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0:59 Yeah. Brail Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. 1:31 Peace be upon you, O brothers and 1:33 sisters, may Allah have mercy on you. 1:36 It is truly an unspeakable blessing 1:40 that we can still be together today in 1:44 this morning's sermon, a gift from 1:48 Allah, for which we are truly grateful. 1:52 Of course, we also offer salawat to our 1:55 beloved leader, Muhammad Rasulullah 1:58 sallallahu alaihi wasallam. And now 2:02 it's almost the end of the year. The 2:06 year will soon change, and the numbers 2:09 next year will increase. But I was 2:12 talking to our resource person this 2:15 morning that if something increases, 2:17 there must be something that decreases. 2:19 It would be really cool if we discussed 2:21 it later. Let's greet him. Peace be 2:23 upon you, Ustaz. 2:25 Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi 2:27 wabarakatuh. 2:28 Healthy? Alhamdulillah. 2:30 Alhamdulillah. 2:31 If happiness increases, what decreases? 2:35 So, Ustaz listened to the short 2:37 discussion earlier off air that 2:39 everything always has an increase and 2:42 decrease. 2:43 So, today's discussion 2:46 will be our topic. 2:47 Ready. Let's listen, okay? 2:51 Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Peace be upon 2:54 you and Allah be upon you. And peace be 2:58 upon you. 2:58 Alhamdulillah wasyukrulillah. La haula 3:02 wala quwwata illa billah. Amma ba'du. 3:06 Qallahu taala fil quranil karim. 3:09 Auzubillahiminasyaitanirjim. Amu 3:13 annamal hayatud dunya laibu walahu 3:17 wazinatu wa tafak bainakum amwali 3:23 walisinabal kuar nabat tumma yahiju 3:30 musfar tumma yakunu khut wafil akhirati 3:37 syadid wafirat minallahi waidwan 3:43 illaurqallahulim maasyiral muslimin, 3:51 ayyuhal ikhwah rahimakumullah. Once 3:55 again, and perhaps many times, 3:59 as a preamble, I will always remind you 4:01 with the phrase "Alhamdulillah." All 4:05 praise is due to Allah. All virtue and 4:08 excellence belong to Him. We possess 4:14 something, whether it be rank, position 4:17 , wealth, abilities, and so on. It is 4:22 absolutely a gift from Allah. This is 4:26 sometimes easily forgotten by humans. 4:32 Success or favor, fate, luck, as if it 4:36 belongs to us. And because of our 4:43 efforts, they then pat themselves on 4:45 the back, forgetting the Creator. Now, 4:47 this is the danger. This type of human 4:50 being is dangerous. Because what will 4:54 emerge later is pride and arrogance, 4:56 arrogance. With this phrase " 4:59 Alhamdulillah"(hamdalah), we are 5:00 reminded that everything belongs to 5:02 Allah. What do we actually own? We 5:06 don't own anything. After all, Allah 5:09 gave us ourselves. Our heart, lungs, 5:13 kidneys, eyes, skin, and body belong to 5:16 Allah. Therefore, the main remembrance 5:21 when facing a calamity is to return to 5:24 Allah, and the remembrance of Allah is 5:27 "Inn lillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun." 5:31 Inna lillahi. Indeed, we belong to 5:35 Allah, wa inna ilaihi rajiun. And to 5:39 Him we will all return. So, we are 5:43 reminded that we belong to Allah. Don't 5:47 feel like we own something, as if it 5:49 were ours, and we are the ones who 5:51 determine everything. If we ask for it 5:54 from the owner, we don't accept it, let 5:57 alone just because it's ours, get angry 5:59 , and there's no sincerity. If we say " 6:03 Alhamdulillah" and "Innalillah," we 6:06 realize that we don't own anything. 6:09 Indeed, we also belong to Allah. We 6:13 should praise Allah. "Alhamdulillah." 6:18 All praise be to Allah. This means that 6:22 the virtues we possess, advantages, and 6:24 virtues come from Allah. On the other 6:27 hand, it also means we must realize 6:29 that we don't own anything. If we are 6:32 now great, brave, intelligent, wealthy, 6:35 have rank, position, influence, and so 6:37 on, these achievements are absolutely 6:40 gifts from Allah. Remember that. This 6:50 awareness will encourage us to awaken 6:54 self-awareness that we should position 6:58 ourselves as servants before the 7:02 Creator who always praises and adores, 7:06 is always grateful and sentiko dawuh. 7:11 Samina wa athna all His commands and 7:14 decrees. This is a true human being. So 7:19 not a brawler. Just because you are 7:23 great, brave, like a donak who has rank 7:26 , walks shoulder first. This means 7:31 ungrateful to Allah's blessings. 7:34 Realize. Especially in life is limited 7:40 by limitations. Therefore, let us 7:46 express gratitude. Alhamdulillahiabbil 7:50 alamin. May we be servants who are 7:54 always grateful to Allah and people who 7:57 often say the phrase hamdalah. The 8:02 Prophet promised to build for him the 8:05 House of Hamdi in Paradise. A house in 8:08 Paradise called the House of Hamdi. A 8:11 house of praise for whom? For those who 8:14 often praise Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 8:18 Alhamdulillah. MaaSyiral Muslimin, 8:22 ayyuhal ikhwah rahimakumullah. Today we 8:26 are at the end of the year in December. 