that girls like
to protrude. Do you know how to
protrude?
Know
what? Sloppy. Dirty
Sloppy. Yes, in the old days. In the
old
days, it was a long time ago that we
didn't understand protruding.
Well, those like that are immediately
azubillah minasyaitanirrajim. So, every
thought, idea, or anything that
violates sharia, immediately
taufillahimasyaitanirrajim. But knowing
, but just keep watching.
You already know that justifying is the
justification. That's how it is, Sis.
So hopefully, we can escape from the
devil's snares. Especially those
related to lust. Because Satan will
enter and tempt according to human
desires. Well, from home we have
started, lust, especially lust, is part
of human nature. So we start guiding it
from the beginning, from home. How can
these children avoid sexual violations,
sexual deviations, not sharing a room
with someone of the opposite sex or the
same sex, but sharing a blanket. There
is a hadith that says that girls are
not allowed to share a blanket,
especially in a state of being naked,
or nowadays, we avoid bathing together
for our children. Because sometimes
parents want to be practical, their
elementary and kindergarten children
want to be bathed together. That's one
thing, that's avoided. We are taught
about body parts; this is a boy, this
is a girl, so that it no longer causes
strange things, which is a boy, which
is a girl. Then they are taught
according to the teachings of the
Prophet that he is a man, say he is a
man, if he is a woman, say she is a
woman. So, that identity has begun to
be introduced and don't dress women in
women's clothes, men in women's clothes
. So this all starts from home, from
home to ee, don't let these deviations
happen. Satan really likes it. If there
are deviant things, he really likes it.
In fact, they are constantly tempted to
do it. Nauzubillah minzalik. This means
that deviations are because many people
consider them normal. Finally, what is
considered abnormal is when ee that
view is a minority. Now it is
considered normal. Even like this, Miss
. Sometimes when a child watches shows,
reads comics or anything that is
actually prohibited by Islam, it is in
the hadith, eh laanallah. Allah curses
arijal mutasyabbihina binisa. Men ee
resemble women. But in what he reads,
what he does is normal, there are male
artists wearing normal women's clothes.
Well, here the justification begins. If
we as parents don't warn them early on
that it's not permissible for men to
wear women's clothing, children will
think it's normal. So this is where
those values start from the beginning.
Of course. Masyaallah, it turns out
that identifying whether we are under
Satan's influence is not easy because
he is consistent, so to speak.
And we think first, or I don't
understand, whispering is, I will
listen to whispers. He's the way he
says it, right? Satan will whisper to
us. But in principle,
he means influencing our
thought patterns. So it's like this,
Miss, suddenly I have an idea. So
what's this idea?
Well, for example, we intend that night
to start the Qiyamah prayer.
Insyaallah, God willing, Allah will
wake us up whether we use an alarm or
not. When our strength, our desire, our
determination, our intention to wake up
, God willing, God willing, we can wake
up at 3:00. Wake up at 0:00. Now, this
is the temptation between fighting
between temptation and this and this
desire. There's always an idea, it's
still 00:00, it's still a long time,
it's still dawn, 3:00, 20:00, ah, just
half an hour, okay, let's pray later.
Well, who is that if not Satan? Well,
it doesn't stop there. We've woken up,
we've tried to fight it, then there's
another idea, there's a cellphone,
that's it, suddenly there's a thought,
that's Satan's temptation, Miss. Well,
we succeeded. Never mind, it'll be easy
later. Then we go to the bathroom. In
the bathroom, we don't finish, Miss.
Wait a minute. He's in a daze for a
long time. Well, who is that? He's lazy
. Ah, just later. Well, that's Satan.
Well, if we succeed in overcoming all
of that, we immediately perform
ablution and then we use the prayer mat
. Well, after praying, there are more.
Those unfinished ideas, Satan.
Yes. It appears again. Ah, later I want
this, I want this, I want this. Well,
that means Satan tempts through the
human mind.
Thoughts like that. That's why the stat
is whispering,
even though ee doesn't literally
whisper to influence the mindset.
If you mishear it, it's just ee, the
translation of wasufi is fisudurinas,
it's in the chest, right? So it's not
like we listen to it.
So it means that every bad thing seems
to be there, so the devil. But when
there is a good idea, oh yeah, I want
to entertain the poor today. Ah, that's
from the angels, Mbak. H.
So it means that when there are no more
temptations from the devil, there are
angels, surely every good deed will
give birth to subsequent goodness. But
when there are evil deeds, they will
continue to be
accompanied by sins. All of that is ee
not free from the devil's interference
or is it a whisper ee from the angels.
