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1:30 Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Peace be upon 1:33 you warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Brother 1:35 and sister, may Allah have mercy on us. 1:38 Alhamdulillah, thank God, we are 1:39 blessed with the opportunity to be 1:41 together in this morning's sermon. 1:46 Hopefully, today's discussion will also 1:49 make us understand more about how to 1:53 move closer to whatever is our duty and 1:56 obligation in this life. Are you all 2:00 healthy? Alhamdulillah. Let's not 2:03 forget to recite salawat for the leader 2:05 of the Ummah, Muhammad Rasulullah 2:07 sallallahu alaihi wasallam. May we 2:10 receive his intercession and be 2:13 reunited with him at the time we long 2:17 for in the final day. Brother and 2:22 sister, Ustaz Abul Hidayah Saoji is 2:24 ready for us and earlier off air he 2:27 said, "There are rewards and advantages 2:30 in providing for the family." Masha 2:34 Allah. This is the topic of our 2:37 discussion from chapter 7 of the book 2:39 Meniti Jalan Surga, if I'm not mistaken 2:42 , page 169. Okay, let's greet him. 2:45 Peace be upon you, Ustaz. 2:47 >> Peace be upon you, O Allah. 2:50 >> Alhamdulillah, I will soon provide 2:52 spiritual nutrition related to 2:55 providing for my family, Ustaz. 2:57 >> God willing. 2:58 >> Okay, please go ahead, Ustaz. 2:59 >> E bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Peace be 3:06 upon you, O Allah. 3:08 >> Peace be upon you, O Allah. 3:11 >> Alhamdulillahilladzi arsala rasulahu 3:15 bilhuda winil haq liyudhirahu aladdini 3:18 kullihi wa kafa billahi syahida. Ashadu 3:23 alla ilahaillallah wahdahu la 3:26 syarikalah wa ashadu anna muhammadan 3:28 abduhu wa rasuluhu la nabiya ba'da. 3:34 Allahumma sholli wasallim ala nabiyina 3:37 Muhammadin wa alaalihi wa ashabihi 3:39 waman tabiahum bisanin ila yaumil 3:42 qiamah. Masyaallahu kan wama lam yasya 3:47 lam yakun la haula wala quwwata illa 3:49 billah. Amma ba'd. Come on, Ikhwah, may 3:54 Allah's blessings be upon you. 3:55 Alhamdulillah, all praise to Allah. All 3:59 virtues, virtues are his. We live, God 4:04 gives life. We are smart, Allah gives 4:08 us intelligence. We are rich, Allah 4:11 gives us sustenance, wealth. We are 4:14 great because God gives us greatness. 4:16 And we have 4:19 >> various kinds of advantages and 4:21 priorities that actually belong to 4:24 Allah which are entrusted to us. What 4:29 does it mean? The blessings that we 4:33 have, that we enjoy are actually 4:38 capital that God has given us to use as 4:42 an instrument to obtain glory, 4:45 happiness, glory, and the height of our 4:49 dignity by God within the span of time 4:53 given the opportunity throughout our 4:56 lives. So don't let us get trapped and 5:01 waste the blessings that Allah has 5:03 given us which have been distributed in 5:06 such a way by Allah with all fairness. 5:10 If it passes or we don't function it 5:13 properly, then we will become human 5:16 losses. Across time, up to 50, 60, 70, 5:23 some more. But it does not provide 5:27 beneficial fruit as God intended. God's 5:30 word is true. 5:31 Auzubillahiminasyaitanirrajim. Wal 5:34 beautiful innal insana lafi khusrin 5:38 illalladzina amanu wa amilus shihati 5:41 watawaso bilhaq wat tawu bisobr. By 5:46 Allah for the sake of original wal time 5:48 . For the sake of short time. Indeed, 5:53 humans are in a state of loss. 5:58 >> Really at a loss. Losses are usually 6:03 used for business, trading. Never mind 6:06 making a profit, sometimes the capital 6:08 runs out. 6:09 >> Hey. 6:10 >> This is a real picture in our lives. 6:12 Many people lose because of what? The 6:16 capital that God gives us, age, time, 6:18 energy, thoughts, greatness, 6:20 intelligence, wealth, turns out to have 6:23 no fruit. It's 6:24 >> just finished. Spent along unclear, 6:30 meaningless, and qualityless paths, not 6:33 reflecting the qualities capable of 6:36 producing faith and righteous deeds in 6:40 a two-dimensional life. The vertical 6:44 dimension. How should he acknowledge 6:48 himself as a servant of Allah Subhanahu 6:51 wa Ta'ala, to what extent is his 6:54 submission, obedience, sincerity, 6:59 acceptance of fate and always thinking 7:04 well of Him, not complaining or blaming 7:08 Allah, and so on. This relationship of 7:12 piety towards Allah is the first 7:13 dimension. But this alone is not enough 7:17 because a person who has a good 7:20 relationship with Allah, a person who 7:22 is pious towards Allah, must still be 7:25 equipped with the second dimension, 7:27 namely the horizontal dimension. Our 7:31 quality will be determined by how we 7:33 interact with others. Whether he is a 7:37 good or bad person in interactions, in 7:40 attitudes, in actions. So the Prophet 7:45 Muhammad emphasized, khairun nas 7:48 anfauhum linnas. The best people are 7:52 those who provide the most benefit to 7:54 others, to many people. This means that 7:58 it is indeed our duty to produce good 8:01 deeds. And it's true that if someone 8:07 has a vision for their life, their 8:09 personal mission statement is that life 8:12 is a journey of devotion, abbreviated 8:14 as worship in the broadest sense. From 8:19 that will come forth products of 8:22 righteous deeds that give goodness to 8:25 others, providing benefits. This is the 8:30 second parameter. So, let's not let our 8:35 time pass as people who lose. Because 8:38 the potential that Allah has given us, 8:41 an extraordinary capital that is 8:44 priceless if it does not produce 8:46 positive results in life with these two 8:49 dimensions of value. Ayyuhal ikhwah 8:55 rahimakumullah, we must continuously 8:57 express gratitude. Alhamdulillah. 