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0:08 Berasil TV For a united Islam. 0:18 In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious 0:19 , the Most Merciful. Peace be upon you, 0:20 and Allah's mercy and blessings. Praise 0:25 be to Allah, Lord of the Worlds, and 0:26 peace and blessings be upon the 0:27 Messenger of Allah, his family, his 0:29 companions, and thereafter. Today is a 0:31 very happy day. I express my gratitude 0:35 to the Advisor of the Silaturahim Jati 0:38 Karya Education Foundation, Mr. Fari 0:40 Talib, our teacher supervisor, and 0:42 Cece's father, Ms. Neno. We learn from 0:45 him. Masha'Allah. Then to my friend, 0:49 the head of the YPS foundation, Mr. 0:51 Ihsan Talib, and all the fellow leaders 0:54 who form the team at YPSY, starting 0:57 from elementary school. There is an 1:00 elementary school here, Ms. Neno. It is 1:02 called Silaturahim Islamic School, 1:04 currently only up to 5th grade. Pray 1:07 that hopefully next year there will be 1:09 a 6th grade, so we can prove that 6 1:11 years of togetherness for our children 1:13 in elementary school will, God willing, 1:16 result in children guided by faith. 1:19 Amen. Then there is the middle and high 1:22 school, which is a boarding school. 1:26 Well, can the volume be turned down a 1:28 little? It is specifically for boys, 1:32 Ms. Neno, here. So, it is a boarding 1:35 school. And as it happens, the 1:38 foundation head and advisor have 1:40 entrusted me for this fourth year to 1:43 lead these three units: elementary, 1:45 middle, and high school, as the 1:48 education director of Insan Mandiri. 1:52 Please pray that this school continues 1:55 to progress, becomes more advanced, and 1:58 produces children we truly trust as 2:01 parents, keeping in line with our 2:03 shared mission as parents. So, Ms. Neno 2:09 , firstly, once again, respected ladies 2:12 and gentlemen, every time I meet Ms. 2:15 Neno, there is only one word: inspire. 2:20 Let us give her a round of applause. 2:24 Our first meeting was in Gresik. Ms. 2:29 Neno did a duet with me. I invited her 2:32 to my school. It was extraordinary. 2:33 Exactly like today. At that time, I 2:37 received an inspiration from her. Maybe 2:43 Ms. Neno still remembers, she once told 2:45 a story about someone named Bill Porter 2:47 . A person born with cerebral palsy, 2:54 but because his parents and school 2:58 believed he was a star. Subhanallah. In 3:04 his time, Bill Porter became the best 3:07 salesman back then. The item he sold, 3:12 which was the hardest to sell at the 3:14 time, was a carpet cleaning machine, 3:16 ladies and gentlemen. And he used a 3:20 door-to-door sales method. Honestly, 3:25 from Ms. Neno's information, I browsed 3:27 and studied who this Bill Porter was. 3:31 It turns out there is a film about him, 3:33 but unfortunately, it did not reach 3:35 Indonesia. I even emailed his secretary 3:39 . He is now advanced in age and truly 3:43 remains an inspiration. Then, our next 3:47 meeting, the last one 3 years ago, when 3:51 performing at the Mawlid event at Taman 3:54 Ismail Marzuki, I attended with Mr. 3:58 Ihsan at that time, along with Bela and 4:02 Putri, and that became an extraordinary 4:06 moment. I told Ms. Neno earlier, 4:09 because of that, Bela met her soulmate 4:11 there. Right? Alhamdulillah. Well, 4:15 ladies and gentlemen, mothers and 4:17 fathers, what Ms. Neno said is true. I 4:22 have conducted research. This research 4:26 was from 4 years ago. I hope it is 4:31 still relevant today. I conducted 4:35 research on first-semester students. 4:39 You have all been first-semester 4:40 students, haven't you, ladies and 4:42 gentlemen? The questionnaire asked: 4:46 does your chosen major match your 4:50 passion? I surveyed several campuses, 4:54 and some respondents were shocked by 4:56 the results, Mrs. Neno. If Mrs. Neno 4:59 said earlier that 46%are already in 5:02 their profession. For these students, 5:05 93%felt, "Oh, I chose the wrong major." 