So for example, we have read, prayed,
prayed sunnah, ah after this read the
Quran. Ah, who is that? If not the
angels who ee invite us like that to
encourage us to do good. But if there
is already sin, there is another, there
is another. Try WAing someone you just
met on WA. Ah, don't WA, or else, if
you get a reply, it'll feel like
something's tickling your heart. That's
the devil, oh, it's beautiful, try
again. Well, that's it. So, stop what
the devil wants. If it's a sin, stop it
immediately.
He. One more thing, Ustazah, if we are
angels, we have been given information
that those who accompany us are angels
who remain on the right and left. Well,
if the devils around us are devils who
are still on duty. For example, person
A's job is to deceive so-and-so until
so-and-so dies. Or I once heard one of
my teachers say that the more we
increase our faith, the devils rise in
class. Do the devils increase in faith,
replace the devils, or are there levels
of devils that eventually replace the
devils who are no longer capable and
then replaced. Uh, so there are qarins,
Sis. Qarins are devils who accompany
humans. His name is qarin, right. So,
he will follow us. So,
qarin is a devil, right, Ustaz?
Yes.
So, ee who accompanies us, if the term
mentions a genie, that's actually it.
So, if the Prophet Muhammad was also
asked by Mother Aisyah," You also have
one, O Messenger of Allah, ee qad aslam
, but he is already Muslim, meaning he
has submitted to me, right? "It means
no, he will not tempt you. Well, what
we have is that the
Prophet Muhammad can see.
Yes, yes, we also don't need to see it,
right. It means if someone can see it,
it means he also has it, right.
Well, ee who is with us, so the higher
the level of someone's faith, the more
tempting he is. It means that the devil
, they imagine every day that he is,
they are conducting monev, monitoring,
ee evaluation, yes,
he is mutabaah. So, oh, this kind of
thing is not effective, the class of
kerecek-kerecek is not effective for
scholars. Look for such a devil. So
that's it. So the higher a person's
level of faith, the higher the trials
they face and the greater the
temptations to prove whether they can
survive or not. So, does that mean, is
Satan a supernatural thing, Miss? But
the point is, the more we know, the
more we are told that humans have Jinns
or Satan who tempt them. The higher the
level of faith, the greater the
temptations Satan will face.
He.
So, the more a person can protect
himself, Satan will no longer be able
to tempt him. So, the ultimate goal in
the verse I read, Surah Ala'raf 7, is
how humans become less grateful. So,
demanding more, complaining more, and
being more dissatisfied is Satan.
Having too
many desires.
Yes. So, following all desires, even
including changing Allah's creation, I
will order them to change Allah's
creation. Right? It's not grateful when
Allah gives us a physical appearance
like this. It seems like we're not
satisfied with our noses being less
sharp, lacking something like that.
Come to a salon, for example, ask for a
hair removal operation, that operation
has already been done, it seems like
it's not enough. Well, most of them are
like that. Even specialist doctors who
are experts in this surgery often find
that people who have had surgery are
not satisfied with it. That's the
devil's work. The target is not
grateful.
So here, hopefully we can maintain our
fortress of faith by increasing the
number of angels with us to minimize
the devil's temptations. At least like
this, Miss. In the house, there is also
a devil's nest, Miss. The
bathroom. The
bathroom, then the statues, then the
music, I rarely listen to the Quran.
There are many things, right? Satan
even enters the house, doesn't read it,
Miss, memorize it, doesn't enter the
house prayer? Because if you don't
enter the house by reading the prayer,
the devil follows you, right? Bismillah
wajna wismillahi khjna waallahbina
tawakna, that, that, read it. Then read
bismillah, say salam, those who don't
read it, the devil follows. Then eat
also without reading it, if you don't
read ee basmalah, eat with it so it's
anti. This means if we minimize its
presence, we follow all the sunnah of
the Prophet. God willing, hopefully we
will be free, at least able to overcome
the devil's temptations. At least from
our minds, yes. Keep fighting husnuzon,
ma'am. This means we are constantly
jihad, ma'am. Jihad against lust.
That's right. If you are careless for a
moment, your mindset will change.
Both Ikhwan and Nawat. I will read the
question from Ikhwan Nawat. But I will
take a break first. I still invite
Ikhwan and Nawat to submit their
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the session ee answering questions.