8:59 Alhamdulillah. Because this sentence 9:03 also reminds us that all praise, all 9:05 goodness, virtue, and glory belong to 9:07 Allah, meaning that what we have is 9:09 entrusted to us by Allah, not ours. 9:14 >> Therefore, we realize that we actually 9:16 own nothing. Therefore, when we face 9:21 disasters and so on, the dhikr is inn 9:25 lillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun. 9:28 >> That reminds us. Never mind lost items, 9:32 never mind loved ones going to meet 9:35 Allah or dying. We are ourselves, inna, 9:39 we are truly lillah, belonging to Allah 9:43 . So don't think that we are our own 9:47 and do as we please, as our own 9:48 daughter. We belong to Allah. We were 9:52 given this physical cage to be able to 9:54 live in the world. The spirit remains 9:56 eternal. Later when we return home, we 9:59 change realms from the worldly realm to 10:01 the realm of barzakh. Then we are asked 10:04 to take responsibility, "Oh, this 10:05 person is indeed qualified to enter 10:06 heaven. Oh, this person is indeed not 10:09 qualified to enter hell because of his 10:12 sins." 10:14 >> But the spirit will remain eternal with 10:16 Allah's permission. Therefore, let us 10:20 continually be grateful to Allah. God 10:24 willing, if servants or all of us are 10:26 always grateful to Allah in everything, 10:29 things will be good. As long as the 10:34 motivation is life is a journey of 10:36 devotion. Life is worship. Life is 10:42 devotion. If devotion means devoting 10:44 oneself. 10:46 >> Mangawulo Gusti kamurpeng mati. We 10:49 become servants who serve. What is the 10:52 name? Kawulo serves himself whatever is 10:55 ordered samina wa'na. But his service 10:58 is to Allah, not to the stomach. 11:02 Serving not to humans, not to the thaut 11:05 , not to Satan, not to jinn, but to 11:07 Allah. Serving oneself to Allah. This 11:12 means that the journey of life, which 11:14 is around 60-70 years, is pure devotion 11:17 . So this believer becomes motivated 11:23 that life is a journey of devotion. If 11:26 devotion does require struggle. It 11:30 requires struggle. If struggle means 11:34 sacrifice. He. 11:36 >> Then our value will be determined by 11:38 the extent to which we have made that 11:40 sacrifice. This means that every moment 11:46 of ourselves must be able to produce 11:48 good deeds. 11:51 >> Masyaallah. 11:52 >> As our contribution to a life dedicated 11:57 to Allah. Well, this is what Allah 12:01 describes in Surah Ibrahim verses 24 12:04 and 25. 12:08 >> That the thayyibah sentence, the basis 12:11 of faith, "La ilahaillallah", if it is 12:13 embedded in the heart, imprinted in the 12:16 soul, it will be described as a " 12:18 kasajaratin" thayibatin tree. A good 12:22 tree, not a bad tree. If the tree is 12:25 good, its roots are strong, piercing 12:27 the earth; even in the dry season the 12:32 leaves do not wither because its roots 12:34 are deep. In the rainy season, there 12:37 are storms, there are winds, he is 12:39 steadfast because he is able to 12:40 withstand various kinds of tests and 12:42 temptations. So, this sturdy one is 12:46 able to grow a towering trunk because 12:48 it can absorb a lot of food. This is 12:53 his dignity will increase over time, 12:55 not become weaker. Then his humanity 13:00 will be higher, his spiritual values 13:03 will be better. The longer he lives, 13:07 the wiser, the more diligent his 13:09 worship. The richer, the more loman, 13:12 the more generous, the more good deeds. 13:15 The higher his rank and position, the 13:17 more he will benefit the people he 13:19 leads and so on. That is a believer. 13:22 Because the basis is the sentence 13:24 Lailahaillallah. That there is no God 13:27 but Allah. That life is devotion only 13:29 to Allah, Lord of the universe. All his 13:32 deeds are dedicated only to Allah. Not 13:34 for the sake of praise, not for 13:36 popularity, not for personal gain. That 13:40 is a believer. A tall tree will grow 13:47 branches and twigs that stretch in all 13:50 directions, to the west and to the east 13:53 , north and south. Don't continue with 13:57 the song of the saint from durian 13:59 season to rambutan season who can't 14:01 find a partner. No. But it stretches 14:05 north and south and with lush leaves. 14:10 We see a sturdy tree, a beautiful one, 14:14 its leaves are thick, green, beautiful 14:18 to the eye, soothing our vision. So 14:22 beautiful, cool, refreshing. Taking 14:27 shelter under a shady tree will feel 14:29 comfortable. Extraordinary. So 14:34 befriending a believer, befriending a 14:36 believer, especially under the 14:39 leadership of a believer. If our 14:43 leaders were like us, taking shelter 14:47 under a shady tree in the hot sun 14:50 during the day, it would be comfortable 14:53 . It can be wild, eventually different 14:59 wild Sundanese, wild, finally sleepy, 15:01 very comfortable. So this, if the 15:07 motivation of human life is returned to 15:09 its natural state, God willing, Allah 15:12 will give birth to life, the creation 15:15 of a comfortable and safe nuance and 15:17 atmosphere of life. You can be wild 15:21 under a tree, try sleeping. Don't 15:24 believe it, later try it when it's hot, 15:27 just roll out a mat and then under the 15:29 tree for a long time wild, masyaallah 15:31 you will fall asleep comfortably. And 15:36 not only that, Tutiulaha bidha, a large 15:39 tree, a tree with strong roots, lush 15:42 leaves, gives fruit every season 15:44 without being asked. There are farmers 15:49 who plant fruit, they don't cut the 15:52 fruit, no, just let it grow fruit 15:55 itself every season without being 15:58 ordered and the fruit is a form of 16:01 positive contribution in life. Whoever 16:05 will pick it is welcome tafadol, let it 16:11 be enjoyed by animals, by creatures, by 16:15 humans, by whoever the tree is every 16:18 season throughout its life. Well, this 16:23 is the picture of humans who set out in 16:26 this life as a motivation for worship 16:29 will give birth to gratitude and he 16:31 will understand the true task of life 16:34 in the world. 