5:10 Yes, that was 93%. Imagine that. 5:15 Therefore, if possible, we shouldn't 5:18 let that happen to our own children. 5:21 Because of that, ladies and gentlemen, 5:25 we are here to share this material on 5:30 being parents in the millennial century 5:33 , the 21st century. There are many tips 5:40 if you read, watch, or listen to them. 5:48 But please allow me today to share the 5:51 source of those tips. This, this is the 5:55 source, ladies and gentlemen. Because 5:59 if you do many things to make your 6:04 children cool but forget the source, it 6:09 is usually a waste of time. Now, the 6:14 first thing, ladies and gentlemen, I 6:17 will go straight to it. First, if we 6:20 want to be human parents, parents who 6:24 can truly accompany their children in 6:27 their time, it is the first thing. And 6:31 in my opinion, this is the foundation. 6:35 100%. We must educate our children with 6:41 noble character, or akhlakul karimah. 6:44 That is character, ladies and gentlemen 6:46 . Good character, ladies and gentlemen. 6:53 Times may change. We once lived in the 6:57 20th century, and before that the 19th. 7:02 Now our children are in the 21st 7:03 century. From our generation, there are 7:09 baby boomers, generations X, Y, Z, then 7:13 replaced by generation alpha, beta, and 7:17 so on. I have, or you can just look on 7:22 the internet, the birth ranges for 7:25 those generations. Whatever year you 7:28 were born, what generation is that? If 7:30 I recall, I was born in '69, which is X 7:32 or Y, something like that. Oh, Y, yes, 7:35 our children's generation is different 7:38 in this era. And the Prophet once said, 7:42 "Educate your children according to 7:44 their time." Ladies and gentlemen, 7:49 times may change, but the driver, the 7:56 lamp, the lantern, the light that 7:59 guides our children in their time, is 8:03 noble character, ladies and gentlemen. 8:08 Noble character, ladies and gentlemen. 8:13 It is useless for our children to be 8:14 cool or anything else if their 8:16 character is a mess. And remember, 8:18 ladies and gentlemen, character is 8:20 one-third of the religion. Sorry, 8:25 two-thirds of the religion—two-thirds 8:28 , ladies and gentlemen. It is even more 8:32 than half. Ustaz Husein says that 8:37 two-thirds of the Quran is about 8:39 character. That is why at SD 8:45 Silaturahim Islamic School, Mrs. Neno, 8:47 we have a Quran-based project material, 8:50 which is focused on short verses of the 8:56 Quran, snippets of verses, specifically 8:58 for character. Because this character 9:02 is the gateway to our children’s 9:04 intelligence, ladies and gentlemen. Now 9:07 , the children are asked to memorize, 9:10 as elementary school students memorize 9:13 faster than we adults do. Be kind to 9:18 your parents, that's it. But to make it 9:24 a habit, it should be a routine project 9:28 brought home. How to be truly polite to 9:34 our parents. Fathers, mothers, parents, 9:41 if we want to be modern parents in this 9:45 millennial age, let's surround our 9:48 homes and schools with noble character. 9:54 Simply put, character is attitude, 9:56 ladies and gentlemen. Easily, there are 10:00 two types of attitudes: vertical and 10:03 horizontal. Vertical is our attitude, 10:07 or our children's attitude, toward God 10:10 Almighty. Ladies and gentlemen, faith 10:13 manifests in many ways, like being 10:15 grateful to God for the blessings we 10:18 receive. And it's not just material 10:20 things, ladies and gentlemen. Worship, 10:25 all of those are attitudes or 10:28 characters toward God Almighty. That is 10:31 vertical. But it's not just this, 10:34 ladies and gentlemen, there is the 10:36 horizontal aspect. We often hear the 10:40 terms hablum minallah and hablum 10:43 minannas. And these are linked and 10:46 inseparable. Even God says, "The most 10:51 pious of humans." There is a hadith 10:55 from the Prophet that piety is vertical 10:58 , but it is driven by the horizontal. 