Ustazah Helina Amlan will answer
several questions that have been
received via WhatsApp. The first one is
from a servant of Allah in Sukabumi.
Ustazah, peace be upon you. And peace
be upon
you.
What is the best way to remind my niece
who often wears mini clothes? Sukron.
Oh, yes. Um, like this. Is this your
niece?
This niece means we have a strong bond,
because this is how it is. Who is this?
A servant of Allah. Even a servant of
Allah is
invited to talk. This means we must
first establish a good relationship.
Because if the relationship is not good
, the reception will certainly not be
good. We invite her, if the
relationship is good, we invite her to
talk, we invite her, meaning when it is
established, her trust is conveyed in
Islam like this. This means not to
preach but to provide information. You
are beautiful if you cover your aurat
like this. Just convey it because what
is it, in Islam, it is like this.
Convey it in a good way, because the
nephew is probably younger than us, so
it's easier to direct. But in a good
way, without being patronizing,
labeling, and judging. You know the
inhabitants of the people who will not
smell the fragrance of Paradise, don't
be like that.
Heeh. Don't use such scary arguments.
There is indeed a valid argument
narrated by Imam Muslim, yes, that the
Prophet was sinfani min ahlinar lam
aruhuma. There are two inhabitants of
Hell that I have never seen. Well,
among them are nisaun Asiatun eh
kasiatun ariyat. Women who are dressed
but naked. Well, they will not smell
the fragrance of Paradise. Meanwhile,
the fragrance of Paradise can be
smelled from a distance. Don't read
that hadith. Did you know? You're not
trying to bring Paradise. Don't be like
that. Convey Islamic values. Why does
Islam require women who have reached
puberty to cover their aurat to protect
themselves? This is also part of
obedience to Allah and is more
honorable. So, you should be that's
what is conveyed, this is an obligation
. You know the obligation, right? Do
you know that in the Quran, Allah
commands us to open that chapter of the
Quran, namely Surah Annur verse 31.
Al-Ahzab 59. That's if we have a close
relationship, it's easy to talk, Sis.
But not with this distant relationship,
right? If it is distant, give her books
. Give her books related to ee how
Muslim women look or ee when you're
with her, you listen to a lot on
YouTube, Sis, ee studies about covering
the aurat. This means there is an
effort on our part to convey Islamic
values to our niece. So not everyone ee
people know that it is an obligation.
Maybe they think it's a tradition.
That's why we see many people who wear
headscarves to cover their aurat but
their hair is visible, their calves are
visible because they think it's Middle
Eastern clothing.
What kind of traditional clothing is
this Middle Eastern? Their traditions
are just that, many of them are like
that. So we give them awareness, we
give them insight, and then we pray
because we can't force people to do
what we want. Our obligation is only to
convey it. When they don't want to, we
are no longer responsible.
Because when we see evil, we have an
obligation to change it. We can't do it
by what means? Power. The hadith says,"
man roa minkum munkaron falyugiru
biyadih. "If you see evil, change it
with yadih, which means hand. Scholars
interpret it as power, rank, position.
When he has power, he can make rules.
Now, if we don't have anything, the
only way to do it is verbally, with ee,
basically with ee good ways. If we
can't do it because it's uncomfortable
or we're powerless. Fabiqolbihi
walikaful iman in the heart is to pray.
So if we see this, most of us don't
have ee syur amar mar nahi munkar, Sis.
Yes.
When we are in a public place and see
someone not covering their aurat, it's
normal. That's the child of a religious
teacher asking a religious teacher. No.
Oh, it's normal. In fact, that's a sin
that we must deny in our hearts. How?
By praying. That's a form of forbidding
wrongdoing. May Allah grant us guidance
. Don't criticize, don't judge, don't
judge. For example, if we meet someone
in a public bus, they're old, wrinkled,
or interrupting, they're one step away
from the grave, isn't it, nauzubillah
minzalik? If we criticize someone, it
means we think we're the most righteous
and the best. That's Satan's trick.
When Satan succeeds, he tempts us
through that method, making us feel
we're the most righteous. Well, being
the most righteous means being arrogant
. That's Satan's arrogance. Satan's
biggest mistake is arrogance. In fact,
Satan's faith in Allah is extraordinary
. It's only because he feels arrogant
that he becomes a cursed creature. Well
, Prophet Adam also sinned, he was
guilty but he broke the law. Allah
forbade him from doing it. Don't eat
this fruit, he ate it too, but because
he knew it was wrong. He repented to
Allah and was sent down to earth, but
Allah forgave his sins. Well, Satan
didn't. He wasn't forgiven because he
was arrogant. Well, this is it, Miss.