16:36 >> He said ngerti sangkan paraning tu mati 16:40 . He is aware of where he comes from, 16:43 who created him. If he is brave, who 16:47 gives him his bravery, if he is smart 16:49 he is aware of who gives him 16:50 intelligence. Not himself. If he 16:53 becomes rich, a conglomerate, 16:55 especially he does not puff out his 16:57 chest, but he knows very well that it 16:59 is a blessing from Allah Subhanahu wa 17:01 taala. So, the more a believer is given 17:06 blessings by Allah, the more he bows 17:09 down. The philosophy used is rice. 17:12 >> Heeh. 17:13 >> The fuller it is, the more it bends, 17:15 the fuller it is. The fuller it is, the 17:17 more it bends. That's a believer. The 17:20 more pious, the more patient, the more 17:23 sincere, the more good deeds, the more 17:26 smiles, the more respected, and the 17:28 more people like them. Masyaallah, the 17:31 true blessing if this is used by 17:33 religion, not just to get caught up in 17:36 the routine rituals practiced in life. 17:40 From this life motivation alone, God 17:42 willing, it reflects the ability to 17:44 spread rahmatan lil alamin (blessings 17:46 for the universe), as the mission given 17:49 to the prophets, especially the Prophet 17:51 Muhammad. Wama arsalnaka illa rahmatan 17:53 lil alamin (blessings for the universe) 17:55 . Yes, starting from personalities 17:57 whose motivations are right, their 17:59 steps are right, their deeds are right, 18:02 and so on. Ladies and gentlemen, my 18:06 Muslim brothers and sisters everywhere. 18:09 In several broadcasts, I said there are 18:12 three don'ts. Do you still remember? 18:16 >> Red jacket, don't forget history. 18:21 Because it was August, then continued 18:24 in September. In August, I reminded 18:29 them of Indonesia's history, that the 18:33 80th proclamation of independence, one, 18:36 or the 81st, or two, meant "e" until 18:40 they forgot. Ah, that means remembering 18:45 God's grace, God's mercy. Given a long 18:49 nation, abin nyungaripaloh cinawi. Toto 18:54 titi setenram, we should be grateful. 18:59 And don't forget the history in 19:01 question, namely the founding fathers 19:04 who fought, sacrificing their lives for 19:06 Indonesia's independence. After 19:09 independence, the state was established 19:11 . The form of the state was a republic. 19:15 Then the foundation of the state was 19:17 Pancasila. The first principle is 19:19 Belief in the One Almighty God. In the 19:22 historical process, it is to determine 19:25 the form and direction of the state. 19:28 Well, here, what is often forgotten is 19:33 that the majority consequence of 19:34 democracy should be an Islamic state. 19:39 Because the majority, with democratic 19:41 theory, cannot be like that. But 19:44 Muslims don't insist on that. They 19:47 don't insist on a monopoly, they still 19:49 listen to the voices of their fellow 19:50 countrymen. Ah, let's not make that a 19:54 unitary state. Please. Be a unitary 19:58 state, not a religious state. But what 20:04 needs to be remembered is that I have 20:07 repeatedly reminded us that we often 20:09 easily forget that this is not a 20:11 religious state but also not a secular 20:14 state where anything can be done as it 20:17 pleases, material things are everything 20:19 , not a hedonistic state only seeking 20:22 momentary pleasures, let alone an 20:24 atheistic state. So it is not a 20:27 religious state, but it is also not a 20:30 secular state, not an atheistic state. 20:32 So what kind of country is Indonesia? 20:34 Well, this is stressful. Underline this 20:38 is a country that believes in the One 20:40 Almighty God. So, the foundation of the 20:45 Indonesian nation-state is a godly 20:48 human being. This means that what we 20:51 will have to build is a nation whose 20:53 society is religious. A religious 20:58 society, a society that upholds the 21:00 values of akhlakul karimah (good morals 21:03 ), is virtuous, carries leksono (a 21:05 moral code), has good manners, and has 21:08 high politeness. This is what must be 21:10 maintained. It's not even 100 years old 21:15 and many have already faded away, 21:17 forgotten because of history. Lina 21:20 linggo, licok lilur because of wealth, 21:22 because of material things, forget 21:23 relatives, forget tonggo, forget 21:25 sedulur. This is troublesome, with 21:29 gojek begojek meaning be rowdy like 21:32 that, right? If people say there's 21:36 always a lot of commotion and bickering 21:39 , he's always 21:43 >> lying, and his 21:44 >> manipulation of the people is getting 21:47 more and more irritating. Look at the 21:52 policies the government isn't forming 21:54 to create a just, prosperous, and 21:57 peaceful society. Instead, it's 22:02 exploitative. I'm sorry, but I'm forced 22:06 to say it's indeed difficult to tax 22:08 people all the time. We'll just forget 22:11 about all the sanctions. Our 22:16 constitution states that the state 22:19 controls natural resource potential for 22:22 its own benefit, and instead, it's for 22:25 the greatest possible welfare of its 22:28 people. But the welfare of the people 22:32 themselves, not the wider community, is 22:34 what's being promoted. This is the 22:36 state's job, this is the government's 22:38 job. Okay, that's just a reminder. 22:43 That's the first thing. Red Jazz, don't 22:45 forget history. The purpose of building 22:48 this republic is to educate the nation 22:51 and improve the welfare of its people. 22:54 Don't forget this. Please listen to the 22:56 leaders who, God willing, have made it 22:59 easy to become great leaders, well-paid 23:02 , facilitated, and so on, to educate 23:04 the nation. This means education is a 23:09 priority and should be free. I want 23:14 free education. So we can end ignorance 23:18 and poverty. Don't remain eternally 23:22 poor without any improvement. Education 23:27 can end poverty and end ignorance. This 23:31 is the state's duty. It should be free. 23:33 Who knows when this will be achieved. 