8:32 Many events that we have gone through, 8:36 we have heard, we have witnessed, we 8:38 have felt throughout the year. Never 8:42 mind 1 year, 10 years, 20 years ago, 8:45 why are you just dreaming. The Javanese 8:51 say, "live, I'll stay here forever." So 8:53 it's true that at first glance, 8:56 something seems long if we haven't 8:59 experienced it, it hasn't arrived yet. 9:03 Especially if we're waiting. This is a 9:05 state where we feel the eternity of 9:08 time. Waiting for something, whatever 9:12 it is, feels long. But once we've gone 9:17 through it, it truly passes so quickly. 9:24 So, in December, the turn of the year 9:29 reminds us of the passage of time. 9:33 There are two sentences that I used as 9:36 the title of this morning: increasing 9:39 and decreasing. What do they mean? As 9:43 we age, thank God, we've grown one year 9:46 . That's why we celebrate birthdays 9:51 with joy, revelry, and merriment. 9:54 Because indeed, our age increases. But 9:58 in reality, as we age, our time in life 10:03 decreases. Now, this second point 10:07 rarely gets attention. What does it 10:11 mean? With the change of year, our 10:13 death draws near. Hopefully, the old 10:17 will go first, while the young will go 10:18 first. So when the year changes, the 10:24 new year means our age increases. True. 10:30 But on the other hand, our time in life 10:34 decreases. That means we're all getting 10:40 closer to death. Let's take a closer 10:47 look. So, as we age at the turn of the 10:52 year, how should we age? Ageing means 10:59 gaining experience, gaining spiritual 11:02 richness in life's journey. We see much 11:06 , we experience much. All of this 11:12 should serve as a lesson for us to 11:15 become wiser and more discerning. As I 11:24 mentioned yesterday in Surah Ibrahim, 11:28 verse 24, the older a plant grows, its 11:32 roots deepen, its faith becomes more 11:36 solid, its faith becomes more resilient 11:40 , and its ability to grow a towering 11:43 trunk grows. Its personal stature grows 11:48 higher, and its dignity and quality 11:52 increase with Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala 11:56 . Ideally, that's how a tree grows 12:03 larger with age, producing abundant 12:08 fruit. Because the tree is shady, its 12:12 branches spread from right to left, it 12:15 will produce abundant fruit as a 12:18 positive contribution to life. The 12:21 question is, what is our positive 12:25 contribution in this life? If we want 12:31 to see our dignity and status, let's 12:33 evaluate ourselves. Metani badan Sario, 12:40 self-reflection, self-awareness, 12:42 self-reflection. What we have 12:48 contributed as a positive contribution 12:51 to life. Because life is a matter of 12:57 calculation. If time is given for a 13:01 long time, it means the product should 13:04 be more than the little. If Allah has 13:08 given capital in the form of wealth, 13:11 the richer the influence, the greater 13:14 the influence, the more money, and the 13:17 more the product should also increase. 13:23 Always in terms of good deeds, the 13:26 quality of self will be determined by 13:29 two parameters: Hablu minallah w hablu 13:33 minannas. The vertical dimension to 13:37 Allah. To what extent do we feel like 13:40 servants before Allah. How do we 13:43 worship Allah? How when we receive 13:46 pleasure, spaciousness, rank, position, 13:48 and other worldly pleasures, to what 13:51 extent can we be grateful to Allah? How 13:59 are our prejudices, our souls, and our 14:01 attitudes when receiving commands and 14:03 orders regarding the sharia that Allah 14:05 revealed through the guidance of the 14:07 prophets? What have we done? How far? 14:17 Allah has provided the facilities of 14:19 this life with various kinds of free 14:22 pleasures. But Allah wants to see the 14:28 fruit of our good deeds. Our worship to 14:33 Allah, our gratitude for blessings, and 14:36 our patience in accepting commands and 14:40 orders. There are even less pleasant 14:43 things in this life. What is his 14:46 attitude? What if he is rich? What if 14:48 he is poor? What if he is healthy? What 14:51 if he is sick? What if he is given 14:53 ample opportunity? What if he is given 14:55 hardship? If he becomes a leader 14:57 entrusted with the will of God, he 14:59 becomes a leader, what is that leader 15:01 like? And if he becomes an ordinary 15:04 citizen, what is his attitude in life 15:06 towards Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala? Is 15:11 there still a negative prejudice 15:12 against Allah? Or conversely, we can 15:16 think well of Allah, always obey, 15:18 listen, and obey. This samina wa is one 15:23 dimension that must be a measure and at 15:26 the same time self-reflection. If our 15:32 life is long, blessings increase, 15:34 facilities increase, why is the product 15:39 minimal, the balance is a deficit that 15:42 is not balanced. If the capital is 15:46 large, the product must be large. It 15:50 must be greater than those with little 15:52 capital. So, people who are given 15:56 wealth to the field will be asked for a 15:57 long time to be accounted for and asked 15:59 where it was obtained. After it is 16:04 obtained, where is it used to produce 16:07 fruitful deeds that contribute to life 16:09 or not. If given a lot, it means that 16:15 our gratitude to Allah should increase. 