So, I remind our nephew in a good way.
Hopefully, accompanied by prayer, one
day he will change. Insyaallah.
Insyaallah. It seems that the listeners
of the congregational istighfar
immediately do the same thing,
including me, Iwan and Naut. Masyaallah
, we often forget. Okay, I'll continue
from a servant of Allah in Bekasi.
Ustazah, peace be upon you,
warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh. I am a mother of a son, my
son is in 4th grade. Alhamdulillah, my
son is always honest about whatever
happens to him. But what confuses me is
that he told me that a classmate likes
him. 4th grade of elementary school,
Ustazah. He's a
boy.
His son, the boy
who likes is a
girl.
Masyaallah.
Yes, yes. It's not called yazubillah.
Okay. What girl? Please advise Ustazah.
How can I better advise him to really
avoid unwanted things from an early age
. Thank you.
Ee grade ee grade 4 yes indeed ee grade
4 elementary school means he's 9 years
old, right, Miss? He.
1 2 3 4 10 years old yes. So these 10
years are quite critical periods, right
before puberty.
So indeed in those ages, ee Islamic
values are emphasized, yes. Like prayer
is emphasized so that it should never
be left again. This is where it starts
to be instilled, actually, from the age
of 7, yes, ee what is it called,
introduction to ee body organs, your
identity as a man. If a man, what are
his obligations? So when you reach
puberty, you're not allowed to be close
to women or hold their hands because
they're not mahram. So teach them the
concept of mahram, the concept of aurat
(protection of the body). If something
happens, we're in a dilemma, Sis. When
we raise our children according to
Islam at home, interacting with other
people's children who aren't educated
according to Islam, it can sometimes
lead to contamination. Well, it's good
that this child continues to be with
his mother. So, don't immediately
prevent it. For example, someone
immediately asks," Yes, "they say,"
You're still in fourth grade, that's
probably all there is to it. "
What's the way a fourth-grade
elementary school student does things
like rejecting and asking? It usually
depends, Sis, it depends on the
parenting style. It depends on what
they see, what they watch. Yes,
sometimes, Sis, if we listen to Mrs.
Eli Risman's research, in our
children's lives, there's an
institution that conducted a survey in
an area in Jakarta. In Kemayoran,
Jakarta, whatever, the main thing is
that elementary school is a public
elementary school. He just asked, uh,
what, uh, that question, that, that
survey, uh, how much do the children
know about, uh, sexuality? It was asked
as far as the meaning, uh, what's it
called, uh, if I'm not mistaken, did
they listen to him deliver the survey,
uh, about these organs, organs, sexual
organs, uh, sex, uh, what does the body
mean, what is the opposite sex, what do
they know about, uh, sex itself. There
was a question, apparently many were
shocked to read it, some even asked how
deep the vagina is. And in this
position, can you get pregnant? God
forbid. So, it turns out their
understanding of things, uh, what?
Sexuality is beyond the expectations of
adults. Yes. So we also don't know if
this is the case, if it's in the
environment, their breathing will rise
because they have children.
Ah, if the environment is good, the
school is good, maybe it's just a
matter of liking it. We can only tell
the child, he said, so he immediately
shot it like that. Yes, yes. Just say
we're friends, no need for this, I'm
still here for a long time. We're all
friends, friends. So there's no need to
give the child much attention so that
he doesn't keep getting carried away.
Because we don't know if he understands
things better, nazubillah nauzubillah
minzalik. Sis, if I look at the survey,
Sis, there are more than 64%of girls in
junior high and high school who aren't
virgins.
West Java also said that it's more in
big cities, which means they already
know each other, right? Well, we avoid
our children if possible, and then
direct them to not be your mahram. Okay
, that's just temporary fun. You just
focus first, don't need to be told this
news, don't give it your focus of
attention, you have lots of friends. So
that means divert this child's
attention. That's for boys, right? If
it's girls, it's also a hassle, Sis.