23:36 Hopefully, if Mr. Prabowo wants it, he 23:39 can figure out how to make education 23:43 free and easy. At the very least, it 23:46 shouldn't be free, it should be cheap. 23:49 School should be easy, not complicated, 23:53 not exploited for money. Second, health 23:59 . Because prosperity is impossible 24:01 without health. Health should be free. 24:06 Please, those who want to get sick, no, 24:08 no, no one wants to get sick. If you're 24:13 sick, you've paid taxes, it's difficult 24:16 to pay. If you're sick, you're asked to 24:19 pay. BPJS asks, you're asked to get 24:21 sick, you're asked to get sick. When 24:24 you get sick, you have to queue long 24:26 and get only three or four pills. Oh my 24:29 God, life in Indonesia is really hard. 24:33 I'm not making fun of this. I'm just 24:35 making a point and so on. Yesterday I 24:40 just reviewed this, reminding you 24:42 because learning requires memorizing 24:44 and repeating. Second, don't forget 24:49 what it's called? Don't forget the 24:50 second, what? Don't be lazy about 24:52 remembering God and praying. Why? Today 24:57 we face problems, many problems. Both 24:59 officials and the people face problems. 25:03 Don't rely solely on your brain. It's 25:06 as if you can solve problems with your 25:08 brain alone. Humans can't be that 25:10 depleted, their brains won't be able to 25:13 solve various problems and issues. Look 25:16 at the world today, it's always noisy 25:20 and noisy. Yet, everyone's brains are 25:23 great. Because they're not based on 25:27 conscience. If we use conscience, 25:31 reason colored by divine light, and 25:33 divine concepts as our foundation, God 25:35 willing, we'll be at peace. The 25:39 motivation for life is worship, 25:41 devotion, and contribution, not 25:43 acquiring. Giving is secondary. So a 25:53 few weeks ago, I said, don't be lazy 25:58 about praying and remembering God. Go 26:01 ahead and work, but don't forget to put 26:03 your trust in God. Always pray to God. 26:07 So, fill this heart of faith with faith 26:09 . Heh. 26:10 >> If faith that resides in the heart 26:13 appears in vision, vision is based on 26:16 faith. It appears in our heads, in our 26:19 brains, thinking is based on faith. 26:23 What emerges in our behavior and 26:25 attitudes is an attitude colored by 26:27 faith. Faith must lead to goodness, 26:30 virtue, nobility, compassion, and peace 26:33 . This is evidence of faith, which 26:36 commands us to do good. Third, don't 26:43 mismanage your wealth. Wealth can be a 26:51 double-edged sword, beneficial. But if 26:53 you misuse it, it 26:54 >> can harm you. There's a philosophy 26:59 behind it, a meaning behind it. Why 27:02 does God give you wealth? So if we 27:06 don't understand it, it can happen to 27:08 us. In this world, there are many rich 27:11 people who are unhappy. Many rich 27:14 people end up with disaster. Misfortune 27:19 brings blessings, but wealth brings 27:22 many disasters. Why? Wrong. Wrong care, 27:26 wrong management, wrong management. Now 27:29 , I'll read chapter 7 about the rewards 27:34 and virtues of providing for a family. 27:39 Here, a man is primarily responsible 27:41 for providing for his family. That's 27:44 the responsibility and obligation of a 27:46 husband or head of the family. When 27:51 witnessed by many people in front of 27:54 the marriage guardian led by the KUA, 28:00 she recited a vow called ijab qabul, 28:03 the handover of leadership, and at the 28:06 same time the handover of a creature 28:09 called a woman, yes, with all her 28:12 circumstances, her soul, her thoughts, 28:16 her background, handed over to a man 28:19 who would later become her son-in-law. 28:24 All her responsibilities were handed 28:26 over to the man. Then the ijab was 28:29 called and answered by kabul. Usually 28:31 the man responded with enthusiasm. This 28:34 is who I am, sir, this is who I am, I 28:36 forgot when I said the ijab kabul, so 28:38 enthusiastically, masyaallah, I accept 28:40 the marriage of so and so binti and so 28:42 on with mahaskian. Great. Valid. So 28:46 many said it. So, but actually behind 28:49 that, the responsibility is 28:51 extraordinary. This means that from 28:54 then on, he is able to lead, must be 28:57 responsible for all the consequences 29:00 and risks of being the head of the 29:03 family, especially providing a living. 29:07 Now, this is the command from Allah 29:09 Subhanahu wa ta'ala. Allah says I read. 29:12 Nauzubillahiminasyaitanirrajim. And the 29:17 good of the family is the good of the 29:19 family. And the good of the family is 29:21 the good of the family. And the good of 29:22 the family is the good of the family. 29:26 Which means and upon an old man, that 29:30 means the head of the family, the 29:33 father, the husband is obliged to 29:36 provide for and clothe his wife. This 29:42 means that a family with goodness is a 29:44 responsibility. So if the wife doesn't 29:49 eat, is hungry, used to be healthy, 29:51 fresh, sane, her husband's belongings, 29:53 her husband is stingy, but after 3 29:56 months she becomes thin, doesn't eat 29:58 enough, and is malnourished, because 30:00 her husband is stingy. This means that 30:04 the marriage contract was a lie. She 30:07 has a responsibility. The children do 30:09 too. Dare to step into a family, dare 30:11 to take responsibility. Wani faces it. 30:15 Well, he is ready to take 30:17 responsibility. So a husband who earns 30:20 a living is praised by Allah Subhanahu 30:23 wa ta'ala. Bah, even considered as 30:29 jihad fisabilillah. See, if the 30:32 intention is worship, I earn a living. 30:35 I work to fulfill my obligation as a 30:38 husband to provide for the family with 30:41 all the risks. Don't be considered 30:45 someone who works hard, a laborer, a 30:46 construction worker and so on with 30:48 rough hands, a stonecutter and so on. 30:50 No. It is noble. 30:53 >> His sweat is sweat in the way of Allah. 