11:02 Being beneficial to many people. 11:07 Because being honest is horizontal. 11:12 Hablum minannas. Caring for others, 11:17 caring for the environment, working 11:20 hard, not giving up easily, and so on. 11:27 Those are all names for character, for 11:30 good attitudes. Now, the problem, 11:33 ladies and gentlemen, is if we agree 11:36 that this is the foundation for 21 11:38 st-century parenting. The issue is how 11:43 to ground this noble character in two 11:47 places: home and school. At school, God 11:53 willing, here at this school, that is 11:57 what we prioritize through a 12:00 Quran-based project approach. So, 12:04 character is based on the Quran. The 12:09 theories are based on the Quran, which 12:11 holds absolute truth. We don't focus on 12:16 outside theories whose truths are still 12:19 relative. One theory appears, and the 12:22 next year it’s replaced, ladies and 12:24 gentlemen. The following year it's 12:26 replaced again. Our children keep 12:29 spinning around, sheltered by theories 12:32 of relative truth. Even though, as 12:35 Muslims, God and the Prophet have 12:38 already given us the Quran. We ask for 12:42 your prayers, ladies and gentlemen. Our 12:43 curriculum approach is a Quran-based 12:46 project. Grounding the Quran. Besides 12:50 having our children memorize it, we can 12:53 apply it to our daily lives. The 12:58 coolest era, that golden age, was when 13:01 Muslims held the reins. Why? Because 13:06 they were close to the Quran. Now, 13:08 those holding the reins are not Muslims 13:11 . Why? Because Muslims are far from the 13:15 Quran. So, that is the first point, 13:19 ladies and gentlemen, regarding schools 13:21 . As for the home, I ask you, when you 13:24 go home from here, let's be role models 13:26 . Just be role models, ladies and 13:29 gentlemen. If you are arguing with your 13:33 spouse, can you avoid doing it in front 13:34 of our children? Just go out somewhere, 13:37 to the town square or somewhere else, 13:39 right? Well, that's where the problem 13:43 ends, when there's conflict in the 13:45 household, and we do it in front of our 13:49 children, then that example is lost. 13:53 Sometimes, why don't our children 13:55 listen to us as their parents? I’m 13:58 sorry, but at home, we are stripping 14:01 away our good example one by one in 14:04 front of our children. It is actually 14:07 us ourselves. Now, this is the first 14:09 point, Ladies and Gentlemen. Let 14:12 character be the beacon in every era. 14:18 God willing, we will reach the 22nd, 14:20 23rd, and 24th centuries. Trust me. The 14:25 Prophet’s character when he became a 14:27 prophet; the companions were the 14:28 students, and the Prophet was the 14:30 teacher. They asked, "O Messenger, what 14:34 is the first thing you will do for us 14:37 as your students?" The Prophet replied, 14:40 "Innama bu'istu liutammima makarimal 14:41 akhlaq"(Indeed, I was sent only to 14:43 perfect noble character). Character, 14:45 Ladies and Gentlemen. Forgive me, not " 14:47 makarimal cognitive," it is not that, 14:49 Ladies and Gentlemen. Character comes 14:52 first. The second point, if you want to 14:55 be modern parents. This is the core 14:58 point, the substance, the meat of it, 15:00 Ladies and Gentlemen. You, as parents, 15:03 must be media literate now. You are 15:10 definitely literate in reading and 15:12 writing, but not necessarily all of us 15:14 are media literate. The way is quite 15:19 simple. If your child has a laptop, do 15:22 you know what’s inside it? What has 15:26 been opened? This gadget. This. This is 15:32 a black box. If we use it wrong, it’s 15:34 like a knife, Ladies and Gentlemen. If 15:36 we misuse it, our children can use it 15:38 as a killing tool, Ladies and Gentlemen 15:41 . But if used properly, a knife can 15:45 peel fruit, and we can have healthy 15:47 media consumption, Ladies and Gentlemen 15:49 . Now, sometimes, Ms. Neno, when our 15:55 children get addicted to gadgets, one 15:59 of the media sources influencing our 16:02 children has the highest percentage. 