16:20 Let's try to look at each of us. 16:24 Including me who is speaking. So it's 16:28 not just about partying, happy new year 16:30 , and so on, singing and singing, but 16:32 it's meaningless. It's empty. Take a 16:36 look at yourself. The Quran itself says 16:39 , "Was tadur nafsum ma qoddamat"(a 16:40 condition of the will of God). Take a 16:42 look at yourself. Try each of us, I, 16:47 the listeners, everyone at home, 16:49 wherever I am, who has heard this 16:53 sermon. Take a look at yourself. Who am 16:57 I really? Am I a quality human being or 17:01 not? Is there a lot of trash in our 17:04 souls and hearts, a lot of dirt, a lot 17:07 of stains of sin and disobedience? Have 17:11 we, as husbands and heads of families, 17:14 been feeding ourselves haram food that 17:16 we obtained through improper means? We 17:23 correct every change in our time, 17:25 making it an important moment. On the 17:32 other hand, what has decreased is a 17:36 reduction in our life expectancy. Last 17:40 year, the year before the end of this 17:43 year, the 22nd, the allotment was 10 17:46 years, for example. So next year, the 17:49 23rd, our life expectancy will be 9 17:52 years again. Because idza ja ajaluhum 17:57 la yastakirun saatan wala yastaqdimun. 18:01 When death comes, we cannot advance, 18:03 nor retreat. Discipline is right on 18:07 time. And the Prophet said that the 18:13 lifespan of my people is only around 60 18:16 and 70. Come on, those of my age. Will 18:20 this year still be ours? A mystery. 18:24 Only God knows. Especially those who 18:31 are already starting to get sick. 18:35 Because actually, sickness is actually 18:39 a warning in Javanese, tengoro. There 18:47 is an Israelite story, if you take the 18:50 story from the source, it might be weak 18:53 or something. But the essence of its 18:57 contents can be our reference. When the 19:02 angel Izrail came to a successful young 19:04 man, then made an offer to this young 19:08 man. Why did he come suddenly? Please, 19:14 if it is true that I want to take his 19:16 life, give me the signs. Give me 19:20 warnings first. Ah, yes. It's an 19:26 Israelite story, we don't know. Don't 19:28 just tell me the source. In the end, 19:31 the life was not taken. Then 10 years 19:37 later, 15 years later, 20 years later, 19:40 he was successful, failed, and so on. 19:43 But changes occur. The angel Izrail 19:46 came again. He really wanted to take 19:48 his life. Where's the sign? I asked for 19:51 our agreement. Give me a warning, give 19:54 me a sign. Why haven't you come back 19:57 and given me a sign? L, that black hair 20:02 on your head has turned white, not a 20:04 warning. Your smooth, nice, firm skin 20:09 is now sagging, wrinkled, that's not a 20:12 warning. Your eyes, your vision has now 20:16 been replaced with glasses. That's 20:18 still difficult. That's not a warning. 20:21 Your teeth falling out are not a 20:22 warning, and so on. So from this 20:27 Israelite story, we learn that the 20:33 signs of death have already begun. When 20:38 you reach 60 or 70, starting at 40, 20:41 changes occur on average because old 20:47 age starts at 40. The more settled, the 20:52 more mature. Spiritually and 20:56 spiritually, your thoughts become 21:01 deeper, and the more settled, usually 21:03 around 40. I often say that age is 21:08 divided into three. The 21:09 age of children to teenagers is around 21:11 20 years old. That's studying, school, 21:14 playing all the time. A third of our 21:17 life is spent studying, going to school 21:19 in the morning and coming home in the 21:20 evening. Going home in the morning and 21:22 coming home in the evening. Imagine 21:23 that. But after graduating from school, 21:28 adulthood is 20 to 40. Working in the 21:32 morning and coming home in the evening, 21:33 and in the morning coming home in the 21:34 evening. At 40, you start to enter old 21:39 age. Your thoughts start to differ from 21:46 those of young people who rely on 21:48 enthusiasm, their souls are vibrant. 21:51 This starts to settle, starting to 21:52 become wise and discerning. Seeing 21:55 things will be seen comprehensively 21:57 from various aspects. Physically, they 22:02 are declining but spiritually, the 22:04 psyche is becoming more mature. 22:08 But it is marked by the appearance of a 22:11 white flag fluttering on the head 22:13 called gray hair. One week, three, the 22:18 next month 15 are removed, five appear, 22:25 30 and so on, finally the hair turns 22:29 white. This is a sign to be wiser. What 22:36 was once black becomes white. If 22:38 possible, leave the black world and 22:41 replace it with a clean, white life. 22:47 Your body is not like before. I used to 22:49 ride a motorbike at speed without 22:51 wearing clothes. I used to get caught 22:53 in the rain without catching a cold. I 22:56 could swim anytime without feeling cold 22:58 . I was so dashing, especially with my 23:02 athleticism maintained. But at 40 and 23:04 beyond, it's different. I catch colds 23:08 easily. I get a cold every now and then 23:13 , coughing. There are other illnesses. 23:18 The constant comings and goings. This 23:22 is actually a sign that you will soon 23:28 be called by Allah. Therefore, when you 23:33 are 40, it is like the sun has begun to 23:35 tilt to the west after the midday 23:37 prayer, which is the afternoon prayer. 