30:55 His dust is dust in the way of Allah 30:57 >> that can become a wall from the fire of 30:59 hell. His fatigue will be rewarded by 31:03 Allah as an eraser of sin. So when the 31:07 Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam met 31:09 a friend who shook hands with a 31:10 calloused hand. The calloused hand was 31:15 not his, not his, not his, not his hand 31:16 , the calloused hand was rough from 31:18 hard work, manual labor. The Prophet 31:23 held that hand and kissed it. This is a 31:27 noble hand. His hand is used to work 31:32 hard, to provide for the family that 31:34 provides life with Allah's permission, 31:36 the family, the children and the 31:38 children's wives were kissed by the 31:40 Prophet. This is the hand of the people 31:43 of Paradise. Well, masyaallah it 31:45 becomes noble. So husbands are more 31:48 serious about earning a living. The 31:51 intention is worship. The lazy ones are 31:54 those who just hang out, lying around, 31:56 smoking, drinking coffee, sleeping, 31:58 waking up later, will face a heavy 32:00 reckoning in the afterlife because they 32:01 have responsibilities. If you claim to 32:05 be a Muslim, you are responsible for 32:06 anything, even by working hard, with 32:08 manual labor, no one is despicable 32:10 because of that manual labor. It could 32:12 be that people who have manual labor, 32:15 laborers, construction workers, and so 32:17 on are more noble than those who hang 32:19 out in the office in a suit and tie, 32:21 not necessarily. 32:23 >> But because the intention is to worship 32:25 Allah, it becomes noble. The second 32:29 verse, yes, the verse is Al-Baqarah 32:31 verse 233. Then in the next verse, lifi 32:40 duzu saatim min saatihi waman qudiro 32:44 alaihi rizquhu falyufik mimma atahullah 32:48 la yukallifulahu nafsan illa ma ataha. 32:55 Atalaq verse 7 which means let those 32:58 who are able to provide a living 33:02 according to their ability. Well, this 33:05 means that their ability is not their 33:07 will, you know, it's different. The 33:10 ability is maximized by hard work, not 33:15 those who are lazy. It's not really 33:20 their seriousness, but Allah's 33:22 sustenance is different. What they get 33:25 after the maximum is their ability. 33:28 Well, at the same time, wives must also 33:30 know that wives should not be spoiled. 33:33 Yes, that is the husband's obligation. 33:35 Yes. But based on the wife's ability, 33:39 who knows, a pious wife is one who 33:42 accepts what is received from the 33:45 results of her husband's ability. She 33:51 will not ask for something beyond her 33:52 husband's means. Listen, wife, don't 33:56 give her salary, 1 month and 3 days ' 33:59 salary is all used up just to buy 34:02 makeup. Wow, her husband is borrowing 34:04 here and there. Ujol what ujol debt 34:08 that is trapped in the end usury 34:11 continues, well, it's troublesome for 34:14 her husband, he qonah accept ing pandum 34:18 qonah is accepting what pandum he 34:21 accepts what her husband gives her 34:24 husband has worked hard 34:27 >> he even though 34:28 >> her husband and his wife even if they 34:30 give her not much, it's just enough, 34:33 she will say alhamdulillah Bang, thank 34:36 you Abang for providing for her. 34:38 Sometimes there is no thank you. Give 34:41 money, why only this much, throw it 34:44 again, cut it. Javanese people say 34:47 throw a little bit, but not that far. 34:50 How is giving this much money enough? 34:53 Even though enough for a house is 34:54 enough for 1 month, giving is not 34:56 enough. How much is it? I want to 34:59 travel, want to go to Singapore, want a 35:02 body scrub, want this, want that. Oh, 35:06 her husband only works barely enough, 35:08 but his will goes beyond the limits. 35:12 Here. So this verse has a reciprocal 35:13 relationship. The husband is sincere to 35:16 the limit of his ability, but the wife 35:18 also understands her husband's 35:21 capabilities. A good wife will accept 35:24 and express gratitude. Then use it as 35:27 best as possible, not demanding more 35:30 than she can. And for those whose 35:34 sustenance is limited, it is Allah who 35:36 controls this sustenance. They should 35:39 provide for their needs from the wealth 35:43 that Allah has given them. Allah does 35:50 not impose burdens on anyone, but only 35:53 according to what Allah has given them. 35:58 There. So, husbands shouldn't be stingy 36:00 either. They already have little money, 36:03 they get little, and they spend it on 36:06 smoking again. Oh God, cigarettes cost 36:09 Rp 35,000, there are two more packs of 36:11 Rp 40,000. In the end, their children 36:14 can't go to school. The reason why they 36:15 can't go to school. Why, Mom? Oh, where 36:18 does the money come from? They don't 36:20 have the ability. The father works odd 36:22 jobs. Rp 80,000 for smoking. Why do you 36:25 say you don't have the ability? Don't 36:27 think about your children. Try Rp 36:30 80,000, no need for two packs. Just one 36:32 pack is Rp 40,000 or Rp 30,000 times 36:35 how much is that? 36:37 >> Yes. 36:38 >> How much is 30*30? How much is that for 36:43 a year? Come on, that can send your 36:45 children to school until they reach 36:47 their bachelor's degree, sometimes even 36:48 a master's degree. Well, that will be 36:50 accounted for later. Therefore, don't 36:53 mismanage your wealth. God knows best. 37:02 Then there is another verse in the 37:06 letter Saba verse 39, Allah also says, 37:09 "Wama anfaktum minaiin fahua yukhlif 37:13 wahua khairur roziqin. Whatever you 37:17 spend, Allah will replace it, and He is 37:20 the best of providers." Masyaallah, 37:24 this is very enjoyable if we understand 37:26 religion. So work cheerfully, work 37:30 responsibly. Then there are problems, 37:34 he relies on Allah. If there is a 37:36 shortage, he asks Allah. Even if you 37:39 have to cry, cry to Allah. Enjoyable. 