16:07 Right now, it’s gadgets. What is a 16:10 gadget? Any tool, basically, these 16:14 tools are gadgets if they connect to 16:16 the virtual world. In the past, a radio 16:22 was a gadget, but it didn’t connect 16:24 to the virtual world, so it was still 16:26 safe. But now, when I was an early 16:30 childhood education lecturer at UNJ, 16:32 there was an ICT syllabus for early 16:35 childhood. You must have received or 16:39 heard of it. If you bought your child a 16:42 PC back then, it wasn't allowed in the 16:44 bedroom, only in the living room. 16:48 That’s right, isn’t it? The monitor 16:51 couldn't face the wall, it had to face 16:53 away from the wall. So that when we 16:57 walk by, we can see what our child is 17:00 opening. That’s right. Now, it’s no 17:05 longer the season where our children 17:08 can only chat or browse in the most 17:11 private places. They can even do it in 17:14 the bathroom, Ladies and Gentlemen, 17:15 with this. And we are not the angels 17:18 Atid and Raqib. We can't follow them 17:21 into the bathroom, right? We can't get 17:22 into their rooms, Ladies and Gentlemen. 17:24 Therefore, parental mastery of media 17:29 and gadgets is an essential point in 17:33 this modern age. When our children lose 17:39 to the media and are controlled by 17:41 these robots, they are lost in this 17:44 crazy era, ladies and gentlemen. This 17:48 is very important. I rarely find, Mrs. 17:54 Neno, any parenting classes on 17:57 education, media, gadgets, and so on. 18:02 Until finally I once made a vlog that 18:07 was quite shocking. The first gateway 18:13 to our children catching a disease is 18:16 called pornography addiction. This is a 18:19 terrifying disease, ladies and 18:20 gentlemen. It's worse than a stroke, 18:23 ladies and gentlemen. This is 18:25 pornography addiction. The first 18:27 gateway is gadget addiction. Once our 18:31 children are addicted to gadgets, then 18:36 they are very close to pornography 18:38 addiction. Well, because of that, if we 18:42 aren't media-literate, we sometimes 18:45 lose to our children, and our children 18:47 will be influenced by gadgets. That is 18:50 the cruelty of the 21st century. That 18:53 is Generation Alpha, which is currently 18:56 extremely vulnerable to gadget 18:59 addiction, pornography addiction, and 19:02 others. 2000 9, Mrs. Neno, the data is 19:12 from 2018, so that was 10 years ago, 19:16 Indonesia was ranked 3rd in data on 19:24 porn site access, ranked 3rd. But from 19:29 2010 until now, ladies and gentlemen, 19:32 we are number one, just imagine that. 19:37 So, and that could be our children. Now 19:42 , may I give you some tips, the real 19:45 substance, the second point: let's be 19:48 truly media-literate so our children 19:52 are safe in this world and the next 19:55 from a tool called a gadget, which is 20:01 sometimes just like a knife; it can be 20:05 positive or negative. This school, Mrs. 20:10 Neno, uses digital modules, not books; 20:13 the children are given tablets. All the 20:17 materials are in there. Some parents 20:22 ask me, "Mr. Munif, won't my child get 20:25 addicted? This is a gadget, after all." 20:28 I say the difference between being 20:31 addicted or not is whether the parents 20:35 and school teach our children that this 20:38 black box is used only as a tool to 20:41 finish tasks, and that's it. That's 20:46 cool. It's just a tool to finish tasks. 20:53 But if this black box is no longer used 20:57 as a tool, they've gone too far. 21:06 Opening programs that have nothing to 21:09 do with the tasks. Tasks are broad, 21:12 ladies and gentlemen. Then our children 21:15 will definitely become addicted. 21:19 Therefore, when this tool is used as a 21:23 medium to replace books. Yes, a 21:33 replacement for books, ladies and 21:35 gentlemen, then God willing, it will 21:37 just be a tool. Our children will work 21:41 and learn effectively and efficiently. 