23:41 Moreover, after the afternoon prayer, 23:42 there is nothing but the evening prayer 23:43 . Ah, this is the meaning behind the 23:47 changing times, increasing and 23:50 decreasing. So don't just laugh at this 23:54 life, wandering here and there, 23:57 forgetting the substance of this life. 24:03 And it will definitely end with what is 24:05 called death. A sentence that we fear 24:09 so much. Even if offered not to die, 24:14 given 200 years of age, I wouldn't be 24:16 surprised. Who would want a 200- 24:19 year-old, what's so good about it? 80 24:22 years is already difficult. Well, these 24:30 things can only be read with clarity of 24:33 heart, not with lust. So when you are 24:41 40 years old, who is now 22, will be 39 24:44 , next year this 40-year-old will think 24:48 wisely. So don't live this life relying 24:55 only on seeing with your own eyes. Feel 25:00 only with your five senses. Use the 25:05 eyes of your heart. Even higher is 25:08 conscience. Even higher is the eye of 25:12 faith and belief. So seeing something 25:16 is not only what is visible on the 25:17 surface. It's like being able to dive 25:20 in the sea. The deeper you dive, the 25:23 more pearls you'll find. But if you 25:27 only dive on the surface, especially 25:29 with a life jacket, you can't dive. How 25:31 can you find pearls? If you only see 25:36 with your physical eyes, all you see is 25:41 money, coins, and coins—that's all 25:45 you see. Beauty is only seen in facial 25:51 beauty, finances, handsomeness, and 25:53 handsomeness. Happiness is what suits 26:00 your desires. Happiness, partying, 26:05 singing, but losing its true meaning. 26:13 So the most dangerous thing in this 26:16 world is not the actual environmental 26:18 crisis, but the moral crisis. If the 26:24 environmental crisis is caused by poor 26:26 human morals, having poor morals 26:30 becomes an environmental crisis. He is 26:33 unfriendly to nature, unfriendly to the 26:36 environment. A crisis of natural 26:43 resources is the same. Exploiting 26:48 nature as much as possible without 26:50 thinking, resulting in environmental 26:53 damage. Depletion of natural resources 26:56 leads to a crisis. Well, if there's a 26:59 fuel crisis, for example, what's 27:00 available must be fought over. Wekku 27:04 wis entek lah wekmu mas akeh. This is 27:07 fought over in various ways. In the 27:10 past, it was through colonialism. Now, 27:14 it's a bit shy to act like before, as 27:16 if inhumane. But colonial practices are 27:21 still used because the colonial spirit 27:24 still lingers. Imperialism, colonialism 27:28 , only its methods are more subtle, 27:31 with hegemony in the economic field. 27:35 They make other countries dependent. 27:39 They make other people with rules so 27:41 that their natural resource wealth can 27:44 flow to their country and so on. Or if 27:48 not, threats like cowboys, like thugs 27:51 who rob people. If they don't give them 27:54 , they threaten. Even playing one 27:59 against another. In one country, one 28:05 group is pitted against another. Later, 28:08 amidst the turmoil, they can fish in 28:11 troubled waters. If between nations, 28:14 nations are pitted against each other. 28:16 Eventually, war breaks out. When war 28:18 occurs, each is assisted by weapons. 28:22 Here, just use this, this good one, 28:23 this sophisticated one. There, they 28:25 also give this more sophisticated one, 28:27 and so on. Later, there will be 28:29 destruction, war will be over, give me 28:32 your account, this is your debt, pay 28:35 for weapons, no one has money, all the 28:38 oil is taken, what natural resources 28:41 are taken, and so on, this influence is 28:44 what is called neo-imperialism. So if 28:49 you only see with your eyes, the drive 28:54 is purely biological lust. But if you 29:00 see with your heart, a conscience based 29:03 on faith, God willing, that's what will 29:06 emerge. What he sees is compassion, 29:12 equality, peace, harmony, values, and 29:17 virtue. What will that be? 29:23 Psychologically, humans will be shaped 29:25 by their character and thought patterns 29:28 from dynamics. Dynamics will shape 29:33 character. That's why if a bachelor is 29:40 dating a doctor, when we meet, we are 29:45 considered patients, this is how we are 29:47 treated. If you date a teacher, a 29:54 teacher, we are considered students, 29:57 not allowed. Let's go, okay? Then, God 30:02 willing, we chat like that. Well, if 30:06 the boyfriend is a trader, God forbid. 30:08 Maybe we are considered goods that can 30:11 be bought and sold. I don't think so. 30:14 But yes, dynamics will shape. If life's 30:18 orientation revolves solely around 30:20 material things like money, money, and 30:23 coins, then materialistic people will 30:26 emerge, judging by money, regarding 30:31 nobility as being based on finances, 30:34 and so on. And hedonists who crave 30:40 pleasure in this life will measure all 30:43 of that with their lust, beauty in 30:46 terms of lust. So, people who are 30:53 dominated by material issues will have 30:56 their scope for spiritual thinking 30:59 increasingly limited. When asked to 31:05 talk about virtue, compassion, 31:08 brotherhood, nobility, peace, it's 31:12 difficult to connect. What exists is 31:18 pragmatic thinking, mathematical, wani 31:21 piro, how much profit can be made. Ah, 31:25 that's the spirit. When asked to talk 31:30 about peace, virtue, values, compassion 31:32 , worship, struggle, humanity, it 31:34 doesn't connect. Therefore, we must 31:41 create dynamics capable of building 31:44 character. So yesterday there were 31:49 three concepts that life will survive 31:51 in the midst of turmoil and battles of 31:54 ideologies, thoughts, and philosophies. 