37:42 Allah is all-hearing and loves His 37:45 servants who always intend and do good, 37:47 especially for their families. In 37:52 several hadiths of Rasulullah 37:53 sallallahu alaihi wasallam I convey 37:57 here I read from Abu Hurairah 37:59 radhiallahu anh hadith narrated by Imam 38:02 Muslim. Abu Hurairah said, "The 38:06 Messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi 38:08 wasallam has said, 1 dinar you spend in 38:10 the way of Allah." 1 dinar is a gold 38:15 coin weighing 4 1/4 grams which is 1 38:20 dinar. So how much is it in cash? If 38:25 gold costs IDR 2,500, that means 4 38:27 grams is R1 million. Yes mashallah. If 38:33 you take it out, you spend it in the 38:37 way of Allah and you spend 1 dinar to 38:41 free my slaves or other Sundanese 38:45 slaves. Yes, this real slave is my 38:49 servant. And you give 1 dinar to the 38:53 poor and 1 dinar you spend on your 38:57 family. The greatest reward is what you 39:01 spend on your family. Don't interpret 39:06 it as, "Oh, if that's the case, then 39:09 just give it to your family. It doesn't 39:11 need to be for the sake of Allah, it 39:13 doesn't need to be for the poor, it 39:14 doesn't need to be for others, it just 39:15 needs to be for your family." That's 39:17 not what it means. The stress, the 39:20 importance, the pleasure, the virtue of 39:24 providing for one's family, means that 39:27 it surpasses the wealth used for 39:30 Allah's sake. But that doesn't mean 39:34 denying charity in Allah's way. That's 39:36 the point. So, a husband who works hard 39:40 and is exhausted, provides for his 39:42 family, the reward is far better than 39:45 anything else. But that doesn't mean 39:49 eliminating charity for the poor, 39:52 forgetting jihad fisabilillah, 39:55 forgetting charity, and so on. The 40:00 second hadith, from Ali from Abi 40:03 Abdurrahman Sauban bin Badzad 40:06 radhiallahu anh, said, "The Messenger 40:09 of Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam has 40:13 said, primarily dinars if we use 40:16 rupiahs, what a person spends is dinars 40:20 or rupiahs spent on his family, and 40:23 dinars spent on his vehicle in the way 40:26 of Allah, and dinars spent to help his 40:30 friends in the way of Allah.'" Tuh. So 40:35 what this means is the reward and 40:39 priority of providing for the family. 40:45 But this does not mean forgetting the 40:47 struggle in the way of Allah and not 40:49 forgetting social interests. Especially 40:56 friends who really need help. So, with 40:59 open arms, we must provide assistance 41:02 as far as we can. Wallahuam. Hopefully 41:06 it's useful. Asalamualaikum 41:08 warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. 41:09 >> Waalaikumsalam warahmatullah 41:11 wabarakatuh. Masha Allah. Moreover, 41:16 today, Ustaz, is Youth Pledge Day, 41:19 October 28th. Hopefully, the spirit is 41:24 there. Those who are still young. Not 41:27 only those who are still young. Yes, 41:30 what is clear is that this discussion 41:32 is related to the virtues and rewards 41:34 of providing for the family. The 41:38 discussion of chapter 7, page 169, has 41:42 made us all understand more. We may go 41:45 straight to the question, Ustaz. 41:47 >> Yes. Please. Please. from Mr. Amsir 41:52 Tabrani in North Kemang. May Ustaz and 41:56 the entire Rasil crew be healthy. Amen. 41:59 >> Wakum. Amen. 42:01 >> Please give advice to those of us who 42:04 have entered the twilight of our 50s to 42:07 70s in facing life in this mortal world 42:09 . How can we not be too tempted by 42:14 worldly temptations and also the 42:17 turmoil of seeing the current 42:19 government that has not yet made any 42:22 changes for our beloved people. Even 42:27 though it has been 2 years, there has 42:29 still not been a complex problem that 42:31 can be addressed, the best way has been 42:34 found. Are we who are still living in 42:37 this country not blessed by Allah? 42:40 Ustaz, please enlighten us. Jazakallahu 42:43 khairan. 42:43 >> Masyaallah. Yes, this must be viewed 42:46 from various perspectives. This could 42:51 be a test 42:53 >> for the Indonesian people. Why a test? 43:00 Because perhaps many things practiced 43:03 by policymakers or those in authority 43:07 still don't align with the meaning of 43:10 justice and so on. Or perhaps, as a 43:15 whole, the Indonesian people still lack 43:18 gratitude to Allah. Therefore, their 43:21 religious practices are still lacking. 43:25 Moreover, there are many sins committed 43:28 . This could be because, as I have 43:32 repeatedly mentioned, in Surah Ala'raf, 43:34 verse 96, there are two formulas that 43:36 are certainties from Allah. If a 43:41 nation's people are faithful and pious, 43:44 Allah promises, "La fatahna alaihim 43:46 barokati minasamai wal ard." So, if we 43:51 are faithful, our people will be pious. 43:56 Well, in Indonesia, this should be the 43:58 case because this country is a godly 44:00 country. Its people should be religious 44:02 , not officials, not the common people, 44:04 the underprivileged, or the destitute. 44:07 Religious people should be patient, 44:10 sincere, earnest, just leaders who care 44:13 about their people, and so on. God 44:16 willing, Allah Himself promises, la 44:18 fatahna alaihim barokati minama wal. 44:22 The will of tawkid here, Allah's 44:24 provision is certain, namely, the sun 44:26 will open blessings from the gates of 44:28 heaven and earth. Try that one. This 44:33 means that if we still haven't felt 44:36 peace, tranquility, blessings in this 44:39 rich country, it means perhaps this is 44:42 partly because we, the Indonesian 44:45 people, are lacking in religion, 44:47 lacking. Lacking needs to be improved. 44:52 Honesty, peace, and compassion are what 44:56 need to be developed. And next, this 45:00 second one is Allah's promise. But if 45:09 their people lie, turn away from 45:13 religion in life, let alone commit 45:17 injustice, tyranny, greed, hostility, 45:21 and so on. Faakhadnahum bima kanu 45:26 yaksibun. We send down punishment. 45:28 Nauzubillahimzalik. We send down 45:32 disasters because of their behavior. 