But it turns out that now, ee, taking
care of ee boys also needs to be
careful, need to be vigilant. Even ee
sexuality education in Islamic language
is ee tarbiah jinsiah, which is taught
from an early age. Children before the
age of 5 already know how to protect
themselves from their parents. So when
parents bathe their children, they are
told that this is the area where no one
is allowed to touch them. So when
parents are, for example, washing their
children or whatever, the only one who
is allowed to touch them is the mother,
no one else is allowed. So basically,
no one should ever touch them. Well,
that is socialized from an early age so
that later when they are in society, at
school, they can protect themselves
from predatory behavior that we don't
know is widespread around them. God
forbid. Because there was, Miss, a few
years ago in the Bekasi area, Miss,
there were about how many children
under 10 years old, ee, was there
sexual harassment by a street ice cream
seller? God forbid. It means that we
are the ones who can protect them. So,
from the children, yes, from the school
, the children were given the
understanding," Let's leave that
problem later, we're still focusing on
studying first. "That's probably the
case, ma'am, for boys and girls too. It
means, never touch yourself. We even
tell our children," If possible, don't
ever date, if you date, you'll end up
with an ex, do you want to get an ex?
What will happen to you, if you break
up, he'll end up with an ex, a
worthless item. "We liken it to fried
bananas, ma'am. Uncovered bananas,
which are easy to touch, people won't
want to eat them, right? But if it does
, it means we can protect ourselves
from all social behavior outside of
that.
That's what God's servants say. And the
important thing is to maintain
continuous communication with children,
that's a big asset, God willing.
Okay, hopefully all our children, sons
and daughters will be protected. Amen.
Okay, Ustazah. This is from God's
servant asking, God willing, Ustazah.
Satan's deception is so powerful in
tempting humans. Please advise ustazah
with the desire to worship but still
procrastinate like tilawah and others
until we don't realize that time has
passed so quickly. Yes, Satan likes
that. We just wait a moment, wait a
moment, wait a moment. I want the Quran
in my hand, Miss. The other is holding
my phone, then I'll eat and use it like
that. I'm already facing it, I'm
already sitting down but my phone is
still on. Well, that's Satan's
temptation. So if we know this is
Satan's temptation, immediately
azubillahiminasyaitanirrajim or read
taus which in the Quran is ee rbi inni
azubika min hamazatian wudubika
ayyahurun. So, we read that or use
Indonesian, it's okay too. Oh Allah.
Auzubillah. So if possible, put your
phone down first. This means something
that is bothering us, get rid of it. So
this does require mental strength. So
later we can fight, who will win, Satan
or ourselves. So if we say bismillah,
basically if there is something that ee
the values of good worship are
prioritized first. The Quran or
cellphone first? Okay. The Quran first,
God willing, it can be done. God
willing. He
yeah. So Allahuma forced it, Miss.
Allahum forced it.
Allahuma forced it. It must be forced.
Worship must be forced. If it is not
forced, it goes through him.
We can feel that, right? Wake up to the
alarm at 00, what then? Get up, turn it
off. Or oh my gosh, I have to pee, get
up. Oh, it's 0:30, what are you going
to do to the bathroom? Do you just pee
and come back? That's Satan's
temptation. If we fall asleep without
qiamulil, it means Satan has indeed won
and we don't want Satan to have power
over us. So fight bismillah. Oh Allah,
help me. Bismillah, I can, God willing.
He. Well, now it seems like Satan has
entered the flat devil on the
cellphone. I've
tried it all the way home, but I don't
want to touch my phone so I can be with
the kids and pray. For example, usually
when I get home, it's almost sunset, so
I want to
do something useful besides earning a
living, for example. But it turns out
that it actually offends people who
WhatsApp us, and they think we don't
want to reply to their messages as soon
as possible. Some say we're pretending
to be busy and all sorts of things. So
it turns out that now the culture is
that if we don't immediately reply to
people who send us messages. So the
zone is then
tempted by Satan, and
this one is tempted by Satan, and in
the end, it doesn't happen. So, I put
the phone back on top of it. So, the
strategy is really extraordinary. If
the phone has this, right, Miss,
there's a time. Oh, this hasn't been
opened yet. That means it hasn't been
opened yet. Well, that
means it should be, well, that's what I
said, basically, something that enters
our hearts, there are zones, that means
we've been tricked by Satan.
So try to always think positively. And
that's Surah Al Hujurat, Mbak.
It means that Allah Himself has even
mentioned a verse that says don't think
negatively. So in the Qur'an, Surah Al
Hujurat, it says to avoid what is
called don inmun, some of those
suspicions are sins. Eh, suspicion is a
sin. So, come on, Mbak, we don't need
people to think negatively of us,
that's their business with Allah, the
important thing is that we don't have
bad intentions towards them. So, Mbak,
lana amaluna wakum amalukum. For me, my
deeds are for you, your deeds. You want
to think negatively of me because of
arrogance, that's up to you. The
important thing is that I'm not
disturbed by my worship. It's a loss if
we follow people.