31:58 We must have a principled mission 32:00 statement about why we live, where we 32:03 want to go, where we should go, and so 32:06 on. What must be done to the end, where 32:09 will it end? That can only be done if 32:13 we have a mission statement. Second, we 32:16 have a personality. That personality 32:19 must be built, not given as a reward. 32:22 Character building, building character. 32:26 If we are believers, of course our 32:28 character must be the character of 32:29 believers. If we are Muslims, then true 32:32 Islam. Don't let Islam be a religion 32:35 that acts God forbid. This is it, God 32:41 willing. So life becomes beautiful. And 32:45 third, self-control in situations of 32:49 ideological battles, thoughts, and then 32:52 what? An extraordinarily busy life must 32:59 have a personality that is able to 33:02 filter, sort, and choose self-control 33:06 so that one's personality will remain 33:09 pure if one is a believer, not 33:12 contaminated by various forms of 33:15 disbelief, hypocrisy, injustice, and so 33:19 on. These are the brothers ( 33:23 rahimakumullah). So they increase and 33:27 decrease. Let us observe them wisely 33:29 and prudently. We try to bow our heads. 33:34 We enter the depths of our souls. We 33:37 try to analyze, see who I really am. 33:42 What resides in our chests. While there 33:47 are still circles, while there is still 33:50 the moon, there is still time. 33:55 Lunyu-lunyu penekno starfruit kui, 33:58 kanggo masuh dod tiro, kanggo sebo 34:03 mengko sore. Cleanse your chest, rauh, 34:10 fight for it, get that pentagonal 34:12 starfruit, meaning Islam. For what? To 34:17 purify ourselves, elements, black spots 34:20 , injustice, naughtiness, all sorts, 34:23 cleanse them. Because whether we like 34:28 it or not, we will definitely face the 34:30 creator and will definitely be asked to 34:32 account. Fammal misqola jarotin khairo 34:37 yaro. Wam y'mal misqola jarotin syaro 34:41 yaro. Doing good will bear good fruit 34:45 will be rewarded with goodness. Doing 34:48 bad, no matter how small, will 34:50 definitely come back to him. whoever 34:53 nandur ngunduh, whoever gawe nganggo, 34:56 whoever nyilih balikake sows a storm, 35:00 sows the wind, reaps a storm. The 35:04 consequences of life actually lie in 35:08 what we do. Wallahuam. Assalamualaikum 35:13 warahmatullah wabarakatuh. 35:15 Peace be upon you and Allah be upon you 35:18 . Masha Allah. So, if the question is 35:22 related to how far introspection will 35:27 improve our steps and thoughts, then we 35:32 are getting older. Let's go straight to 35:35 the question, Ustaz. Wait a moment. 35:43 This is from YouTube Rasil. The 35:46 question is from Mr. Ibrahim in Solo. 35:51 What provisions should we prepare for 35:55 next year, 2023, both spiritually and 35:58 worldly? Because there is information 36:03 that the global economic crisis in 2023 36:06 could lead to a decline in faith. 36:10 Moreover, our political world is busy. 36:14 Please advise, Ustaz, so that we have 36:18 intelligence in facing 2023. 36:22 The Prophet Muhammad (peace and 36:25 blessings be upon him) was sent to 36:28 mankind to even become a blessing for 36:32 the universe. When he had completed his 36:37 task, providing an example of how to 36:40 live in the face of upheaval, how to 36:43 deal with problems, how to deal with 36:46 crises, there is an example as a 36:48 reflection of the mirror of the Qur'an 36:51 in life. That is the behavior of the 36:55 Prophet, whom we are commanded to 36:57 follow as an example. Laqod kan lakum 37:01 fi rasulillah uswatun hasanah. It 37:04 really was in the Messenger of Allah. 37:05 That's a good role model. And when he 37:08 was about to die, he did not leave the 37:10 palace. He left nothing except two 37:13 things that were left to us. 37:17 Taraktu fikum amrain ladilu ma 37:20 tamasaktum bihima kitaballah sunnata 37:22 rasulillah wasunatan nabi. I leave you 37:28 two things that you will never go 37:31 astray. As long as you stick to both, 37:33 namely the Book of Allah and the Sunnah 37:35 of the Prophet. Here's one hold. This 37:39 is a talisman. In Solo the name is 37:42 Kalimosodo talisman. Sodo. 37:48 There are Javanese unen-unen. Senajan 37:52 toh sedino lindu kaping pitu gondelono 37:57 waton. Lindu was an earthquake, right? 38:00 Lindu is an earthquake. For example, in 38:02 the picture there are a lot of raos 38:05 enemies. There are many philosophies 38:07 thought by old people in the past. Even 38:11 if any turmoil occurs in this world, 38:13 political, economic, and so on, hold 38:15 fast to that waton. Cokoten waton. 