21:46 Effectively and efficiently. Check, 21:51 check, check. This black box has added 21:55 value, ladies and gentlemen. Done. If 21:59 our children use this black box and 22:02 suddenly gain added value in their 22:04 learning and so on, that is positive. 22:07 That is not addiction. But if they are 22:10 already bewitched by this black box, 22:12 that is usually addiction. Now, there 22:15 is new knowledge, Mrs. Neno. It turns 22:21 out that to prevent gadget addiction in 22:23 children, you first have to check if 22:25 the parents are addicted to gadgets or 22:28 not. Well, I once addressed this with 22:34 parents, Mr. Ismail, which hopefully we 22:38 can do later. I have 15 questions. I 22:44 said, "Fathers, Mothers, please answer 22:46 honestly. These 15 questions, yes. 22:51 Answer them honestly from one to 15, 22:53 calculate the results yourself, and it 22:54 turns out more than half are addicted 22:56 to gadgets based on that questionnaire. 22:59 Well, that means our children have an 23:02 imitation habit. If the parents at home 23:07 are constantly holding their mobile 23:10 phones, well. Don't blame our children 23:13 for imitating, ladies and gentlemen. 23:16 That settles it, ladies and gentlemen. 23:19 There are two sources. There are two 23:22 sources. If we want to be parents in 23:26 this millennial era. Once again, 23:31 character is what is important. The 23:39 second, ladies and gentlemen, let's be 23:43 media literate. Go to places that teach 23:50 about securing our children from this 23:54 evil black box. Parents must learn. 23:59 Even at my age, I am still learning, 24:01 ladies and gentlemen. How can we make 24:04 these gadgets safe? That's it. And 24:09 lastly, ladies and gentlemen check it, 24:14 okay. And finally, as what was said by 24:20 Ms. Neno earlier, if we want to be 24:23 parents in this 21st century, here is 24:26 the third source, ladies and gentlemen. 24:31 Spark our children's talents and 24:35 interests. That's it, ladies and 24:40 gentlemen. Nowadays children succeed 24:46 materially, ladies and gentlemen. Our 24:51 children succeed by having a 24:53 professional career. If the profession 24:58 is just ordinary, it's linear with many 25:00 people. But in the 21st century, our 25:03 children are needed to be professional, 25:05 and God willing, this will have an 25:07 impact on this world and the hereafter. 25:10 Ladies and gentlemen, I will give you 25:12 key information. If you want our 25:16 children to have a professional career 25:20 after they finish school at any level. 25:26 Please, ladies and gentlemen, do not 25:27 forget to align that profession with 25:34 our children's passion. If our children 25:39 have passion attached to their 25:41 profession as Ms. Neno told us earlier, 25:44 God willing, they will be professional. 25:48 What are the characteristics, ladies 25:50 and gentlemen? Check it with our 25:52 children. If our children have problems 25:56 in their profession, they are usually 25:58 diligent. Ms. Neno said earlier," Mr. 26:04 Munif, we met 20 years ago and we're 26:06 still in education. "Yes, I have to be 26:10 persistent, diligent. That was what I 26:12 told you, Sir; Ms. Neno asked earlier," 26:14 Mr. Munif, how many schools have you 26:16 helped? "From the beginning back in the 26:18 Gersik era, my book 'Sekolahnya Manusia 26:20 '. I said at the office the data shows 26:25 127 schools that we have supported. 26:31 Some succeeded, some were so-so, and 26:35 some failed. But 127, and the majority 26:39 were indeed Islamic schools. Ladies and 26:43 gentlemen, professionals, do you want 26:45 your children to have a professional 26:48 career; are they diligent? If there is 26:51 a problem, can they solve it in their 26:54 profession? Are there many, ladies and 26:56 gentlemen? We see someone who has a 26:58 profession, hits a problem, can't solve 27:00 it, and ends up changing professions. 