In the end, we're always holding our
cellphones, replying," Oh, it's a
bother, Mbak, so we don't go anywhere.
Hm. We never finish our prayers, we
never finish them. Yes. Notes, okay.
Okay. This is from the next from ee
samba Allah in Bekasi. Is it true that
if there is already a whisper of Satan
in our hearts? Is it already recorded
as our sin? And how do we differentiate
between the whisper of Satan or our own
evil hearts? Uh like this, every bad
deed that is only intended in the heart
until it is realized is not recorded as
bad. Yes, it is only an intention. But
if it is good, there is already an
intention in the heart and has not been
implemented, it is already rewarded.
That is Allah's great love for us. So
for us ee, how do we differentiate
between the temptation of Satan or our
evil hearts, never mind. Whether our
hearts are evil or not depends on this,
it depends on ee how we think. So God
willing, every human being is good. God
willing. He. It is
only temptations that make us, it is
Satan's temptations that make us bad.
Be specific to yourself.
So be specific to yourself too.
Yes. Be specific to Allah too. Ana
indadoni abdibi. I depend on my
servant's opinion of me. Yes, we trust
in Allah. Hopefully we, God willing,
will be good people,
not bad. If we say evil, Satan will be
happy later.
Yes So really evil.
OK sorry caller hopefully still waiting
. Thank you Neja. Be careful on the
road with Neja. Say goodbye first.
Asalamualaikum.
Waalaikumsalam.
With whose mother? Where?
Ee I'm with ya what? Hey, servant of
God in East Jakarta.
Servant of Allah. OK, Mom. Thank you
for waiting, Mom. Please ask Ustazah
directly with your questions. Hey,
asalamualaikum, Ustazah. May
the peace, mercy, and blessings of
Allah be with you too. Mother
like this. I have grandchildren. When
I'm asleep, I'm happy to go everywhere.
So, if he has already prayed, he will
have returned to the prayer and it will
be unclean, right? Eh, if what is that,
drool is impure, right?
Eer, right.
Saliva.
Saliva.
Saliva is impure, right?
No, ma'am. Saliva is not impure, ma'am.
Allahu Akbar.
So something that is dirty is not
necessarily impure. But something that
is impure is definitely dirty. Saliva
is dirty but not impure, ma'am. Oh, I
see, Ustazah. Thank you very much,
Ustazah. I also wanted to call you
yesterday but couldn't get through
because Ustazah kept having tests.
Oh, thank God, now you have good
fortune, ma'am. Okay, that's all, ma'am
.
Heeh. I want to know, I want to know
what the solution is because she's a
girl, right? Heh, like that.
Yes. Okay, I'll answer that in full
live on the radio. Listen, ma'am.
Yes. Thank you very much.
Assalamualaikum.
Waalaikumsalam. Waalaikumsalam
warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
So, when we sleep with our
grandchildren, sometimes we
accidentally drool while sleeping. He.
Ee, well, it depends on how much drool
there is, Ma'am. It's not impure, Ma'am
. But it is dirty, meaning it won't
break the fast. Or, for example, maybe
young mothers have babies who spit up.
Well, if it spits up from the throat,
it's like that, or burps, a little
comes out. Ah, that's not impure, Ma'am
. So, that means, ee, what comes from
the mouth, what comes from the throat,
is not impure. But what comes from the
stomach, whether it comes out from
above or below, is it impure?
If it comes out from below, it becomes
feces, if it comes out from above, it
becomes vomit. Well, vomit is impure,
Ma'am. But if it's only from the mouth,
it's saliva. Well, we try, sometimes
sneezing, what comes out, ee, splashes,
ee, is that impure too? No, Ma'am. Yes.
So let's not bother ourselves too much
about something that isn't actually
impure, okay? Cleanliness is important,
but if we can avoid it, God willing,
our prayers will be valid, Ma'am. Yes.
Yes. So, you were afraid of getting
your prayers dirty
because there are often writings in
prayer rooms, Ustazah. Sleeping is
forbidden because saliva is considered
impure. I've read that too, Ma'am.
Oh, I see. I've never read that, Ma'am.