38:20 Today's children don't understand waton 38:23 . What is waton? The legs connected to 38:30 what is the bed brace called waton. If 38:36 there is, the bed is strong, so holding 38:40 on to that is the benchmark that can 38:43 strengthen us from being carried away 38:47 by the current of waton, so hold fast 38:51 to the Quran and sunnah Gondelono 38:57 watonasimu jamia with the creed of 39:02 faith. Seeing with faith. Even if the 39:07 worries that are often thrown at humans 39:11 don't need to be thought too much. He 39:15 We won't, not yet, not yet our crisis, 39:19 already already a crisis of our own 39:22 minds. It's not certain whether it will 39:26 be a global crisis, or this, that's 39:27 according to human mathematical 39:29 calculations. Many human calculations 39:32 fail. Yesterday, did humans calculate 39:35 that on December 21st this will happen 39:37 like this, some even said that in the 39:39 year 20 the apocalypse will happen, ah 39:41 getebus. that's 39:43 just a human estimate. We pray that the 39:47 crisis that people imagine will not 39:50 happen. But at the very least, we must 39:55 have a strong faith and belief that 39:57 will endure, like the tree with strong 40:00 roots, its trunk reaching the sky, 40:03 steadfast in facing any storm. So, 40:07 prepare your faith, be patient, and 40:11 don't be swept away by the waves of 40:14 slanderous thoughts in life. And Allah 40:18 knows best. 40:19 Okay, let's move on to the next 40:21 question from Mr. Yudi at the Ar-Rahman 40:26 Mosque. Peace be upon you. And peace be 40:31 upon 40:32 you. How do we be grateful for Allah's 40:34 blessings when we face many trials? 40:37 Thank you. 40:39 Yes. Trials are actually blessings. 40:45 Because behind trials, one erases sins. 40:52 Two elevates one's status. The third 40:55 receives rewards. This is if we look at 41:00 it with the eyes of faith, the eyes of 41:02 faith, and 41:03 with conscience. If we calculate it 41:06 mathematically, thinking pragmatically, 41:08 what is truly suffering is suffering. 41:11 Suffering, lack of money is suffering, 41:14 a little pain is suffering because it 41:17 goes against one's desires. So, it will 41:21 feel tortured waiting for time to feel 41:24 a little long. Never mind a little, 41:27 even a lot feels a little. Eating goat 41:31 meat, goat satay, and the taste of 41:35 salted fish is due to a lack of 41:38 discernment. Therefore, patience, 41:42 understanding, and understanding. I 41:46 apologize for this, but I feel 41:48 uncomfortable speaking only in Javanese 41:50 . But, God willing, the intention is to 41:53 translate it. It can be understood even 41:57 more so because Indonesian sometimes 41:59 lacks vocabulary. Patience, patience, 42:04 and acceptance of this reality will 42:08 calm our hearts. We will feel that 42:11 behind the unpleasant events that 42:14 happen to us, oh, it turns out there is 42:17 wisdom behind the events. So with faith 42:21 , we will be able to read and see the 42:23 wisdom behind every event. I was once 42:34 on a trip with a group. 42:38 Okay. 42:38 There were two cars. I got in the car 42:42 in front. For some reason, someone said 42:47 , "Sir, Mr. Ustaz, Ustaz, just get in 42:50 the second car." It felt uncomfortable 42:54 for us, right? Oh God. Okay, I obeyed 42:57 because he was the leader of the trip 43:00 who arranged it, and we accepted it. 43:04 Perhaps there was wisdom in that Palai. 43:07 I moved to the second car. Then on the 43:12 way from Surabaya to Malang via the 43:14 toll road. 43:16 Heeh. 43:16 Well, sometimes these cars race in 43:19 front of me, overtaking one another and 43:23 so on. Right in front of me was the car 43:26 I was supposed to be in. The tire burst 43:29 in front of me, in front of my car. The 43:32 rear tire burst. Apparently the driver 43:34 was nervous or something. Then the car 43:38 turned 180 degrees. Then it tilted and 43:42 rolled three times. 1 2 3. 43:46 Astagfirullah. 43:47 Alhamdulillah. It turns out behind the 43:52 incident there is wisdom. That's why 43:56 there was a movie title back then, " 43:58 Misery brings pleasure." 43:59 He. 44:01 So misery doesn't necessarily have to 44:03 be misery. Inna maal usrir. Indeed, 44:07 hardship comes with ease. After 44:11 darkness comes 44:13 light. 44:13 Light. So life is just a matter of 44:16 living. People don't always suffer, 44:20 they don't always get sick, they don't 44:22 always get poor, things will change. So 44:28 that's a great book by Raden 44:30 Jengkartini, after it was published, 44:34 it was taken from the Quran. "Inna maal 44:37 usri with hardship comes ease." It's 44:41 mentioned twice. So, look with the eyes 44:44 of the heart, the eyes of faith behind 44:46 every event. Because God never 44:49 oppresses His servants. When God loves 44:51 His servants, they are given tests 44:53 whether they are illness, shortcomings, 44:55 and so on. Only God wants to see how we 44:58 behave. So faith can provide guidance 45:02 in this life. We go through life with 45:05 its romantic ups and downs, ups and 45:07 downs, how? When the road is up, how? 45:09 When the road is down, how? When it is 45:12 easy, how? When it is difficult? There 45:17 are also proverbs that say not proverbs 45:20 , but expressions of words. 45:23 Don't cry when the road is up. 45:27 Because the end of the climb is 45:28 definitely a downhill. 