27:04 Next year they change professions, the 27:06 year after that they change again. Just 27:09 looking for a path, our children should 27:12 not be like that. They must be diligent 27:15 . What is the second one? If our 27:19 children have any profession later, be 27:22 it a doctor, a cleric, a preacher, or a 27:25 writer, they can suddenly produce 27:28 amazing work in that field. There are 27:33 many teachers whose professions are 27:35 mediocre because they have no notable 27:38 work. But there are many teachers who 27:40 are professional and productive. Many 27:42 doctors are ordinary, but there are 27:45 doctors who create great work. 27:48 Extraordinary. Well, that is why it is 27:52 our duty as parents to help our 27:55 children find their passion. So that 28:01 when our children have a profession 28:03 after school, this passion is embedded 28:07 in their work. The question is, what is 28:10 passion? Passion is an English word, 28:13 ladies and gentlemen. Passion is a 28:17 mixture of talent and interest. Mrs. 28:22 Neno already explained that earlier. 28:25 Are talent and interest really 28:27 different, Mr. Munif? They are 28:29 different. Talent is from God. From God 28:34 , ladies and gentlemen. Talent comes 28:38 from God. Potential talent may or may 28:44 not emerge because potential needs to 28:48 be ignited. But interest, it comes from 28:57 the environment, the challenge appears 28:59 to be the same as liking something. 29:03 Mrs. Neno’s son, Gifari, sends his 29:05 regards. We met back then right after I 29:08 finished high school, didn't we? Thank 29:11 God he is successful now. Now, that, 29:16 ladies and gentlemen, is the visible 29:18 feeling of liking something. Let's see 29:20 what our children like since they were 29:22 small, liking this or that, it could be 29:24 a talent, ladies and gentlemen. It’s 29:27 just that the source is different. 29:30 There is a sense of liking that we call 29:33 talent, which is sourced internally 29:36 from within our child, from God 29:39 Almighty. And there is a sense of 29:42 liking that is external, from the 29:43 outside, ladies and gentlemen. Now, it 29:46 is us parents who become the spark for 29:49 interest, the spark for interest, the 29:52 spark for interest so that their talent 29:54 emerges. and then talent and interest 29:58 meet. If our children have found these 30:01 two, ladies and gentlemen, like two 30:04 sides of a coin, talent and interest— 30:06 passion—God willing, our children can 30:09 overcome the crazy era of the 21st 30:12 century. That is it, ladies and 30:15 gentlemen. I have a short story for a 30:19 moment. I am a graduate of SMA Negeri 30:25 Sidoarjo. Now it has become SMA Negeri 30:29 1. The top high school. In my day, 30:31 there were no one or two, because there 30:33 was only one back then. Ladies and 30:36 gentlemen, in my third year of high 30:37 school, I was ranked 3rd in the whole 30:38 school, it was powerful, ladies and 30:39 gentlemen. I was called by the 30:43 principal to go up on stage. It wasn't 30:45 that I couldn't be ranked first, I just 30:47 felt bad for my friends, you know. Rank 30:50 3 was enough. But, there is a" but, "I 30:55 didn't understand what my passion was. 31:00 It is easy for people to be confused 31:01 about passion. Perhaps that happens to 31:04 you, ladies and gentlemen, when our 31:06 children take a major, we don't 31:07 understand what major it is. Confused. 31:11 Finally, I drew lots using paper put 31:17 into a glass. I got the Faculty of Law 31:21 at Brawijaya University, ladies and 31:22 gentlemen. So I chose that, and eh, I 31:25 was accepted there, ladies and 31:26 gentlemen. Imagine, the major was 31:28 chosen because of a lottery. And my 31:33 friend from the same school was forced 31:37 by his parents to go into architecture. 