I understand how you feel. Because
now, if saliva is impure, it's like
this, we, uh, the Prophet, uh,
sometimes had a drinking glass passed
around like that. uh, that's the mouth
mark, the mouth mark is also exposed to
saliva. Then, the Prophet, uh, once
said, uh, in uh, there's something
called tahnik. Tekah welcomed the birth
of a baby by chewing dates, biting them
slowly, that is, mashing them. The
Prophet placed them on the baby's
palate. If saliva is impure, then the
Prophet, uh, means that the dates were
impure too. So, no, no, Ma'am, right?
But dirty. Yes. So, in principle,
something dirty is not necessarily
impure, but something impure is
definitely dirty. Just like snot. Snot
is more disgusting, right? Snot is even
more disgusting, right? Especially when
it's green. It's
not impure, Ma'am, but it's dirty.
But we need to clean our hands if
they've been exposed to ee ing, for
example, or saliva, we clean them not
because they're impure, but because of
cleanliness. Okay, I hope that's clear,
Ma'am, who called us. Okay, this is
from Karawang. Ustazah asked, ee, how
do we fight anxiety and lack of faith
in God's power. For example, when
there's a big problem, when there's no
way out, how do we maintain faith in
God, the one who gives solutions? Mrs.
Nur in Karawang. Is
this a servant of God?
Mrs. Nur in Karawang.
Oh, Mrs. Nur. Mrs. Nur. This is
something extraordinary, Mrs. Nur. If
Satan's anxiety interferes with our
faith in destiny, that's an
extraordinary temptation. Satan can
succeed in tempting us. Hey, like this,
there was a story in that story when
someone was worried, oh Allah, what was
that like? Allah started questioning
something related to Allah's greatness,
His omnipotence, stop thinking like
that. Then say amantu billah. I believe
in Allah. So, this goes back to
understanding, Mrs. Nur. Understanding,
insight, our faith in Allah. That
everything that happens to us is part
of Allah's destiny. So, whatever we
experience now that Allah gives us is
destiny. Yes, that means destiny is
part of the pillars of faith. Believing
in Allah in Qada and Qadar, right? Good
destiny or bad destiny. Why do we only
believe in good destiny? Bad destiny is
not like that. Well, when there are
problems, that's where Satan comes in,
he starts to worry. Allah doesn't love
you. Allah is this or that. Or start
making comparisons. Satan is very
cunning. He compares our lives with
other people's lives. You got a husband
like that, try someone else like that.
The husband started comparing. Then he
wasn't grateful. That was part of the
devil's fear. Well, when that starts to
penetrate our souls, our minds, our
selves, our hearts, it immediately
becomes like that, Ma'am. So I believe
in Allah and pray to Allah, "O Allah, I
believe in You, O Allah, with the
destiny You have given me. Forgive all
my mistakes, O Allah, show me my path."
So I prayed a lot, just to Allah. So I
remembered, Ma'am, when the tsunami
happened, you told me about it, right?
Oh, the child who lost a lot of his
family.
Yes, he was grateful. Well, this is
what these men are like.
Oh, the ones who are happy. Yes, we
remember that. Please repeat it,
Ustazah.
Well, this is what mothers whose
children don't need. I
don't have to remember the others.
Hopefully.
So, this gentleman, when we invite him
to pray, he just stays silent, his eyes
are blank. So, if we can see people
when their eyes are blank, blank, it
seems like that's it. So, don't let
ourselves be possessed by the
temptation of Satan's anxiety, okay? So
, when he's invited to pray, let's pray
, sir. He shook his head. It's useless
for me to pray all this time. I never
miss the five daily prayers. But when
the tsunami happened, everything was
gone, I was gone, my children were all
gone. I have nothing left. I'm a mess,
Allah doesn't love me. It's useless for
me to pray all this time. Well, this
means he doesn't understand that this
is part of the test and calamity that
befell him to test his faith, to what
extent he trusts in Allah. So all this
time, it turns out, oh, so all this
time praying was for selfish reasons,
so that not everyone, so many people
have even more difficult tests, but
when they believe in Allah, all their
calamities are considered small. For
example, let's see, we can emulate
people with strong faith. There was a
friend, Mbak, whose entire family died
when she was martyred in battle. Her
husband, father, and sons were all gone
. But when the information was conveyed
to her, she asked, "What about the
Prophet Muhammad?"
This means that she was only worried
about the Prophet Muhammad. She didn't
care about the calamity that befell her
family. But look at the Prophet
Muhammad, when he was well, his heart
would be happy. What did the friends
say? He was well when he was safe.