45:32 And don't laugh euphorically when the 45:34 road is down. Because the end of the 45:37 decline is definitely an uphill road. 45:39 Life is romantic, ups and downs, like 45:41 that. And Allah knows best. 45:43 Masyaallah. Ups and downs, now it's up, 45:45 what about downs? Okay. This is from 45:48 Eyang Sri Ustaz. Assalamualaikum. 45:50 Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi 45:51 wabarakatuh. May I ask a question, Kiai 45:54 . When I'm already late, I don't miss 45:58 praying, please help me be good at 46:01 being grateful for the blessings that 46:03 Allah has given me. 46:06 Yes. 46:07 Please enlighten me, Ustaz. How is this 46:09 ? 46:10 Masyaallah. Indeed, heaven is a place 46:15 for people who have two characters, 46:18 gratitude and patience. There is a 46:23 story, yes, a story, but during the 46:26 time of the tabiin tabiin tabi tabiin, 46:30 if I'm not mistaken, the story is about 46:33 a married couple, the 46:35 husband and wife can be called ugly. No 46:42 , no, handsome, but just so-so, lucky. 46:48 But he was lucky to get a beautiful 46:50 wife, Celita, whoever is not happy. Why 46:54 ? Yes, this is destiny. Sometimes 46:57 people see things differently. Well, it 47:03 turns out this man is a responsible man 47:07 . It turns out he's ugly, but his heart 47:11 , Masyaallah, he's responsible for 47:14 earning a living. He works hard, is 47:18 honest, and never messes up his worship 47:22 , especially. So when he comes home 47:26 from work, he gives her ngiprit. 47:28 Heeh. He. 47:29 Ringgit asuden kitik. Well, many people 47:32 must not know this. Like a dog, a dog 47:34 that even if it's walking, it's already 47:36 half running, then it starts walking. 47:38 This time, if it's hit like that, it's 47:41 even faster, and it's going home. What 47:44 did he do at home? He sat in front of 47:47 his wife. He looked at her beautiful, 47:51 pretty face. Then he nodded, mumbled, 47:55 and shook his head. His wife was 47:59 confused, what's my wife, Kang? 48:02 Why is it, Bang? He always comes home 48:06 like this. What's really going on, Bang 48:08 ? The older brother replied. 48:11 Subhanallah walhamdulillah. I'm 48:13 grateful to Allah. Someone like me, an 48:17 ugly person like me, can get a 48:20 beautiful wife. So I'm enjoying the hot 48:25 beauty of your face and I'm grateful to 48:27 Allah. His wife then said, "Bang, God 48:33 willing, we'll go to heaven." Her 48:38 husband's wife was shocked. "Oh, how is 48:40 that possible? How did you know?" Yes, 48:42 Bang. I know this brother, even though 48:45 his face is so-so, he doesn't. If 48:48 that's all I look at, we won't be full, 48:50 let alone want to buy it. But I saw 48:54 this brother when he was praying for me 48:56 , a person who was responsible, his 48:57 nightly prayers, his worship, his 48:59 honesty. Masha Allah. That, bro, is 49:02 what attracts me. If Brother is 49:06 grateful, I have to be patient. Well, 49:10 the second one is even more confusing. 49:11 Be patient. Why, Sis? Because someone 49:14 as beautiful as me gets a husband like 49:17 you. So what does this have to do with 49:20 heaven? Heaven, Bro, is the place for 49:23 people who have a character of 49:25 gratitude and patience. Well, gratitude 49:28 and patience are the fruit of faith. So 49:31 , my brothers, Rahimakumullah, 49:33 gratitude is extraordinary. must 49:35 continue to pray gratefully. And 49:37 another parent's prayer is husnul 49:39 khatimah. Ask Allah, "O Allah, leave us 49:43 in a state of husnul khatimah." Before 49:47 khusnul khatimah it is of course 49:49 accompanied by istigfar. 49:51 Astagfirullahalazim. 49:53 Astagfirullahalazim. O Allah, make your 49:56 servants grateful to You. Forgive all 50:00 our sins, O Allah, and let us die in a 50:02 good ending. And Allah knows best. Okay 50:06 , now the next one, Ustaz from the 50:08 servants of Allah. My child is less 50:12 concerned about his parents 'condition, 50:16 both physical and financial. I want to 50:20 be sincere, but why is he always sad, 50:22 Ustaz? Why is he having a child like 50:24 this? Is this all our sin, Ustaz? What 50:29 should we do in this bitterness? Heeh. 50:32 Masyaallah. This can only be felt by 50:35 people who already have children. 50:38 Indeed, children have various behaviors 50:40 . Some are fond of, care about their 50:45 parents, give without being asked. He 50:47 understands, understands irritation and 50:49 sambet. This parent's face looks heavy. 50:55 Oh, what is he doing? Difficulty. He 50:57 automatically doesn't need to be asked. 50:59 Now, this is a pious child. Masyaallah, 51:01 extraordinary. He always prays for 51:03 attention. He knows what his parents 51:07 like and what they don't like. This is, 51:11 thank God, a pious child. Well, there 51:14 are also children who, like the mother 51:16 I mentioned, don't care, don't care, 51:18 and so on. Well, this is certainly 51:22 wrong for their children, a big mistake 51:25 because it's not lacking in rumongso. 