45:38 Here is one, Surah Ala'raf verse 96. 45:41 The second, perhaps, this is a lesson 45:53 in positive thinking, yes, positive 46:00 thinking. Perhaps we are being improved 46:07 as a positive test, meaning we are 46:09 facing the future as a nation. I can be 46:13 expected to live up to the expectations 46:15 of the people. Learning from these 46:20 mistakes will then lead to positive 46:23 steps, and positive evaluations can 46:25 also be the result. Therefore, patience 46:30 and reliance on God are needed here. 46:35 Let us pray for our leaders. Hopefully, 46:39 if not yet in this country, hopefully 46:42 in the future, wise leaders will emerge 46:44 . 46:45 >> Amen. 46:46 >> Yes, the economy can be controlled by 46:50 people with a social spirit, caring, 46:53 and concerned, responsible leaders who 46:56 fear God, who are fair and just, and 46:59 considerate of their people. So, what 47:04 are our steps? We shouldn't just blame 47:10 or regret, but we should pray. Praying 47:14 to God is something we can do in old 47:16 age, especially waking up at night. 47:19 Therefore, the elderly are expected to 47:21 always wake up at night to pray. Pray 47:23 not only for ourselves, our families, 47:25 our children, and our grandchildren, 47:27 but also for this nation. We pray that 47:30 this country will be led by just and 47:31 wise people. Hopefully, this blessing, 47:34 this wealth will be a blessing that can 47:37 bring humans a prosperous, just, and 47:38 prosperous life and so on. We continue 47:41 to pray, pray and pray. God willing, 47:43 God willing, Allah hears all our 47:45 prayers. And Allah knows best. 47:47 >> Yes. Um, there's no such thing as this, 47:52 Ustaz. Providing for one's family is 47:55 more important, even though everything 47:58 else is fine. Those who have two 48:00 families are lucky, right? Hehe. What 48:04 do you mean, Ustaz? 48:08 >> Lucky for those who have two families. 48:10 Oh, I mean there are two households. 48:12 >> Yes. Two wives are possible. I think 48:16 it's 48:17 >> better because I provide for the main 48:19 family, as he said. Okay. 48:22 >> What's the question? 48:24 >> Is it 48:25 >> better if there are three, and up to 48:28 four, that would be even better. If 48:32 that's the 48:33 >> real problem, I don't know exactly what 48:36 the family problem is. Whether it means 48:39 two families or two wives, 48:42 >> I think it depends. So the command to 48:47 have two wives, or three wives for 48:50 Muslims in Islam is conditional. It's 48:54 not a 48:54 >> conditional command. If it doesn't meet 49:00 the requirements, then don't. Don't 49:01 even try. He can be fair. Fair in the 49:05 broadest sense. He is indeed capable. 49:09 If a male leader is a capable leader 49:12 who can lead two families, wow, that's 49:14 great. Gentleman. But it's not easy to 49:19 manage, for example, what goods, no 49:22 matter how big a truckload, can be 49:24 managed. But leading two women who have 49:28 desires, have high tastes, have 49:31 delicate feelings, have jealousy and so 49:34 on. It's not easy. So don't try it, men 49:38 , even thick mustaches, are not 49:39 necessarily able to handle women. 49:42 >> Heeh. 49:42 >> Sometimes men are great, brave on the 49:44 battlefield, but they submit to their 49:46 wives. A mustache can sag, right? So 49:50 it's not easy. He is capable and 49:52 understands, can lead, yes, can be fair 49:56 . It's clearly more important because 49:59 having two wives, two houses, two 50:01 economies, two kitchens and so on is 50:03 certainly better. But yes, 50:06 responsibility in the true sense of 50:08 practicing that verse is to be fair, 50:11 wise, and give birth to goodness. Those 50:15 who were enemies before becoming his 50:17 two wives. 50:18 >> Once they become wives, they get along. 50:20 Masyaallah. Guyub, Sis, how about it, 50:22 Sis? Here, my little sister is going. 50:25 Please take care of the children at 50:26 home. Look, the old one is sick and the 50:29 young one is rubbing her face. Her 50:32 husband is looking at her, grinning. 50:36 Then what are their children called? 50:38 They help each other. The young one 50:41 gives birth, the old one takes care of 50:42 them. If they are close like brothers, 50:45 that's a great man. But if you lie here 50:50 and there, lie here and there, and 50:53 fight all the time, that's not sunnah. 50:58 If you practice a religion that doesn't 51:00 follow the sunnah, then slander will 51:01 occur. But if the income is good, two 51:05 families will definitely have more, as 51:07 long as it's sincere, it's wrong. Don't 51:09 be mistaken, your intentions must also 51:11 be fair. God knows best. 51:14 >> Yes, it's difficult, it turns out. Okay 51:18 , this is from Mr. Nana Sumarna. Peace 51:21 be upon you. Waalaikumsalam. 51:24 >> That's 51:24 >> right, prosperity is only for groups 51:26 and classes. When I was young, I worked 51:32 hard, basically dismantling things. So, 51:39 my question, Ustaz, will we receive 51:42 blessings in our old age like now? 51:47 >> Masha Allah. Allah is most merciful, 51:50 very thorough in repaying all services. 51:55 Verses that have been memorized very 51:57 well. Wam yammal misqaratin khair yaro. 52:02 Even as big as a small seed there will 52:05 be a reply. And it is called charity. 52:11 An old man who can no longer work hard, 52:13 but when he was young 52:16 >> he worked hard, grinding bones and so 52:18 on. So every day when his parents are 52:21 old, every day he gets a reward like 52:23 the reward he had when he was young. 52:25 >> Masha Allah. 52:26 >> So pangsun are not just civil servants. 