31:44 Because his parents worked as 31:46 contractors collaborating with Ciputra 31:48 back then to build West Surabaya in the 31:51 early days. His dad said," Son, you 31:55 have to be an architect. "You're my 31:58 only son, I only have two children. You 32:03 have to succeed me as an architect. 32:08 Papa needs this. You must be an 32:10 architect. My friend loved playing 32:13 piano, music. Right? After graduating, 32:18 he wanted to go to Jogja, but his dad 32:20 refused. He ended up as an architect. 32:23 An architect from Brawijaya. Do you 32:25 know, ladies and gentlemen? We were in 32:27 the same room, the same boarding house. 32:29 Different rooms. We were both from 32:32 Sidoarjo. What happened, ladies and 32:34 gentlemen? In the first week, my friend 32:38 was sent a drafting table. Architects 32:42 back then still used drawing tables. It 32:45 was incredibly expensive. Wrapped in 32:49 plastic, cost millions, sent by his dad 32:51 . What happened? He didn't even unwrap 32:57 it, ladies and gentlemen. Semesters 1 33:01 to 5, his GPA was around 1 point 33:03 something, at most 2.1. He was lazy to 33:08 study architecture. Suddenly, a special 33:12 moment, the power of interest, ladies 33:14 and gentlemen. My friend was a talented 33:19 pianist, but glory to God, He is fair. 33:24 There was an external interest; his dad 33:29 called, he was sick in the ICU. We both 33:36 went to visit because we were best 33:38 friends. We were allowed in to hear his 33:42 final wishes. I wasn't allowed, but my 33:47 friend came out after 15 minutes, 33:50 crying. The next day, we went to Malang 33:56 to study again. He was silent on the 34:00 bus. I said," Come on, don't be sad 34:03 anymore. "" God willing, he'll recover. 34:05 "What did my friend say? Do you know, 34:08 Munif, what my dad said?" Son, I don't 34:13 think I'll live long. "" I only ask for 34:18 two things from you, not much. "" 34:22 Finish your studies. "" Provide for 34:26 your mom and siblings by continuing my 34:29 business. "" That's all. "As soon as he 34:36 got home, he unwrapped that drafting 34:39 table, and he graduated before me, 34:42 ladies and gentlemen. Now he leads his 34:47 dad's company, a great contractor. An 34:52 expert draftsman, an architect. Even 34:54 though he had no talent for it. But he 34:57 didn't give up his piano. Ladies and 35:00 gentlemen, see the power of interest, 35:03 passion, and thankfully, his dad is 35:05 still healthy today. But we shouldn't 35:10 have to wait for parents to get sick to 35:11 spark interest, ladies and gentlemen. 35:15 There are many ways, right? Come on, 35:18 challenge their interests. Give them 35:20 challenges, and God willing, our 35:23 children's talent and interest will 35:26 meet to become passion. That is all 35:30 from me, ladies and gentlemen. I hope 35:33 this is meaningful today. Once again, 35:37 there are three. Noble character has 35:40 many components. Two, let's conquer the 35:45 media. This is the 21st century. It's a 35:49 century of rapid change because of 35:51 media. If we don't master it, we will 35:54 be controlled by robots, ladies and 35:56 gentlemen. And the third, God has 35:59 already given our children a curriculum 36:03 . Ms. Neno said earlier, their talent 36:05 is already there. It's us who must 36:08 truly spark our children's talent and 36:11 interest. Because every child born from 36:14 their mother's womb, regardless of 36:17 their condition, is a masterpiece, a 36:19 grand creation of Allah Almighty. And 36:22 surely our children have a mission for 36:25 why they were entrusted to us as their 36:27 parents. So, there you have it, ladies 36:29 and gentlemen. I hope this brief 36:31 session is meaningful. Thank you, Ms. 36:33 Neno, for being here. Extraordinary. I 36:36 was nervous about whether you could 36:37 make it or not. Praise be to God, you 36:39 could. Let's give a round of applause 36:41 for Ms. Neno and Mr. Oni. Peace be upon 36:43 you, and Allah's mercy and blessings. 36:53 Berasil TV for a unified Islam. Oh 