Alhamdulillah, all calamities will be
small when the Prophet Muhammad was
well. That is faith. So it means
someone who believes in Allah with the
pillars of faith. There are six pillars
of faith. Faith in destiny, including
faith in the last day. So if someone
already understands and believes in the
last day, he will understand that this
worldly life is only temporary. The
test will soon pass. This kind of test,
this kind of situation, this calamity
that befell him will not last forever.
There is life after death. Well, so
what really touched me in Aceh was Ms.
Olin, whose story I told earlier, there
was another student whose everything
was gone, her parents were gone, her
younger sibling was gone, her house was
gone. She got up and helped people who
were in refugee camps, children who had
lost their parents, she gathered them,
gave them therapy, taught them. Even
though she was alone. What are you
asking for prayers for, Ma'am? Pray
that I can meet my parents in heaven.
There you go. So this worldly life is
considered, well, this is a test, many
people suffer even more, but she got up
and didn't fall. Well, it all comes
back to faith. So if there is anxiety,
it's immediately called amantu billah.
We doubt Allah's power, doubt Allah's
love. Doubt that this is destiny, why
doesn't Allah love us? Why is it unfair
, we immediately call amantu billah. I
believe in Allah. That's why every
morning and evening, we are recommended
to recite the prayer, the prayer in
effect. Ritu billahi rba wabil islami
dinina wabiuhammadin nabiya wa rasula.
I am pleased with Allah as my Lord. If
I am pleased with Allah as our Lord, as
our creator, I am satisfied with what
He has given me. Good or bad destiny.
So there are only two things in life.
If I am not grateful, I am patient, and
both are in heaven. If I am given a
trial or a calamity, I am patient. If I
am given a blessing or a blessing, I am
grateful. Only two things. Gratitude
and patience.
Gratitude and patience. Masyaallah. It
is easy to say, Mbak, but we really
need to be reminded. We are beting to
remind each other. Hopefully, with this
event, we can remind each other and
strengthen each other. Insyaallah.
Insyaallah. Amen. Even though it is
nearing the end of time, there is one
important question, Ustazah. Ibu Siti
asked, "In our house, there are many
statues, Ustazah, to supply clothes
that are headless. There are also
statues of heads to display hijab. What
is the ruling, Ustazah?"
This is indeed a matter of fiqh and
hilafiah, Mbak Olin. So, ee scholars
have different views, yes. Some are ee
textual taklek, meaning that basically
all images of statues are absolutely
haram. Others say as long as they are
not ee incomplete. So that means if we
take the middle one, ee incomplete,
maybe many traders, ee, what is the
name of the menakin Heeh. That ee with
the veil, is it better to just
divorce it? Meaning it is better not to
be intact, yes, to maintain ee what is
the name? Caution. If you are more
careful, don't use it.
So everything is a choice, but what is
hoped is that the image is not intact
like that.
Okay, ee Ustazah, it seems this is the
last question. Please, before we really
part, Ustazah, give a conclusion on the
theme, ee, how Satan leads us astray.
Listeners who are blessed by Allah,
that Satan, since Allah expelled him
from heaven until now, his work has
only been to mislead and lead people
astray. Yes, and ee his time and
experience are very long, it really
helps him to create various ways and
arts to lead people astray, as well as
tempt and mislead people in various
ways. What? By means of ee tazin or
waswas he does it. Because his life is
only to tempt people because of his
grudge against people until the last
second of human life he will tempt. So
we hope that Allah will protect us,
Allah will protect us, our families
from all the tricks of Satan. We always
remember Allah. Ala bidikrillahiqmainul
qulub. When we remember Allah, all the
temptations of Satan, God willing, we
can avoid. Am
and hopefully with our prayers to Allah
and every e we do good deeds, Allah
will protect us from the temptations of
the cursed Satan. Astagfirullah wakum.
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh.
Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh. Alhamdulillah, this
afternoon is extraordinary. Ustazah
thank you hopefully long life and we
meet again to study together again.
Long life in health and piety
insyaallah. and the group this
afternoon hopefully increase our
vigilance against the extraordinary
strategy of Satan. Indeed, hopefully we
are all protected who accompanied today
hopefully given health there is Ondi,
there is Bang Yusuf thank you for your
time and also listening to us from
beginning to end. Hopefully it is very
useful we take our leave. Subhanaka
Allahumma wabihamdika ashadu alla ila
anta astagfiruka wa atubu ilaik.
Wabillahi taufik walhidayah.
Wassalamualaikum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh. Prophet peace be upon him.