51:30 When parents have children, it's their 51:33 duty to care for them with an 51:35 outpouring of love. 51:37 They are obliged to finance, care for, 51:39 send them to school, and so on. But 51:41 when the child grows up and their 51:44 parents are old and can no longer do 51:47 what they used to, it becomes the 51:50 child's responsibility to care for both 51:53 parents. This may not be understood by 51:57 the child. Well, the problem is that 52:00 it's still called a child's behavior to 52:03 sleep and be lazy. This means that what 52:06 the child gets or the situation he or 52:09 she is in is likely the result of a 52:11 flawed and incorrect upbringing. 52:15 Usually, children are spoiled with 52:17 material things, spoiled with whatever 52:19 they want because their parents have it 52:21 . On the one hand, they may be happy 52:24 with nice clothes, have a car, go to 52:26 school early, and have a lot of pocket 52:28 money. But on the other hand, parents 52:32 are actually carving their souls into 52:34 people who are small and care less 52:37 about others. What is ingrained in 52:39 their hearts is the belief that life 52:42 must have everything. If they lack even 52:45 a little, they will suffer. All they 52:48 have is demands. Not how to provide, 52:51 but how to spend. Whose fault? The 52:54 parents' fault. Wrong parenting. 52:56 H. But children who are educated with 52:59 discipline, with qanaah, not 53:01 excessively, are taught a sense of 53:03 responsibility, yes, at home there is 53:05 work, this work, you are this part, you 53:08 are this part, and so on. So this forms 53:11 the character of a person who is 53:12 responsible, considerate, caring and 53:14 understands his obligations. In this 53:17 case, Mrs. One is sad, yes, sad, yes, 53:22 but pray to Allah. Don't depend on 53:26 children, depend on God. God willing, 53:29 Allah is the greatest provider of 53:32 sustenance. Allah is the most helpful, 53:35 the most protective. God's faucets and 53:37 help are everywhere. As long as we are 53:40 close to Allah. Wake up that night 53:42 tahajjud, ask Allah for forgiveness. 53:44 Pray duha time at duha time. If you 53:47 pray five times a day on time, if you 53:50 are old, one of your obligations is to 53:52 resign to Prabon Madek Pandito. So, 53:56 let's leave worldly affairs behind in 53:58 the sense of what it's called not 54:01 pushing ourselves, then we are 54:03 determined to get closer to Allah 54:06 subhanahu wa taala, insyaallah 54:08 hasbunallah wa nikmal Wakil nikmal 54:11 Maula Wikman Nasir la haula wala 54:13 quwwata illa billah, 54:16 hopefully we can all do it because I 54:19 was reminded by Ustaz that if you don't 54:21 please your child, your child will be 54:24 unlucky. Oh dear. That's right. 54:27 So whatever our children do, let's 54:29 accept it sincerely even though we are 54:32 disappointed. Ustaz, there is still a 54:34 little time. This is the last question 54:36 from a woman, of course, even though 54:38 there is no name. Ustaz, if my husband 54:42 gets older, his worship increases, but 54:45 his selfishness also increases, what 54:48 should I do, Ustaz? Yes, what is a 54:54 husband and wife? Garwo siaring nyowo. 55:00 Slowly the soul. Two different souls 55:02 become one. Tied by the bond of 55:05 marriage. In this case, they are united 55:09 together so that they can live a 55:12 blessed life in their old age and can 55:14 gain Allah's pleasure. This is what is 55:16 important. So, mutual understanding. 55:19 Religion has taught us to be humble and 55:22 considerate. Being humble and 55:26 considerate. Advising one another, 55:29 reminding one another with patience and 55:32 compassion. 55:34 Talking face to face in an open 55:37 atmosphere, chatting. Then what is it 55:45 called? Expressing one's feelings and 55:50 so on. I think that would be better. 55:53 And indeed, when we are old, we both 55:56 enjoy listening to lectures, attending 55:59 religious studies, reading the Quran, 56:04 and praying in congregation. That is 56:07 what makes our hearts peaceful and our 56:09 egos disappear. Hopefully, 56:12 that can be achieved. 56:15 Although it doesn't always mean 56:17 increased faith, it also means 56:19 increased patience, right, Ustaz? 56:22 Okay, Ustaz. Let's summarize our 56:24 discussion. 56:25 Okay. Alhamdulillah. Ayyuhal ikhwah 56:27 rahimakumullah, my brothers and sisters 56:30 , Muslims everywhere. This is a glimpse 56:35 of the wisdom behind the passage of 56:40 time. increase and decrease. Let us 56:45 take wisdom and lessons to be wiser so 56:48 that we who go through it will be 56:51 meaningful in this life. Hopefully 56:55 there is benefit. Please forgive all 56:57 shortcomings and mistakes. Wabillahi 56:59 taufik wal hidayah. Wassalamualaikum 57:01 warahmatullah wabarakatuh. 57:03 Waalaikumsalam warahmatullah 57:05 wabarakatuh. Thank you Ustaz Abul 57:08 Hidayah. Hopefully yes. If hair turns 57:12 gray, teeth fall out is a normal thing. 57:17 Hopefully our awareness does not fall. 57:20 To continue to hold tightly to the 57:22 values of truth. Regarding the 57:25 financial crisis, Ustaz said it could 57:27 happen as long as it is not a moral 57:29 crisis. Masyaallah. Good brothers and 57:32 sisters. Thank you very much for this 57:34 togetherness. Subhanaka Allahumma 57:37 wabihamdika asadu alla ila anta 57:39 astagfiruka waubu ilaih. Billahi taufik 57:42 wal hidayah. Wassalamualaikum 57:44 warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. 