52:29 God willing. Haha. 52:30 >> Even if we die, what we do in the world 52:32 is useful for our children and 52:34 grandchildren, by sending our children 52:36 to school to be smart, their worship is 52:39 good, their deeds are good, parents 52:41 don't need to intend gifts for their 52:43 parents. His reward will always flow. 52:46 Useful knowledge is certainly useful in 52:49 terms of material and so on. The 52:51 rewards will continue to flow, God 52:53 willing. Well, now that we are old, we 52:56 are old, of course we just need to be 52:57 looked after by our children. Our 53:00 children and grandchildren, the 53:02 community, with our prayers, we recite 53:04 prayers for all, God willing, as a 53:06 continuous charity that we can do when 53:09 our strength is exhausted, verbally, 53:11 with advice, with guidance, and so on. 53:14 God knows best. Okay, this is probably 53:18 the last one related to Jas Merah, 53:20 Ustaz, we are celebrating the 81st 53:23 anniversary of Independence. And if I 53:32 may ask more precisely, Ustaz? The 53:34 Youth Pledge for the current condition 53:35 of our nation? Ooh. 53:39 >> Yes, I think an oath shouldn't just be 53:41 made verbally. The Youth Pledge, the 53:45 three pillars of one nation, 53:47 >> one nation, one homeland, and so on, 53:50 are truly upheld. If this has become an 53:55 important event for this country, it 53:57 becomes a benchmark, especially for the 54:00 leaders of this country, so that 54:02 policies do not deviate from what their 54:08 predecessors have done. If what is good 54:11 from our predecessors, we follow it, we 54:13 uphold it, except for what is wrong. If 54:16 it is wrong, we correct it. But if what 54:18 is right, especially if it has become a 54:20 national youth pledge, then this is an 54:22 extraordinary support. With this, unity 54:24 can be realized through the Youth 54:27 Pledge. So we should hold on to the 54:30 principle of one nation, one people, 54:32 one language, and so on. And Allah 54:34 knows best. 54:36 >> Okay, brothers and sisters. In this 54:41 discussion, we will hear the closing 54:43 idea from Ustaz Abul Hidayat Soji about 54:47 the reward and virtue of providing for 54:50 one's family. Please, Ustaz. Come on, 54:54 brothers and sisters, may 54:54 >> Allah have mercy on you. My brothers 54:57 and sisters, this is the beauty of 54:59 Islam. Its characteristic is sumuliah 55:03 wat takamuliah. Complete and 55:07 encompassing all aspects of our lives. 55:12 Therefore, I often say, let us not get 55:15 caught up in religion in routine 55:17 rituals but without meaning. H. 55:20 >> So, religion should be immersed in 55:23 sibghah wjhah, immersed in our body and 55:26 soul, our thoughts, our outlook on life 55:30 . So that we are able to translate it 55:34 into the reality of life. In a 55:38 husband's household, responsibility is 55:40 based on faith, motivation, devotion, 55:42 and struggle. The same goes for a wife. 55:46 The intention of having a household is 55:47 a household that is intended to build a 55:49 household to be able to gain the 55:50 pleasure of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 55:52 Educating children is the same. To 55:55 become successful children, both 55:57 physically and spiritually. Prioritize 56:01 instilling faith and morals. Then, when 56:05 they reach adulthood, they will become 56:07 individuals who play a beneficial and 56:09 useful role, bringing blessings to 56:11 every child. Ultimately, it is asyu ila 56:15 mardotillah. We strive to earn the 56:18 pleasure of Allah, the Most High. This 56:22 includes how we share our 56:23 responsibilities to our family. A 56:26 husband is responsible. He is the 56:29 leader, the captain, and he must 56:31 provide for his family. That is the 56:33 greatness of men. So the Prophet 56:35 ordered, "You obey your husband, do not 56:38 disobey, do not hurt. And the husband's 56:42 pleasure is the door to heaven for the 56:44 wife. Because the husband is 56:46 responsible. Don't be a play-servant 56:48 husband who only works late, asks for 56:51 cigarettes, asks for money, hangs 56:53 around, is unemployed here and there, 56:55 is unclear. This means not showing the 56:57 language of a true believer. If a 56:59 believer is responsible. Provide a 57:01 living, the obligation of his children 57:03 is to end poverty, end ignorance, his 57:05 children must go to school. If I went 57:07 to elementary school, my children must 57:09 graduate. Whatever the way, son, don't 57:12 stop school. Continue so that Father 57:15 will be responsible. God willing, ask 57:16 for Allah's help. That's it. That's 57:19 what it means to be a believer who has 57:21 family responsibilities. And the head 57:24 of the family is responsible for 57:26 material matters, money matters, 57:28 matters of faith, matters of morals. 57:30 Because the husband also means he is a 57:33 teacher for his family. So if a wife 57:37 sins because she doesn't know religion, 57:40 in the afterlife the husband 57:42 >> Heeh. kerek-deret, 57:44 >> kebawah-bawak and will be asked to be 57:46 responsible. Therefore our 57:49 responsibility is so great, so with 57:51 religion, God willing, we will be a 57:53 guide and guidance to the right path. 57:56 Hopefully, Allah will forgive all the 57:58 shortcomings and mistakes of our 58:00 husbands in particular and all of us. 58:02 And also Allah will bless us, we will 58:04 be safe in this world and the hereafter 58:05 because we follow the guidance of the 58:07 Qur'an and the Sunnah of the Prophet. 58:09 Please forgive us for all the 58:10 shortcomings and mistakes. Wabillahi 58:12 taufik wal hidayah. Wassalamualaikum 58:14 warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. 58:17 Waalaikumsalam warahmatullah 58:19 wabarakatuh. Thank you, Ustaz. 58:22 Greetings to all who sent WA but only 58:25 gave a thumbs up. But thank you very 58:27 much for this togetherness. Hopefully, 58:31 as some of us still have to remember, 58:33 ojol lina linggol lilur. Hopefully we 58:37 all understand. Okay, thank you once 58:39 again for everything. Subhanakallahumma 58:42 wabihamdika asadu anta astagfiruka 58:45 billahi taufik wal hidayah 58:46 wassalamualaikum warahmatullah 58:48 wabarakatuh. 
